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Island Son
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either a major playa or getting played major. I can't tell.
##spiderbaby##
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I just broke out of a 9 year monagamous relationship. I basicaly found out she had been on a few dates with other men. Now I knew about it for 2 years. YOU HERE ME PUC, TWO YEARS!
I was in love with this woman and I was raised in such a manner that you never give up on the person you love. After putting myself through the meatgrinder for 2 FUC$ING YEARS I hit a brick wall. I realized that this woman would never love me only. 9 years of my life wasted on a "learning experience" .
My point is that you may have your definition of love and thats cool, but the older I get the more I want someone who I can completely trust, someone who is honest and sincere and a good person. I dont know how old you are PUC but you sound exactly like a man who has fallen hard for the wrong type of woman(girl). Daised sounds nice but not a person I would have any faith in. If you want her to experience things of her age my advice is to "let her go" It will probably be the best thing for you.
I know you didnt ask my opinion but i felt compelled to write this.
sincerely
##spiderbaby##
*Daised- honestly you dont know what love is yet. you will know what i mean in due time. God this IS very depressing.
*KAYNE- I feel your pain bro.
I was in love with this woman and I was raised in such a manner that you never give up on the person you love. After putting myself through the meatgrinder for 2 FUC$ING YEARS I hit a brick wall. I realized that this woman would never love me only. 9 years of my life wasted on a "learning experience" .
My point is that you may have your definition of love and thats cool, but the older I get the more I want someone who I can completely trust, someone who is honest and sincere and a good person. I dont know how old you are PUC but you sound exactly like a man who has fallen hard for the wrong type of woman(girl). Daised sounds nice but not a person I would have any faith in. If you want her to experience things of her age my advice is to "let her go" It will probably be the best thing for you.
I know you didnt ask my opinion but i felt compelled to write this.
sincerely
##spiderbaby##
*Daised- honestly you dont know what love is yet. you will know what i mean in due time. God this IS very depressing.
*KAYNE- I feel your pain bro.
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HighIntensity
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The post by SpiderBaby is right on Puc...
Young girls are just that, to young. You are very much in love with Daised, and she is in "love" with you. But it is an immature love, a love that is based on the comfort of an older man that has helped her through some family trama.
How do I know this...BECAUSE I LIVED IT MAN...I always tease Daised because on every thread she posts 'I LOVE PUC." The way she talks about you is the way my ex talked about me. It was a near obsession, the posters I had in my room, she went out and put in her dorm room. She sleeped with my clothes and told everyone how much she loved me ever 2 seconds.
I thought I was true love, I though god this girl loves me so much. But it was an immature love, one based upon need and attention. If I could not be there for her every to seconds then she was sad and moody.
I only share my story with you because I pray you don't have to deal with the eventual pain that came at the end of my relationship. I fooled myself into thinking was was so mature...As it turned out she was very immature and it showed as she disrespected three plus years of a true man in her life, by spitting in my face.
I wish you and Daised luck, there in nothing like a romeo and juliet story book love...but don't get fooled like I did. Remember 18-25 is a world of difference, and the Daised you see today might not be the Daised of 25.
my .02
Young girls are just that, to young. You are very much in love with Daised, and she is in "love" with you. But it is an immature love, a love that is based on the comfort of an older man that has helped her through some family trama.
How do I know this...BECAUSE I LIVED IT MAN...I always tease Daised because on every thread she posts 'I LOVE PUC." The way she talks about you is the way my ex talked about me. It was a near obsession, the posters I had in my room, she went out and put in her dorm room. She sleeped with my clothes and told everyone how much she loved me ever 2 seconds.
I thought I was true love, I though god this girl loves me so much. But it was an immature love, one based upon need and attention. If I could not be there for her every to seconds then she was sad and moody.
I only share my story with you because I pray you don't have to deal with the eventual pain that came at the end of my relationship. I fooled myself into thinking was was so mature...As it turned out she was very immature and it showed as she disrespected three plus years of a true man in her life, by spitting in my face.
I wish you and Daised luck, there in nothing like a romeo and juliet story book love...but don't get fooled like I did. Remember 18-25 is a world of difference, and the Daised you see today might not be the Daised of 25.
my .02
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Warik
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Puc said:
As do I. I never bother trying to sway someone's views because I feel that people are either too intelligent or too ignorant to change their minds. I'd only continue an argument if it amused me or the opposing party. I'm no longer amused by you.
Argument adjourned.
-Warik
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HighIntensity said:
And that is my deepest fear. I will not kid on this point (and thanks for sharing). I know what and how I feel. but that is all I know.
Sometimes I feel like I am the savior not the love -- The white knight who can rescue. But, is it me she seeks or the solace I provide?
Looking into other peoples hearts is problematic, at best...
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