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Bachelor Parties
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I thank you all so much for your replies. I am totally against this bachelor party and do not see the need for them whores. I mean, why get married if a man still needs to sow his wild oats .
I was confused about this whole thing because when I approached my fiance with this, he said he was going anyway.
He also said that I was the only woman who worried about bachelor parties. I knew that wasn't true.
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I was confused about this whole thing because when I approached my fiance with this, he said he was going anyway.
He also said that I was the only woman who worried about bachelor parties. I knew that wasn't true.
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you aren't the only one who worries about such things - on the other hand, they'll probably do what they're gonna do - isn't there any way you can get them to invite your father and the groom's dad? their presence should calm it down, shouldn't it? you'd be making it more into a family-wedding-event type of thing than a goingsoutwiththeguys type of thing...
NY Muscle
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Some bachelor parties are fine and nothing nasty happens, but the horror story bachelor partys, and ive seen many is only something you should worry about if A) your future hubby is a HICK/WITE TRASH and/or b) his friends are HICKS/WITE TRASH.
My cousins bachelor party was strictly by the book…we went to scores…my dad was there his dad his brother, and a few friends…nothing bad happned we had fun and we met some famous people, some of my other friends just prefer to goto vegas or atlantic city and gamble and have no need to see some skanky crack head get naked, like me, I dont need that shit, strip clubs are so played and pathetic its beyond sad!.
Ive seen some nasty shit..girls just fucking people, sucking guys, guys sticking the serving spoon from the potato salad in a whores pussy and a bear bottle in the other…these girls a PURE TRASH…ive actually walked out on a few bachleor parties cause it was so nasty I was afraid to even touch the walls….try to get ur hubby to goto a more upscale strip club, do NOT let him rent a hall out…do it in public…but if hes classy and so are his friends there shouldn’t be a problem.
oh and BTW guys dont need alcohol to make him fool around with some slut..if he doesnt do it sober and is a stand up guy then he wont do it drunk either..so dont worry...women are worse..is teh girls us guys need to worry about .get some alcohol in them and they will do just as bad if not worse things at their bachelorette party then us guys.
My cousins bachelor party was strictly by the book…we went to scores…my dad was there his dad his brother, and a few friends…nothing bad happned we had fun and we met some famous people, some of my other friends just prefer to goto vegas or atlantic city and gamble and have no need to see some skanky crack head get naked, like me, I dont need that shit, strip clubs are so played and pathetic its beyond sad!.
Ive seen some nasty shit..girls just fucking people, sucking guys, guys sticking the serving spoon from the potato salad in a whores pussy and a bear bottle in the other…these girls a PURE TRASH…ive actually walked out on a few bachleor parties cause it was so nasty I was afraid to even touch the walls….try to get ur hubby to goto a more upscale strip club, do NOT let him rent a hall out…do it in public…but if hes classy and so are his friends there shouldn’t be a problem.
oh and BTW guys dont need alcohol to make him fool around with some slut..if he doesnt do it sober and is a stand up guy then he wont do it drunk either..so dont worry...women are worse..is teh girls us guys need to worry about .get some alcohol in them and they will do just as bad if not worse things at their bachelorette party then us guys.
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If there is trust then there should be NO PROBLEM.
I INSISTED that my ex have a fullblown skank-inclusive bachelor party and told him that he shouldn't do anything that he wouldn't want ME doing. I came home LONG AFTER him that night (went to AC w/my sis and a friend and had some fun drinking and gambling). Also, that I would NOT CLEAN up ANY bodily fluids that he emitted while drunk.... just wanted him to know UP FRONT.
A few years later I and my gf sat outside the basement window of her husband's freind's party. (No, we weren't SPYING but the "entertainment" was supposed to have looooong been gone.) None of the men knew that we were there. We both watched our husbands (I was about to deliver our first child so YOU KNOW that my ex wasn't getting any hehehee.) and we were TOTALLY PLEASED! Not that either of us expected any different. They were drunk and stupid but sat back and basically let the young goofs act like dorks with the "entertainment". And yes, at least ONE of the girls was a bonified skank as she was giving blowjobs in the bathroom for "tips".
If you can't trust the man that you are about to marry NOW then you never will be able to. It isn't the bachelor that I would be concerned about, it is the "happily married men" with a few kids - THOSE GUYS ARE THE PIGS.
My take is, if a man is going to behave in this fashion he will do it REGARDLESS and is not worth my time, nor does he deserve me. And yes, women can be BIGGER pigs than men.
PS - the ONLY REAL worry should be drinking and driving.
I INSISTED that my ex have a fullblown skank-inclusive bachelor party and told him that he shouldn't do anything that he wouldn't want ME doing. I came home LONG AFTER him that night (went to AC w/my sis and a friend and had some fun drinking and gambling). Also, that I would NOT CLEAN up ANY bodily fluids that he emitted while drunk.... just wanted him to know UP FRONT.
A few years later I and my gf sat outside the basement window of her husband's freind's party. (No, we weren't SPYING but the "entertainment" was supposed to have looooong been gone.) None of the men knew that we were there. We both watched our husbands (I was about to deliver our first child so YOU KNOW that my ex wasn't getting any hehehee.) and we were TOTALLY PLEASED! Not that either of us expected any different. They were drunk and stupid but sat back and basically let the young goofs act like dorks with the "entertainment". And yes, at least ONE of the girls was a bonified skank as she was giving blowjobs in the bathroom for "tips".
If you can't trust the man that you are about to marry NOW then you never will be able to. It isn't the bachelor that I would be concerned about, it is the "happily married men" with a few kids - THOSE GUYS ARE THE PIGS.
My take is, if a man is going to behave in this fashion he will do it REGARDLESS and is not worth my time, nor does he deserve me. And yes, women can be BIGGER pigs than men.
PS - the ONLY REAL worry should be drinking and driving.
Thanks guys....It really is good to hear (NY Muscle) that not all guys like that kinda shit. I give you a lot of credit for actually walking out of a bachelor party because it was disgusting. I just don't see the point of it and I'm getting all upset over this crap, I guess because of all the horror stories. I wouldn't worry too much if I knew they were going to a strip club like scores but a private stripper or Vegas, I dont think I'll be able to deal with. It's pretty sad that wedding plans can be destroyed over shit like this. A friend of mine almost called off her wedding because of a bachelor party. I don't know what his friends are planning but I know at a past bachelor partie his friends asked the groom if he wanted a prostitute. The groom said no...Which was good but just that fact that they would even ask that is disgusting.
NY Muscle, I understand what you said about some woman doing things too and I'm sure they do but its a whole lot easier for a man. I know that I would never do anything. I don't even care if I have a bachelorette party.
Its good to hear that I'm not that only one that would worry about this stuff....Thanks Cindy99....
NY Muscle, I understand what you said about some woman doing things too and I'm sure they do but its a whole lot easier for a man. I know that I would never do anything. I don't even care if I have a bachelorette party.
Its good to hear that I'm not that only one that would worry about this stuff....Thanks Cindy99....
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NY Muscle
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Grace1 said:
why dont you try to weasel youself into the bachelor party if you are worried? tell him it would turn you on to see a stripper dance for him and make him all hot n bothered, then maybe YOU can take HIM in the back later..and even tell him youd let the girls rub up on you and it would turn you on......hey its a LOOOONGGG shot but introduce that freaky and lesbian card into ANY situation and it might just work....he may give in
but i highly DOUBT his buddies will go for that shit lol but it cant hurt to try...
I think that's awesome that you have that kind of trust in your husband. That's the way it should be. It is all about trust...
That's what my fiance said but I would just feel more comfortable knowing that he is involved in the planning of this thing....I don't know what those friends of his are planning...I've seen alot of shit to...At my previous job they used to get strippers for the guys and strippers for the girls around X-Mas time. I've seen the nicest guys that I thought highly of doing a lot of shit. That made me think a lot!
NY---That is a good suggestion and I'm sure he would like it but his friends probably wouldn't want me around....They would think I'm their to watch him(Which I really would be)!haha...
That's what my fiance said but I would just feel more comfortable knowing that he is involved in the planning of this thing....I don't know what those friends of his are planning...I've seen alot of shit to...At my previous job they used to get strippers for the guys and strippers for the girls around X-Mas time. I've seen the nicest guys that I thought highly of doing a lot of shit. That made me think a lot!
NY---That is a good suggestion and I'm sure he would like it but his friends probably wouldn't want me around....They would think I'm their to watch him(Which I really would be)!haha...
