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Anyone else having woman/man Problems?

TxArmyGuy

TxArmyGuy

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Why do allow someone to get so close to us and get dissapointed after they let us down over and over again?

My story to summarize is like this

-This woman was supposed to come up here and spend the hollidays with me

-I hear nothing for 2 weeks until tonight when she claimed she was in the hospital and had some sort of Surgery...What kind (I have no clue nor do I believe her) I would like to believe her but thats just cause I look for the good in everyone

Damn this sucks Ass. I get fucked over and in turn I fuck my faimly over when I could have been home with them for the hollidays...Why cause i wanted to believe in someone...

Pretty Pittyfull that my ability to want to trust and to look for the good in someone has been shaken all because I trusted the wrong woman...

Some would say I'm better off and others would offer pitty, and then some would just smack me around and say what the fuck are you doing

Come on anyone else having woman problems...Or having Man problems...lets just Vent some frustration on this thread
 
Oh hell Ive been going through a whole load of shit with my girl

She has been driving me nuts,she doesnt know how to talk anything out when we have problems,then she acts like nothing happened,I dont feel she respects me anymore,she is spiteful when we argue infront of people and brings up personal things she has no right doing and then gets totally pissy when I tell her that shit isnt cool. and I feel I am drifting apart from her because of this shit

I went away for x-mas for 4 days with family ,I come back and she acts all fine,when I left we were argueing like crazy

Im hoping shit sorts out because we have been together for a while and I dont want to throw it away,but it look like its going that way

thank you for letting me vent
 
I feel your pain...I truly do. It is hard to be let down by anyone that you put your trust in...

B True
 
2Thick said:


Just stop trusting women. It works fine for me.
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It aint gotta be a woman that hurts you though... It is those that we care about the most that hurt us the most... Or...maybe we just get the most hurt by them.

B True
 
this is just the ups and downs of life...I'm not as upset about this as I would have been around the time I found this board...funny I found this place when I was turning the heart break of my 1st true love into energy into the gym...This will probably be a similiar experience though I dont see this oen stopping anytime soon
 
bro sometimes I wish I was single and not hanging on to a failing relationship with someone who doesnt seem to be there but claims to be

enjoy it till you find someone to treat you well
 
2Thick said:


The only people that have seriously hurt me were women...
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TRUST ME!!!! I fully understand.

B True
 
Yeah it sucks...Seems like either they are too busy trying to change you into someone else and then if you do change they want the old you...or They get self absorbed in their problems or someone elses problems...or how about the I'm just not sure who I am anymore...

Anyone heard some better excuses?
 
TxArmyGuy said:


Anyone heard some better excuses?
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Yes...MANY of them...

B True
 
TxArmyGuy said:
Anyone heard some better excuses?
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1. I need time to deal with my issues b/c I want "us" to work and it will not work right now. (translation....fuck off)

2. I know that I will hurt you because I do not want to get hurt myself. (translation...I want to fuck other people...now fuck off!)

3. I will push you away because I cannot handle a relationship right now. (translation...I cannot stop thinking about this new guy....so fuck off!)
 
2Thick said:


1. I need time to deal with my issues b/c I want "us" to work and it will not work right now. (translation....fuck off)

2. I know that I will hurt you because I do not want to get hurt myself. (translation...I want to fuck other people...now fuck off!)

3. I will push you away because I cannot handle a relationship right now. (translation...I cannot stop thinking about this new guy....so fuck off!)
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You have heard those things too??

What about...
You deserve someone so much better than me...

B True
 
Yep We all do


I never asked her to fall for me...I def didn't ask her to try and stay around , and I most def didn't ask her for grief
 
I can safely say I have no "woman/man" problems of any kind and I am glad to see you come as a hermaphrodite lover.

Peace
 
the funny thing is--

we all go through the same shit---i actually am going through it right now!!!!

long story short---i was with someone for 3 years who treated me well (cooked, cleaned, spoiled me), but not the way i needed to be treated---i need them to understand my lifestyle, basically my desire for the bodybuilding and to make serious money. at times i felt bad for not giving her what she wanted--marriage, children ect...

so after 3 years i break up with her--which was so hard because guys feel like the girl will kill themselves with out you...

and start dating someone more my type--fitness competitor, worked hard, etc...

well, after 2 weeks of hanging out everyday the new girl pulls--
"i'm confused with what i want"!!!! get that shit! meanwhile, that was the same girl who is telling me she is falling in love with me and all that other stuff.....

see, i think guys have this image up that they don't care--then they start hearing those type of things, let themselves go, let the wall down and when they know they have you-the challenge is over and they pull their shit...


on a side note---bfold, you are an awesome guy! i love reading your posts...very deep bro.
 
With relationships, comes problems. Someone recently tried to convince me that there exists perfect relationships. I find it hard to believe. Anywone know of such a mythical situation?
 
Yeah it's called "I Dream of Jeannie"

This thread pretty much catches the reasons why I am not in a relationship now. Most of my "relationships" have only lasted 2 or 3 months. Very intense at first, then they burn out quickly.

I have no advice on how to handle anything, since it is obvious that I can't have a long term relationship with anything other than a mortgage.

If anything, just try to watch out for your attitude. Do your best not to become cynical and bitter. Remember, your left (or right) had is your best friend.
 
TxArmyGuy said:

Some would say I'm better off
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Count me in this category. You're too young to settle down yet. I know its painful now, but you should enjoy your bachelorhood to its absolute fullest!
 
i think that-

the most important thing is not to lose who you are and what you believe in----or lose touch with your boys!
 
Dont know if this should be comforting to find so many in similiar situations...All I am able to do is keep going on with my life and trying to make the days I'm here as good as a possible.


Well I'm still planning out and putting together the pieces for my career which is taking up alot of my time aside from work I didn't realize that getting back into college would be difficult since I'm thinking about changing my major to computer science so unless I can retake some classes and raise my GPA I can forget about trying to transfer into most universities that I would probably succeed at now.

I'm also trying to talk my way into getting a 1 or 2 jumps in Jan since I'll be jumping into NTC in Feb and Back up here in March. Thats if we still go there and not get deployed somewhere else...Also trying to kiss some ass cause I want to go to the Air Assault class they will have here this Summer
 
TxArmyGuy said:
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Anyone heard some better excuses?
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It's not your fault.
I like to drink, smoke, party and you don't..... This after 10 years of marriage and a child.
She neglected to mention fuck other guys.
 
Gosh do I know where you are coming from, champ. The last 3 1/2 years of my life were spent hoping for something good, only to be let down again.

I'm not sure what it is in the mind that somehow picks itself up off the floor, after being beaten nearly to death, only to find hope in something good coming from the person that kicked your ass in the first place.

With me, when me and my lady would have a good day, it felt SOOOOOO good, that I'd hang onto that. And then no matter how many shitty days went by, I'd just be waiting for another good one. When it happened, it all seemed worth it. The problem is, after a few years, the good days sort of stopped coming altogether.

And for some reason, I still tried to hold on. Things actually started going well between us, we got along better than we had in a year, and then one day, she just decided to suddenly leave without telling me... and that was it.

That was 4 months ago... the odd part is... she sorta wants me back now.

And the REALLY odd part is... part of me is very tempted.

Don't worry... I won't go back... but that same feeling of longing for the "good days" is still there.
 
What often hurts so much is that you meet a woman and you give them your trust. You make a judgement call and give them your heart, soul, and trust...and YOU made a bad judgement call.

As men...we all know that we NEVER make mistakes or wrong judgement calls. It is hard to deal with when we do.

Make any sense?

B True
 
b fold the truth said:
What often hurts so much is that you meet a woman and you give them your trust. You make a judgement call and give them your heart, soul, and trust...and YOU made a bad judgement call.

As men...we all know that we NEVER make mistakes or wrong judgement calls. It is hard to deal with when we do.

Make any sense?

B True
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No, I've probably made plenty of them. I just try to learn from them. I hear you though.
 
Brothers I think the older we get the less we understand women. All I can pray for is that each of you find a good one that treats you the way you deserve to be treated...Even 2Thick I hope will find someone special who wont let him down

B fold your time will come as well...Just keep fighting the good fight and someday things will work out

As for me I'm still driving on...Tonight I'll be celebrating another year and another Jumpstart back into a Productive Life
 
my problems just got worse tonight,booze,single girl who wants me and no gf around

Im up shit creek without a paddle

kill me now
 
After breaking up with my fiance who cheated on me, I resolved that it's just not worth all the heartache to fall for a chick. Suddenly, I met another girl who shatterd those thoughts. It's not exactly gone perfect so far, but I ask myself, "is it worth it?"

I don't even have to think about it...it is.
 
me and my girl ahve been going through tons fo shit but I feel like a asshole for doign this and I can sleep so Im drinking myself to sleep and hoping to fucking kick the bucket or soemthing,Im a fucking loser
 
68GT350 said:
After breaking up with my fiance who cheated on me, I resolved that it's just not worth all the heartache to fall for a chick. Suddenly, I met another girl who shatterd those thoughts. It's not exactly gone perfect so far, but I ask myself, "is it worth it?"

I don't even have to think about it...it is.
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AMEN!!!! You have to be treated like a doormat a time or two before you ever really appreciate the one woman who treats you like a real man, respects you, AND loves you. Being truly treated like a real man, respected, and being loved...comes VERY rarely.

B True
 
Me and my ex went through alot of ups and downs to. Reading these posts reminds me why I am single for now. I realize not having a woman is not the end of the world. Some can't be alone. Others can. I recieved an email from her the other day about having a merry christmas and a happy new year. We have been split up going on 3 years and even though I am over the relationship sometimes little things remind of her and the good times we had. I was watching a movie last night, one that we had seen together at one point, and it just hit me. I was like damn why the hell am I thinking about her? Do I miss her? I realized maybe I don't miss her, just the good times we had. I would never go back with her because I know it wouldn't work out, but sometimes you wonder what it would be like if you did things differently. Sometimes I think that love is just a 4 letter word like fuck and shit and other times part of me still believes there is someone out there for everyone. I prefer to stick with the latter part just to think there is hope.
 
TxArmyGuy said:
Brothers I think the older we get the less we understand women. All I can pray for is that each of you find a good one that treats you the way you deserve to be treated...Even 2Thick I hope will find someone special who wont let him down

B fold your time will come as well...Just keep fighting the good fight and someday things will work out

As for me I'm still driving on...Tonight I'll be celebrating another year and another Jumpstart back into a Productive Life
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Alot of things about women and relationships suck. But there are alot of fish in the sea. I tell myself that all the time. Sometimes it works.
 
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