any tips in preventing vaginal tears?

[DepressiveJuice]

my girlfriend and i are having a problem. every time we have sex, she gets a tear inside her vagina which hurts her whenever we have intercourse. i have an average size penis so the reason for the tears isnt size. she was a virgin when we met so that may been the problem? we do use alot of lube, around my penis, on her clitoris and labia and in her vagina as well. she still gets vaginal tears no matter how much lube we use. does anyone know what we can do to prevent these tears? its not ruining our sex life because the tears heal within a few days so we just opt for oral till then. but we still want to prevent these tears from occuring so often. any ideas?

 

[The Terminator]

Give her alot of oral pleasure first, this will cause her to become very wet and lubricated (plus if you do it right she will never leave you )

 

[jubei]

Thats whay you get for having an asian gf. J/K. I would just use lots of lube and go slowly.

 

[Puddles]

Maybe try different positions? She might want to mention it to her GYN too.

 

[ANABOLICK1]

my girlfriend and i are having a problem. every time we have sex, she gets a tear inside her vagina which hurts her whenever we have intercourse. i have an average size penis so the reason for the tears isnt size. she was a virgin when we met so that may been the problem? we do use alot of lube, around my penis, on her clitoris and labia and in her vagina as well. she still gets vaginal tears no matter how much lube we use. does anyone know what we can do to prevent these tears? its not ruining our sex life because the tears heal within a few days so we just opt for oral till then. but we still want to prevent these tears from occuring so often. any ideas?

Is this with bananamilk? The temptation here is so great...but I digress

 

[HULKSTER]

i have an average size penis so the reason for the tears isnt size. she was a virgin when we met so that may been the problem?

hahahahah.....oh, I almost forgot......hahahahha.....You really think your girlfriend was a virgin when you met her? Plus, do you think that vaginal tearing came from YOUR dick? Like you said, you have an average size cock. What it sounds like to me is that your gf is getting a MUCH BIGGER dick on the side, then makes up the excuse of having pain from the vaginal tearing that she got from her big-dick side-piece in order to get away from you....after having such a big dick, she has already been satisfied, and doesn't want sex. So then the, "ouch, I can't have sex because it hurts for an unknow reason" bullshit excuse comes out. Don't believe it, bro. Hit that shit one last time, then tell her that you're dumping her immediately after you cum.

 

[Ceebs]

Lube, lube, and more lube.

She may also have a yeast infection, or other some kind of bacterial imbalance down there - those can put her at greater risk for fissures.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
Maybe try different positions? She might want to mention it to her GYN too.

she sees the same gyno her mother does so we went to a women's clinic the first time this happend. they just told her to use more lube. but she saw a nurse, not a gyno. we are experimenting with other positions though

Originally posted by HULKSTER


hahahahah.....oh, I almost forgot......hahahahha.....You really think your girlfriend was a virgin when you met her? Plus, do you think that vaginal tearing came from YOUR dick? Like you said, you have an average size cock. What it sounds like to me is that your gf is getting a MUCH BIGGER dick on the side, then makes up the excuse of having pain from the vaginal tearing that she got from her big-dick side-piece in order to get away from you....after having such a big dick, she has already been satisfied, and doesn't want sex. So then the, "ouch, I can't have sex because it hurts for an unknow reason" bullshit excuse comes out. Don't believe it, bro. Hit that shit one last time, then tell her that you're dumping her immediately after you cum.

sucks when you dont get any huh

Lube, lube, and more lube.

She may also have a yeast infection, or other some kind of bacterial imbalance down there - those can put her at greater risk for fissures.

hmm could be. there was some blood after intercourse and when i was fingering her. not sure if that is related to yeast infections or bacterial imbalance. she's going to find a new gyno and see what he/she tells her. thanks for the advice everyone

 

[HULKSTER]

she sees the same gyno her mother does so we went to a women's clinic the first time this happend. they just told her to use more lube. but she saw a nurse, not a gyno. we are experimenting with other positions though



sucks when you dont get any huh



hmm could be. there was some blood after intercourse and when i was fingering her. not sure if that is related to yeast infections or bacterial imbalance. she's going to find a new gyno and see what he/she tells her. thanks for the advice everyone

Bitch, I saw how you tried to give me red karma, but your karma is way too weak, a.k.a. neutral to affect mine....your karma power is worthless, just as worthless as your pitiful attempt to justify your girlfriend's cheating because you are too mentally weak, unintelligent and naive to accept the possibilty, and probability, that your girlfriend is cheating on you.....don't tell me you believe those line,"you're the only one I've ever been with", or "you're the only one for me", LMAO. Assmunch, I have laid more pipe than U.S. Steel. And not only do I beat you on quantity, but definelty on quality compared to that Greyhound of a gf you have.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

youre a funny guy dude. pathetic but funny