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smokinghawk
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Formerly, yes...My wife and I kinda fell out of it after we had a son. Now it's just the stuff of spoken fantasties for us.
sermon_of_mockery
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My girl and I have been known to fiddle with the swinging crowd.We usually hit the elite parties held in l.a. But we have'nt attended for a few months now.There will always be a jealousy factor involved.Fun for us to try out,but it can hit a nerve once in a while.
smokinghawk
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Never had the jealousy factor at all...and we were a "soft swing" couple (she played; I remained monogamous). In fact, I adored the arrangement and often wish we were back in the "good ol' days."
TheStromba
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I wondered what the term "softswing" meant. The jealousy factor of my girl gettin some and me not would drive me nuts !
rockn2dmax
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Strange, would you be more jealous that you weren't getting any, or that your girl was doing someone else???TheStromba said:
I think for me it's the later. Me and my girl are trying to get into the whole scene, we're talking to a couple of couples now...
trouble_60
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My wife and I tried it. She had a hard time seeing me with another woman. We ended up ending the relashionship with the other couple because of it. For her there was to much attrachion between me and the other girl and she was only mildly attrackted to the other man. but she did get to do the girl and had a great time with that. Currently it no longer a part of our lives. It was great durring but had to many issues for the wife. She talkes like she would be willing to try again but I doubt it.
smokinghawk
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That was her fear--that I'd lose my trust and love after seeing her go through with it, or that I'd start pressuring her for "MY turn now!" when she doesn't want me to sleep with another woman.
Those fears are fine, and with hours of discussion (talk, not pleading and pressuring) we had the experiences, and they were amazing.
Those fears are fine, and with hours of discussion (talk, not pleading and pressuring) we had the experiences, and they were amazing.
TheStromba
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Rokn
What would drive me nuts is if my wife was with another woman and I was not invited to join in. Another man - no way. We have talked about if a lot, Our relationship is solid, we are married 17 years and still in our mid 30's. My wife says she does not desire another man, but would really like to eat some pussy and have me join in. Finding a single female is MUCH harder than finding a couple, after all most single gals can get laid whenever they want, even the ugly ones.
What would drive me nuts is if my wife was with another woman and I was not invited to join in. Another man - no way. We have talked about if a lot, Our relationship is solid, we are married 17 years and still in our mid 30's. My wife says she does not desire another man, but would really like to eat some pussy and have me join in. Finding a single female is MUCH harder than finding a couple, after all most single gals can get laid whenever they want, even the ugly ones.
I personally think it'd be kind of a turn on to watch my wife and another man. She is a very beautiful lady, and has some very impressive skills in the bedroom, watching her drive the other guy nuts would be cool. I do totally trust her and know that no matter what, it's me she wants to be with in the end!
TheStromba
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I admire your confidence in your relationship. I guess what scares me the most is that good sex can sometimes trigger
pretty powerful emotions, and this kind of sex is supposed to be for fun only.
TheStromba said:
We've talked about that as well as with women there is always the chance of them emotionally attaching. But I really do trust her and know how happy she is with me, and if we made it a spontaneous thing, say on a trip, no worries about attachments either way.
milo hobgoblin
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mmmm....
My girlfriend and I have talked about it...she's bi anyways so its not much of leap....plus I think it would be a big turn on to watch another guy....especially someone athletic,fucking her brains out...especially if I was fucking his girl at the same time....DAMN sex is fun.
I guess it all comes down to how secure you are with yourself and your relationship.
My girlfriend and I have talked about it...she's bi anyways so its not much of leap....plus I think it would be a big turn on to watch another guy....especially someone athletic,fucking her brains out...especially if I was fucking his girl at the same time....DAMN sex is fun.
I guess it all comes down to how secure you are with yourself and your relationship.
Re: mmmm....
Exactly, if the trust is there then the sky is the limit as to what you can do! Plus, one of the most important things in my life is making my wife happy, so seeing her enjoy herself whether it be with another man or woman, would be great, but only if I'm there. It's a fine line, but if I'm not there, then to me that's cheating
Milo Hobgoblin said:
Exactly, if the trust is there then the sky is the limit as to what you can do! Plus, one of the most important things in my life is making my wife happy, so seeing her enjoy herself whether it be with another man or woman, would be great, but only if I'm there. It's a fine line, but if I'm not there, then to me that's cheating
GearedChupaCabra
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Tha worse part about all this is your wife or GF screaming her lungs out while fuking the other guy, more then she normaly would with you. that would suck
rockn2dmax
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why would that suck???
I think it would be great... As noted before, it's all about security in your relationships.
Most of my pleasure in the bedroom is derived from the fact that she is enjoying herself... Hell, it's so bad, that I don't even like getting b-jobs that much unless it's 69. So I think watching her get fucked so hard she's screaming her brains out more than she does with me.. would make be bust on the spot!
I think it would be great... As noted before, it's all about security in your relationships.
Most of my pleasure in the bedroom is derived from the fact that she is enjoying herself... Hell, it's so bad, that I don't even like getting b-jobs that much unless it's 69. So I think watching her get fucked so hard she's screaming her brains out more than she does with me.. would make be bust on the spot!
It all comes down to seperating sex from love. I make love to my wife and I fuck other guys wives - same for my wife. It is a big turn on to see my wife with another guy, but she has never cum with any of them. And it's easy to tell because when she cums she sprays all over the place. There has been one girl that can make her cum everytime - that is something to watch!!! They are both very hot blondes.
rockn2dmax said:
I couldn't agree more! My wife is incredible at giving head, but I'd still rather go down on her and watch her go. But if there was someone else going down on her, or fucking her brains out, while she gave me head, well then it't the best of both worlds.
gwl9dta4 said:Man you guys all crack me up,
That's where the internet is great, helps you realize that the rest of the world is just as fucked up as you are, I used to think I was wierd being into this stuff, not anymore!!
