Slice of Peach
So if vaginal sex was painful the first time- but you enjoy it now, why be so closed minded about anal. Trust me your missing out on some incredible pleasure!!
Also painful intercourse can be caused by something as simple as a lack of lubrication, or it can also be the angle of your vagina.
One thing you can try for the latter is have the guy penetate you from behind, while your"spooning. This seems to be helpful. My first girlfriend had a similar problem, but this worked quite well, plus in that postion it limits how far the guy can penetrate at first.
As far as anal goes, it should not be painful, even at first. What causes it to be painful(as I stated earlier) is a lack of relaxation. Anal requires alot of foreplay the first few times, and is a learning process on how your body works down there.
BTW- I've had anal with every girlfriend I've ever had, and have been told by more than one it became one of their most common fantasies about sex.
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