am i fucked?

[sre30]

you gave a girl you were trying to get with another guy's number because you thought she might be happier with him.

Dude we gotta hang out sometime.

Seriously


Call her up, give her the rundown, invite her to lunch/dinner/bedroom gymnastics

 

[markshark]

If you don't see the worth in yourself others will not either.

You should find a way to work on that.


That's a big reason young women (and I'm afraid some not so young) fall for that cocky asshole - beside he's confident - even if it's fake he gives off that vide of worthiness and poeple fall for that. (this works in the reverse too - ie; "bitchy self-centered chick")

Takes a big person to see pass what is on the surface but beyond that, beyond personal relationships, to know your value as person, who you are and what you can contribute to this world is the best thing you can figure out about you.

Once you do that - the world is your oyster.

thing is im good at bein that cocky asshole when i first meet girls and am able to pull girls that most people i know dont, but im not really like that as a person. i have low self-esteem, and the thing im worried about is her really getting to know me and finding out im not really the cocky hardass she saw on the first few dates and when she first met me.

 

[velvett]

thing is im good at bein that cocky asshole when i first meet girls and am able to pull girls that most people i know dont, but im not really like that as a person. i have low self-esteem, and the thing im worried about is her really getting to know me and finding out im not really the cocky hardass she saw on the first few dates and when she first met me.

The right girl/woman will find the act you put on for them to be endearing - so just be good at being you and liking you.

 

[EnderJE]

Seriously, if you want a mate, why not pick someone who will like you for you who are? Why bother pretend to be someone else? I should write ABC Afternoon Specials.

 

[muscelove]

U got an update here. u still talkin to this broad if not text her my #. Na im kiddin but keep us posted dont let her slip away. Tell her u did it casue u wanted her to tell u that she liked u not him...LIE LIE LIE!!!!!!!

 

[markshark]

U got an update here. u still talkin to this broad if not text her my #. Na im kiddin but keep us posted dont let her slip away. Tell her u did it casue u wanted her to tell u that she liked u not him...LIE LIE LIE!!!!!!!

thats pretty mcu hwaht i said

 

[ironbabe]

yea but i cant explain my feelings shell think im a pussy. girls want alpha males not litte faggy pushovers who have feelings .

Actually, the women I know prefer Alpha guys WITH feelings. Mostly I can't stand BS. Pretending you don't have feelings is BS. Be your freaking self.

You wanna just get laid? Be cocky. You'll get a chick who you can't stand to be around later, but who cares, you got laid. You really like this girl and want to persue a relationship and get laid too? Be yourself.

 

[Ramcononer]

Yea your fucked. Stop doin stupid shit like trying to get her jealous...work on your trust issues...gain some confidence and youll be alright. Be real with her...I know alot of girls that go with guys that arent the typical "hot" guys or whatever but they connect on a better level...try to be her friend and keep it real.

 

[markshark]

update: we stopped talkin anymore. but its cool because i decided to just be the alpha male shit...so im actually fuckin a hot ass 20 year old, a 42 year old, and 2 girls here at school. fuck gettin in a relationship, id rather be alone and get laid. im still workin on the confidence but its comin around.

 

[muscelove]

atta boy