SoKlueles, dare I say you're part of the problem? If you let a guy think you'll wait on him hand and foot we will shit all over you. We're just stupid like that. You have to convince a man that the relationship is 50/50.
I have a younger fuck buddy in a different state. We were friends first and we'll be friends after. There's a chance it'll turn into something but that's a long long long way off. She doesn't have beauty queen type looks but I think she's absolutely gorgeous and I tell her every single day. I wait on her hand and foot (literally ) in and out of the bedroom and she'll do the same for me. I let her know that *I'm* the lucky one here to getting booty from her. I figure if I'm doing my job right she'll be the most conceited woman on earth by the time I'm done with her. She's too modest to believe it anyway. I'm alot older (alot) but she's alot smarter (graduated w/honors and will hopefully get a Ph.D one day). We both bring something different to the table so there's no reason for either one of us to feel any superiority over the over. I'm not looking for a maid who fucks. I want a life PARTNER.
Don't be a doormat (not that you were)...demand your respect or find somebody who'll give it to you.
tv during a hummer,damn when i get my cock sucked,my girl has me hanging from the rafters while I shake my head side to side in denial of the pleasure that is her tongue and lips gliding across my swollen dick.
If she does'nt do these things,maybe you should jump ship.