I think it's true that most don't really like a huge dude in competition shape. That much is the truth, but that's the kicker, too. It's the competition shape part. Throw a little bodyfat on the ol' boys and it's a completely different game. Hell, when I start really leaning out I have a harder time meeting women. Probably because I never leave the house, but when I'm out they're not as interested. On the other hand, every pound that I put on, be it muscle or fat, and another girl hits on me. It's weird, the fatter I get the more they love me. Where was all this action when I was 330 and a true fatty?