Ah yes , the insecure novices respond first. Someday you will be old my son, ........until then try to figure out why your insecurities make you react in a deragatory way. I am not from TJ, I my friend was born in Texas. You don't know me but something you see in my pixs makes your insecurities jump out your mouth. Is it due to the fact that I am 39 years old but I have remained faithful to the "art" for 20 years, but you have to get sober and angry before you can even begin to think about working out. Is it that I have a hog and a Porsche in my driveway, with a wife that models lingerie;or it might be my 80k salary. Maybe it has it's foundation in the sexual arena. Take this advice, take your dick, and your best friends dick, add another inch and you will , if you can add, sum up my length. I just wanted some advice from the young true to the art guys, there doesn't seem to be to many ol' fogys around. I really didn't mean to ruin your life.