Shirl, check this site out:  Neck Pillow and Cervical Traction for Neck Pain Relief I Dr recommended neck pillows & neck pain support
Their cervical traction pillow is actually touted as being specifically designed for "military neck."  
My effing neck went out about a month ago, killing my arm.  I still have basically constant numbness/pins and needles down my right arm (has made typing a real joy).  I've gotten used to it but ... I've tried all sorts of damned pillows, the memory foam, a contoured one, none, three ... this is basically my last effort.  I'll give you a review in a month 
 
They have a money back guarantee but they also say there's a break-in period so 
