hey cindylou, i popped in to tell you thank you for the kind words. i left a reply on my thread, feel free to read it. dont feel awkward honey. my message if for people to love and charice their loved ones and not to guilt. i will tell you some funny "twin" stories sometime, as i am sure you have some too!! peace honey! p.s. hessnobradpitt is a twin too, he has a sister twin.