Oh, hey, about Abby, remember, I've been a neurology transcriptionist for a long, long time. If you need any help with terms or something gimme a shout. You also have a right to get a copy of her results. It's easy enough to look terms up on the internet.
Hey, any chance you can post the vid of her spasms to youtube or something?
Anyway, from what you're describing, even if her EEG is normal and her primary is blowing you off, you would do better consulting with a pediatric neurologist.