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You look awesome in that pic, BTW. I like the outfit. Wish I could wear stuff like that.

Thanks ^_^ It's actually a dress, my wedding dress... and yes I did get married in black.... it seemed appropriate:D mom didnt approve though ;)
 
Thanks ^_^ It's actually a dress, my wedding dress... and yes I did get married in black.... it seemed appropriate:D mom didnt approve though ;)


I like that it wasn't traditional. When I was young I thought I would get married in a red dress. Now I have decided never to get married.
 
I like that it wasn't traditional. When I was young I thought I would get married in a red dress. Now I have decided never to get married.

I do too. I'm very traditional so my dress was white but I love it when brides wear other colors. Just not me :D
 
I love when road hard put up wet whores wear white, cause mommy and daddy think I ain't been nuts deep in her with 3 fingers shoved in her ass. :)
 
I like that it wasn't traditional. When I was young I thought I would get married in a red dress. Now I have decided never to get married.

common law then?
 
lol. I figured it was the last time I'd get to wear white in a dress that expensive.

A friend of mine went shopping in New York and got a very expensive dress. She felt foolish cause she had no where to wear it. So we all bought prom dresses and rented a limo and had a "dress justification party". Lol.
 
A friend of mine went shopping in New York and got a very expensive dress. She felt foolish cause she had no where to wear it. So we all bought prom dresses and rented a limo and had a "dress justification party". Lol.

You guys shouldnt help justify your friends stupid decisions.
 
lol. I figured it was the last time I'd get to wear white in a dress that expensive.

In no way was i putting you into the category of women I was speaking of. You remind me of apple pie :)
 
Hey Guys.... the weekend was good :) Momentary penetration in the hot tub, and plenty of orgasms to go around, but... I don't know. Apparently I need to get on the pill and he'll feel more comfortable. I know you guys are going to read me the riot act for telling you that and say a whole bunch of not super nice things, but I'm asking you to be nice and supportive. :)

I got up at 4am this morning to drive 280 miles home, dropped my dog off at home and went to the office. Long and tiring day.

I did hear back that I am not being selected for the job I interviewed for, however I had one phone interview this morning with Crowe Horwath and have another scheduled for Wednesday.

Hope you guys all had a great weekend also! :)
 
Hey Guys.... the weekend was good :) Momentary penetration in the hot tub, and plenty of orgasms to go around, but... I don't know. Apparently I need to get on the pill and he'll feel more comfortable. I know you guys are going to read me the riot act for telling you that and say a whole bunch of not super nice things, but I'm asking you to be nice and supportive. :)

I got up at 4am this morning to drive 280 miles home, dropped my dog off at home and went to the office. Long and tiring day.

I did hear back that I am not being selected for the job I interviewed for, however I had one phone interview this morning with Crowe Horwath and have another scheduled for Wednesday.

Hope you guys all had a great weekend also! :)
Will there be blood works exchanged for this you on the pill? God knows what he might have if he likes hitting women raw...
 
I think he's seriously super extra afraid and cautious... I'm a bit stupified, but everything is going fine so I suppose I shouldn't think about that anymore...

BTW I did lots of cooking this weekend.
 
Ima still say this dude is a geigh dude who is having second thoughts. Sorry just being honest with you.
 
rachel what does momentary penatration mean? you bounced on him for a few mins or you sat on it and he pulled it out?

ive never been able to have sex underwater, girls always say it hurts bc its the water makes it not lubed right.
 
Hey Guys.... the weekend was good :) Momentary penetration in the hot tub, and plenty of orgasms to go around, but... I don't know. Apparently I need to get on the pill and he'll feel more comfortable. I know you guys are going to read me the riot act for telling you that and say a whole bunch of not super nice things, but I'm asking you to be nice and supportive. :)

I got up at 4am this morning to drive 280 miles home, dropped my dog off at home and went to the office. Long and tiring day.

I did hear back that I am not being selected for the job I interviewed for, however I had one phone interview this morning with Crowe Horwath and have another scheduled for Wednesday.

Hope you guys all had a great weekend also! :)

As in a two pump chump? Elaborate. :confused: If he was worried about you not being on the pill why didn't he just grab a rain coat?(granted you can't use one in the hot tub; or can you?).

Sorry to hear about the job; hopefully you get the next one.
 
As in a two pump chump? Elaborate. :confused: If he was worried about you not being on the bill why didn't he just grab a rain coat?(granted you can't use one in the hot tub; or can you?).

Sorry to hear about the job; hopefully you get the next one.
This guy makes Jon 79 look like a winner.
 
This guy makes Jon 79 look like a winner.


I had a bunch of stuff typed out and I deleted because I made a promise to myself and the board that I wouldn't bring Jon into stuff. I'm seriously hoping that you'll retract your comment, as Nate has done nothing but respect me and make me totally fall for him, and this isn't a long-distance phone only BS thing - though I certainly shouldn't take relationship advice from you considering.

Thanks for being a real "almighty" douchebag you ass.
 
gotta admit that...shes got a one up on ya for it being a real live in person in your face thing...ahem...given your circumstances maybe you ought to retract the jon79 statement
 
Yea Rach that was me being a total ass hole. I owe you an apology. I am sorry that was completely uncalled for. I have been an ass all day today to everybody for some reason. I hope you forgive me. I wish you the best you know I do. I won't open my dumbass mouth about it again.
 
Sorry my question was probably getting to personal as well. I find it a lot easier, or tend to cross the boundaries that would normally exist in real life conversation here on the webs. Didn't mean to be insulting with my question nor set you up like that. My apologies.

Sounds like things are still going well for the both of you "out of the bedroom" as well and though there are those of us who don't like to admit it sometimes, that other stuff is pretty important too. Hopefully things continue to move in the right direction with him and your job search.
 
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Sorry my question was probably getting to personal as well. I find it a lot easier, or tend to cross the boundaries that would normally exist in real life conversation here on the webs. Didn't mean to be insulting with my question nor set you up like that. My apologies.

Sounds like things are still going well for the both of you "out of the bedroom" as well and though there are those of us who don't like to admit it sometimes, that other stuff is pretty important too. Hopefully things continue to move in the right direction with him and your job search.

hey thanks very much :) I do have a job BTW, but it is definitely time for something new.
 
rach i'm going to be 100% honest, and nice as i can.
but something doesn't seem right here, and i can sense you feel the same way.
the issue is going to come to a head if it is not resolved by communication imo
 
Unprotected, raw sex is the best, hands down. Condoms ruin the pleasure.

You can get STD tests online and at the pharmacy and they cover everything. A man should feel 100% comfortable getting that and doing it with his partner. If he is not willing to do that then you need another man. (I don't see this as an issue with Rach, I am just bringing it up.)

One of my good friends likes to sleep around. She got the herp from a guy in the military. I always warned her to not have unprotected sex unless they are willing to get tested. She is only 27 and is screwed.

For all of you folks out there just buy the damn kit and then have all the darn fun you want. It is that easy.
 
If he's paranoid, why would he want to bareback and trust you take your pill regularly rather than just wear a rubber?


Something isn't adding up. Sounds like he wants to give you herpes and then trap you.
 
We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.
 
We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.

He means he's penetrated 6 women but gotten BJ's from hundreds.
 
We have talked about it - he's been with 6 women in his life, and it's something that is special to him and when he's ready he's ready - and it does have a lot to do with his morals; though as we discussed earlier sex can be interpreted as oral sex any way, not just penetration.

I'm going with he just wants to make sure we're going to be seeing each other for a while and this isn't a quick fling.

meh, dude is bullshitting you imo.
a lot to do with morals, but he let's a girl repeatedly suck him off? i'm sure jesus is very thrilled when this guy blows loads in wommenins' mouths.
honestly ditch this loser that is from the heart no hating you can do better than this
 
meh, dude is bullshitting you imo.
a lot to do with morals, but he let's a girl repeatedly suck him off? i'm sure jesus is very thrilled when this guy blows loads in wommenins' mouths.
honestly ditch this loser that is from the heart no hating you can do better than this

lol fug, sorry racheal the dude isn't a loser, i don't know him and shouldn't make that judgement...just seems that there is some sort of a issue w/sex with the dude.
i don't buy his morality line either...but it could be something as innocent as nerves, being a premature blower, maybe he has a std, etc.
or maybe it could be something more serious...either way, something is going to give here
 
Why is it when a dude takes sex as a meaningful event other dudes crap on it?

I agree. They've only been seeing each other for a month?! She has no reason not to trust what he says as true. Let him give her a reason not to trust him. Don't plant ideas in her mind.
 
i thought you said you didn't judge people, it wasn't your
right.
looks like judgement right here...


That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.
 
That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.

looking back loser is extreme and it was early in the AM.
but something isn't right, that's why she made this thread cause she can sense it.
if i'm into a girl, i have no problem waiting, even multiple months, for sex.
so i'm not disrespecting that...but something is off with this bro and his reasoning.
could be innocent, could be more creepy.
 
honestly rach, there's nothing wrong with just asking him what's up....

If I were you i'd talk to him seriously about his religion.
Is that really the fact why he's avoiding sex?

just be honest with him.
if he's a good bro, he'll tell you the truth
 
That was an observation not judgement. I said nothing about your charactor I just asked why you crapped on the guy. You are the one that called him a loser.


And I didn't say I never judge (or at least that's not what I meant) I just said it is not my right to do so.

so, by your logic:
-if it is not your right to judge, and you do so anyway, one can ascertain that your judgements are false and unjust, since
you never had the right to make them.
and
-observations lead to judgments, you can't have one without the other
:rainbow:
 
so, by your logic:
-if it is not your right to judge, and you do so anyway, one can ascertain that your judgements are false and unjust, since
you never had the right to make them.
and
-observations lead to judgments, you can't have one without the other
:rainbow:
Here's an idea STFU
 
Is just...v a strongbow alter?
Boy go back to film school and get the fuck outa here. Make sure you holla if you make it big thou, in case you need somebody to play a jacked up action star.:D
 
do you even know what stfu means?
Yea I do it's when I tell you STFU and then you STFU. I also have a PM for you brah:D
 
looking back loser is extreme and it was early in the AM.
but something isn't right, that's why she made this thread cause she can sense it.
if i'm into a girl, i have no problem waiting, even multiple months, for sex.
so i'm not disrespecting that...but something is off with this bro and his reasoning.
could be innocent, could be more creepy.


I understand now, you don't want to see her get hurt. :)

The father of my kids was Catholic. He had some similar views on sex, so what she is saying isn't all that strange to me. I do agree, however, that she should be careful.
 
I understand now, you don't want to see her get hurt. :)

The father of my kids was Catholic. He had some similar views on sex, so what she is saying isn't all that strange to me. I do agree, however, that she should be careful.
You are fully aware of my views on sex, correct?
 
so, by your logic:
-if it is not your right to judge, and you do so anyway, one can ascertain that your judgements are false and unjust, since
you never had the right to make them.
and
-observations lead to judgments, you can't have one without the other
:rainbow:
What I try not to do is make a judgement on your charactor based on a few actions. For example, you hurt my feelings. Do I think you are a bad person because you made a comment that I found hurtful? No. I don't know you well enough to make a judgement like that. I have no right. You said based on the company I keep you had a right to judge me. I was trying to make a point that I do not put myself above others like that.


It's not good to sin either, Bino, but we all do that everyday. Despite the fact that we all do it, is it our right to do so? No. We just try to be the best we can despite our faults.
 
What I try not to do is make a judgement on your charactor based on a few actions. For example, you hurt my feelings. Do I think you are a bad person because you made a comment that I found hurtful? No. I don't know you well enough to make a judgement like that. I have no right. You said based on the company I keep you had a right to judge me. I was trying to make a point that I do not put myself above others like that.


It's not good to sin either, Bino, but we all do that everyday. Despite the fact that we all do it, is it our right to do so? No. We just try to be the best we can despite our faults.

I think you are a bad person because you haven't sent me a single pic yet.
 
I just still wonder.... why not a condom? and will he be providing blood work? just be very careful Rach, you know I like you and I wanna make sure you're ok hun :heart:
 
You guys honestly he just takes sex as a very intimate thing and wants it to be special. It has something to do with being Catholic (I went to church again this weekend BTW) in the respect that it directs his morals to a point and he values me as a person and not just casual sex (again I know we've talked about the BJ = sex rule, but perhaps at least some aspect can be saved as being something a little more special - even disregarding the religion entirely).

I kind of wish I had waited or approached this topic a little differently - like I said in the opening, I'm really okay with it. Literally every act of tenderness and coupleness and all that stuff in a relationship that is exciting is there - and more. I don't think anything is wrong.
 
Good for you Rachel. A man should be able to control himself for the right woman; it's called discipline. He is looking out for you instead of himself and his lust...that is character. Men like that are very rare. I'd say he's a keeper. :)
 
Cant really get pregnant when you have sex 2 times a year....

*FIXED*

Yes you can. The year after the birth of my first daughter I had sex twice with my wife. She got preggers the second time. I didn't have sex for 7 months after that.

That is why I got a vasectomy. The thing is I want more kids, I always wanted a big family. Not in this situation.
 
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Yes you can. The year after the birth of my first daughter I had sex twice with my wife. She got preggers the second time. I didn't have sex for 7 months after that.

That is why I got a vasectomy. The thing is I want more kids, I always wanted a big family. Not in this situation.
damn..... yeah I know only takes once really.... I was just being bitter..... *shocker*
 
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Yes you can. The year after the birth of my first daughter I had sex twice with my wife. She got preggers the second time. I didn't have sex for 7 months after that.

That is why I got a vasectomy. The thing is I want more kids, I always wanted a big family. Not in this situation.

Two times in one year!?!?! You need a statue built in your honor. Being totally serious here I can't imagine that. I could never do that...you are a better man than I.
 
Good for you Rachel. A man should be able to control himself for the right woman; it's called discipline. He is looking out for you instead of himself and his lust...that is character. Men like that are very rare. I'd say he's a keeper. :)

That's just one point of view. If he had been willing they would have already had sex, and Rachel would have been fine with that too. And there would have been nothing wrong with that as long as both parties were willing. All the tenderness and excitement and "looking out for her" could still be there too. A man can choose to control himself and exercise discipline in many ways.
 
You guys honestly he just takes sex as a very intimate thing and wants it to be special. It has something to do with being Catholic (I went to church again this weekend BTW) in the respect that it directs his morals to a point and he values me as a person and not just casual sex (again I know we've talked about the BJ = sex rule, but perhaps at least some aspect can be saved as being something a little more special - even disregarding the religion entirely).

I kind of wish I had waited or approached this topic a little differently - like I said in the opening, I'm really okay with it. Literally every act of tenderness and coupleness and all that stuff in a relationship that is exciting is there - and more. I don't think anything is wrong.

And anal isn't sex either.
I'm Catholic and learned that from my priest.
 
now that I think of it.... no point in blood works is you already blew each other.... so yeah just use birth control and let the games begin :D :evil:
 
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