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Her kid is annoying!

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Been dating a white woman now for 8 weeks. She's cool and all, but her 6 year old daughter drives me absolutely fucking nuts!

Her daughter has ADHD and neither parent of hers is doing anything to resolve her issue. The mother, my woman, wants to send her daughter to a therapist. The father, on the other hand, agrees she needs therapy and/or meds, but keeps delaying anything from happening.

The daughter is only with her every other week. So for one week, I'm having fun, I'm calm and cool with my woman. The next week her daughter is around us, I want to beat this child down. Sorry guys, I'm latin. Us latins, we beat our kids until they submit. White parents tends to talk and bargain over and over and over again with their children. Then they wonder why their children talk back to them and end up on drugs or worse! Us latins, our kids talk back once, do NOT obey just once, and you will get the worst beating of your life! So bad that a latin child would think twice of doing what they did to deserved the beating, again.

Anywhos. My woman is beginning to question why I don't want to be around her or make any attempt to be with her during the time she has her daughter for the week.

What do I say to this without hurting her feelings? The old "I'm busy working, and studying" shit is getting old. And I feel she is catching on to the fact that I tend to do this during the week she has her fucking annoying, ADHD'd the fuck out, kid.

What do I do? What do I say? And NO! Dumping her and getting another woman is not an option! Dumbasses. Lol

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You've only been dating 8 weeks and you've met and spend significant amount of time with her daughter?

You already are saying that there is a difference in parenting styles. That isn't going to get better. Why wouldn't you break up with her?
 
cindylou said:
You've only been dating 8 weeks and you've met and spend significant amount of time with her daughter?

You already are saying that there is a difference in parenting styles. That isn't going to get better. Why wouldn't you break up with her?
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Because the woman is great! Her kid, on the other hand, I want to strangle!

So I'm going to break up with a woman because her kid is annoying?!

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Smokescreen said:
Because the woman is great! Her kid, on the other hand, I want to strangle!

So I'm going to break up with a woman because her kid is annoying?!

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yes because its a package deal. The kid will always come first before you

I mean, are you so in love with her that you want to marry her and take on her kid? Think about it
 
-SD- said:
yes because its a package deal. The kid will always come first before you

I mean, are you so in love with her that you want to marry her and take on her kid? Think about it
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Marry?! Shit. Already was married once. Don't think I want to marry again. And I've only been with her for 2 months. And the little girl is only there every other week, but still.

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I would tell her this:

You aren't around much when she has her daughter because it's not serious enough to be around her daughter and you don't want to become attached and you don't want her to become attached yet either. You aren't attached yet; that is why she is annoying. There is no reason to even tell her that you think her daughter is annoying. It could be that you just really aren't attached to her or care about her yet. That's normal and there is nothing wrong with that. You don't need to critique her parenting until you start to care about the kid, obviously you aren't there yet.

However, if you do become serious with her then you need to find a way to communicate how different your parenting styles are and talk to her about it. Another thing to consider is just because you were raised a certain way doesn't make it the right or best way to raise a child.
 
cindylou said:
I would tell her this:

You aren't around much when she has her daughter because it's not serious enough to be around her daughter and you don't want to become attached and you don't want her to become attached yet either. You aren't attached yet; that is why she is annoying. There is no reason to even tell her that you think her daughter is annoying. It could be that you just really aren't attached to her or care about her yet. That's normal and there is nothing wrong with that. You don't need to critique her parenting until you start to care about the kid, obviously you aren't there yet.

However, if you do become serious with her then you need to find a way to communicate how different your parenting styles are and talk to her about it. Another thing to consider is just because you were raised a certain way doesn't make it the right or best way to raise a child.
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Good looks, cindylou. Thank you.

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-SD- said:
yes because its a package deal. The kid will always come first before you

I mean, are you so in love with her that you want to marry her and take on her kid? Think about it
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A kid will come first before a boyfriend during the dating stage of course...well hopefully that's the case but putting a kid first before your husband after you're married? I don't know if I agree with that.
 
cindylou said:
A kid will come first before a boyfriend during the dating stage of course...well hopefully that's the case but putting a kid first before your husband after you're married? I don't know if I agree with that.
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Marriage, marriage, marriage. Again with the marriage crap. Why are you Americans so obsessed with "marriage"? I don't want that shit ever again. I can be with someone and not be married.

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Smokescreen said:
Marriage, marriage, marriage. Again with the marriage crap. Why are you Americans so obsessed with "marriage"? I don't want that shit ever again. I can be with someone and not be married.

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That's fine. No one said you had to marry her and I understand why you don't. I was just responding to his comment about always putting the kid first in a marriage. That would be an instance where I would think in order to preserve the stability of the family in the best interest of the children to display a healthy and stable loving relationship, always putting the kid first over and before the spouse is a bad idea and not in the best interests of the children.
 
You should be honest with her and tell her that you're a piece of shit lil man that can't handle being around a 6 year old.

P.S- The daughter probably picks up the fact that you're are indeed a low life loser and thats pry she she acts out.


Do everyone a favor and stay away from children.

faggot
 
I never introduce my kid to women. I've introduced him to one person in the last year, and he still asks about her all the time. He doesn't even ask about his own mom.
 
WoodyO said:
I never introduce my kid to women. I've introduced him to one person in the last year, and he still asks about her all the time. He doesn't even ask about his own mom.
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Marry the one he keeps asking about
 
Smokescreen said:
Been dating a white woman now for 8 weeks. She's cool and all, but her 6 year old daughter drives me absolutely fucking nuts!

Her daughter has ADHD and neither parent of hers is doing anything to resolve her issue. The mother, my woman, wants to send her daughter to a therapist. The father, on the other hand, agrees she needs therapy and/or meds, but keeps delaying anything from happening.

The daughter is only with her every other week. So for one week, I'm having fun, I'm calm and cool with my woman. The next week her daughter is around us, I want to beat this child down. Sorry guys, I'm latin. Us latins, we beat our kids until they submit. White parents tends to talk and bargain over and over and over again with their children. Then they wonder why their children talk back to them and end up on drugs or worse! Us latins, our kids talk back once, do NOT obey just once, and you will get the worst beating of your life! So bad that a latin child would think twice of doing what they did to deserved the beating, again.

Anywhos. My woman is beginning to question why I don't want to be around her or make any attempt to be with her during the time she has her daughter for the week.

What do I say to this without hurting her feelings? The old "I'm busy working, and studying" shit is getting old. And I feel she is catching on to the fact that I tend to do this during the week she has her fucking annoying, ADHD'd the fuck out, kid.

What do I do? What do I say? And NO! Dumping her and getting another woman is not an option! Dumbasses. Lol

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You touch a white kid boy and I'll personally call the Grand Dragon in your area and arrange a fucking lynching. :)

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Holy fuck are you serious? You want to strangle a 6 year old because she doesn't listen to a dude her mother has been dating for 10 munutes?

Beat kids into submissiin?

You really should consider suicide bro, it'd be best for all parties involved.

You fucking piece of shit.
 
cindylou said:
How else should it be?
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I have my kid five days a week. He goes to his mothers on Tuesday & Wednesday. My mom keeps him a couple Fridays or Saturdays each month so I can go out. I think it's easier on the kid having one main home.
 
WoodyO said:
I have my kid five days a week. He goes to his mothers on Tuesday & Wednesday. My mom keeps him a couple Fridays or Saturdays each month so I can go out. I think it's easier on the kid having one main home.
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But how do you determine what home that is then?

I mean in a lot of situations it usually plays out that way, one parent is the primary caretaker but there are a lot of 50/50 arrangements now and so far I read recently that kids seem to do well with it. That's what I would have wanted if my parents split.
 
cindylou said:
But how do you determine what home that is then?

I mean in a lot of situations it usually plays out that way, one parent is the primary caretaker but there are a lot of 50/50 arrangements now and so far I read recently that kids seem to do well with it.
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Well, I determined that my kid was staying with me when his mom abandoned him. I wouldn't even let his visit his mom for nearly a year.

He begs me not to go over there too.

I guess it would work out for the kid if they had two good parents. I wouldn't know anything about that though.
 
My ex was Mexican and my son is Mexican, Hawaiian and Norwegian. He's doomed to manual labor with those genes.
 
It is confirmed now though, that I do NOT look like Joe Rogan. Just like his hillbilly cross-dressing cousin who doesn't even lift bro.

Pick3!

And I have sexy green eyes :)
 
dabuffguy said:
It is confirmed now though, that I do NOT look like Joe Rogan. Just like his hillbilly cross-dressing cousin who doesn't even lift bro.

Pick3!

And I have sexy green eyes :)
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Hey lucky for mitch your nose already looks like a dick. Nice fucking shirt too bro.

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Smokescreen said:
Been dating a white woman now for 8 weeks. She's cool and all, but her 6 year old daughter drives me absolutely fucking nuts!

Her daughter has ADHD and neither parent of hers is doing anything to resolve her issue. The mother, my woman, wants to send her daughter to a therapist. The father, on the other hand, agrees she needs therapy and/or meds, but keeps delaying anything from happening.

The daughter is only with her every other week. So for one week, I'm having fun, I'm calm and cool with my woman. The next week her daughter is around us, I want to beat this child down. Sorry guys, I'm latin. Us latins, we beat our kids until they submit. White parents tends to talk and bargain over and over and over again with their children. Then they wonder why their children talk back to them and end up on drugs or worse! Us latins, our kids talk back once, do NOT obey just once, and you will get the worst beating of your life! So bad that a latin child would think twice of doing what they did to deserved the beating, again.

Anywhos. My woman is beginning to question why I don't want to be around her or make any attempt to be with her during the time she has her daughter for the week.

What do I say to this without hurting her feelings? The old "I'm busy working, and studying" shit is getting old. And I feel she is catching on to the fact that I tend to do this during the week she has her fucking annoying, ADHD'd the fuck out, kid.

What do I do? What do I say? And NO! Dumping her and getting another woman is not an option! Dumbasses. Lol

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You say nothing if you have any decency or common sense. If the dad is half a man and finds out you're disciplining his child after seeing her mom for a few weeks, he'll beat the fuck out of you.

Stfu and deal with it or split
 
sexyMFer said:
You say nothing if you have any decency or common sense. If the dad is half a man and finds out you're disciplining his child after seeing her mom for a few weeks, he'll beat the fuck out of you.

Stfu and deal with it or split
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^^^ This is true. My ex already lives with a new guy and she knows I'd fucking kill her and him if I ever heard of anybody disciplining my kid.
 
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