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so I sold my engagement ring

I have no idea what is even going on here.
 
WTF? You have an ex who didn't pay for shit and you pawned the ring he gave you from before? Or you got a new guy and pawned the ring he gave you?
 
new guy...and it wasn't technically pawned. I didn't expect the jeweler to hold it.
 
Sorry to hear you're going through a bad time. You seem like a resilient and strong soul so I have no doubt you will get through this. When the going gets tough, the tough get going ;-)

My friend who is a single Mom of two kids was down and out years ago. She had to collect welfare first time in her life and was in horrible shape. She decided to attend a government run program to become a Nurses Aid and within a year was working in a Hospital making $20 an hr to start. She is doing really well now.
Maybe look into some programs in your area to further your career towards higher paying employment. Rock bottom is often the foundation where people rebuild their lives....good luck
 
My friend who is a single Mom of two kids was down and out years ago. She had to collect welfare first time in her life and was in horrible shape. She decided to attend a government run program to become a Nurses Aid and within a year was working in a Hospital making $20 an hr to start. She is doing really well now.
Maybe look into some programs in your area to further your career towards higher paying employment. Rock bottom is often the foundation where people rebuild their lives....good luck
 
^lol

Shirlz isnt a single mom. She has a college degree. She has yrs experience as a paramedic among other shir. Her husband makes 6 figs but they have 35 kids to feed and Shurzl has some deadbeat baby daddies to contend with.
 
smurf2 said:
^lol

Shirlz isnt a single mom. She has a college degree. She has yrs experience as a paramedic among other shir. Her husband makes 6 figs but they have 35 kids to feed and Shurzl has some deadbeat baby daddies to contend with.
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She has more kids than that.
 
I read the first page and last, and seriously, I think you probably have a very healthy relationship with your current bf, and it's strong enough that the ring isn't the biggest part of the picture. I would take from what you said, that he is aware and agrees with the selling of (or taking a loan out on) the ring, and that means a LOT. You and he are putting your integrity and reputations ahead of the ring, and that's a big thing.

Charles
 
smurf2 said:
^lol

Shirlz isnt a single mom. She has a college degree. She has yrs experience as a paramedic among other shir. Her husband makes 6 figs but they have 35 kids to feed and Shurzl has some deadbeat baby daddies to contend with.
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I don't know her story but shared my friend's just as an encouragement I guess.
My friend has a college degree, but as we all know, a degree doesn't always offer stability in the work place

Now I'm confused, then why is she selling her ring for food?
 
exactly what smurf said...deadbeat daddies and a lot of extra mouths to feed


Greg is putting in OT, I attempted 3 jobs and burned out fast...I'm down to two


I am incredibly grateful to those that have helped. I didn't post asking for help nor did I expect it. Let me reiterate, I am INCREDIBLY grateful for the help. The outpouring of help has been nothing short of amazing. This puts me firmly on my feet for this month which will really be a first in like two years now and gets my ring back.
Shit has been tight but not completely unbearable until some shit hit the fan and money that's owed to me will never get paid but I still have to pay out. I'm just up against a wall.

plunkey made me an offer a while ago that I truly hope to be able to accept in the future so I can help myself
digi gave me great advice for the mortgage sitch
nan walked me through some legal bullshit with my oldest kid





everyone has been amazing...Really.
 
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Become a massage therapist. 6 months of training and you will be making money fist over cock.
 
$120 a day for daycare? That's the most expensive I've ever heard. I live in San Diego and I have a friend in San Francisco, two places where cost of living are very high, and the most around here or there is still less than $2000.

Find someone with a licensed in home daycare like we did. We pay $200 a week for our two year old and that includes diapers and food. Or better yet do what bill said and turn the older kids into babysitters.
 
billfred said:
can you turn some of that 6 household members into babysitters? They is they way my Mother did it.
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That's pretty much how it's been ..

I still do what needs to be done but to be honest, it feels like it's never enough a lot of the time.
 
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My 5 year old has after school care for $15/day, which I still think is too much for somebody to sit around and watch a kid finger paint.
 
yeah, Nev tells me what his childcare costs and I have no answer for that...none. I have never seen childcare under 80 a bucks a day for a kid in diapers and that was the other end of the state. If I remember right it was 80 bucks a day here for a kid OUT of diapers/preschool age.
 
Jesus Christ you guys....


I have 2 boys from a different home...I pay 2900.00 a MONTH child support


I pay my ex 400k over 3 years

I have another woman that I have a child with..

I pay 1500.00month child care for my little girl starting October 1st plus I have a 2500.00/month mortgage...

Plus bills, clothes , baby stuff etc etc etc....it fucking
Sucks...can you fuckers lend me money? You wonder why I like hydros?

This isn't a joke either
 
my life is a mess...the only thing I have going for me is that the 400k is paid off in one more year...nice fucking life...
 
I have no bills and no debt. I did spend like over $1k on booze and drugs & various other shit this weekend though.
 
I pay upwards around 15k a month to shit I don't get...besides giving my kids 2900.00/month child support...since when does a 5 and a 7 year old need 2900.00/month for clothes etc...whatever that payment doesn't bother me
 
wootoom said:
I pay upwards around 15k a month to shit I don't get...besides giving my kids 2900.00/month child support...since when does a 5 and a 7 year old need 2900.00/month for clothes etc...whatever that payment doesn't bother me
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is that why you've brought it up twice already?


lol
 
wootoom said:
I pay upwards around 15k a month to shit I don't get...besides giving my kids 2900.00/month child support...since when does a 5 and a 7 year old need 2900.00/month for clothes etc...whatever that payment doesn't bother me
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Have you ever tried to get custody for your older 2 kids?
 
how bout you fuckin do cam shows quit bein a lil whiney bish, it's called myfreecams dot com BAM i just solved your whole life
 
yeah woot...do cam shows (obv was intended for woot, no one wants to see my naked ass)
 
WoodyO said:
Have you ever tried to get custody for your older 2 kids?
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No, I get them a lot...that's why I struggle with how much I'm paying..I have them as much as her...it's fucked up...I would never get them full time...she's not a bad mom, just a fucking horrible wife
 
wootoom said:
No, I get them a lot...that's why I struggle with how much I'm paying..I have them as much as her...it's fucked up...I would never get them full time...she's not a bad mom, just a fucking horrible wife
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Probably not worth going back to court?
 
wootoom said:
No, I get them a lot...that's why I struggle with how much I'm paying..I have them as much as her...it's fucked up...I would never get them full time...she's not a bad mom, just a fucking horrible wife
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Yeah I have had a couple of those!
 
I know this is all mushy but it really touched me to see people come together to help. I think most of us have been in a similar situation and know the stress, especially with kids involved, and even though we're a bunch of names on a screen, people helped. It sort of restored a little bit of my faith in humanity. :)

Back to the regular scheduled programming...
 
caligirl85 said:
I know this is all mushy but it really touched me to see people come together to help. I think most of us have been in a similar situation and know the stress, especially with kids involved, and even though we're a bunch of names on a screen, people helped. It sort of restored a little bit of my faith in humanity. :)

Back to the regular scheduled programming...
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me too...my faith in humanity needed a little help..

:heart:
 
caligirl85 said:
I know this is all mushy but it really touched me to see people come together to help. I think most of us have been in a similar situation and know the stress, especially with kids involved, and even though we're a bunch of names on a screen, people helped. It sort of restored a little bit of my faith in humanity. :)

Back to the regular scheduled programming...
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god shut up already!
 
WoodyO said:
I have no bills and no debt. I did spend like over $1k on booze and drugs & various other shit this weekend though.
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Just not at Wet N Reckless on Friday night...where you were supposed to be.
 
shirlene29 said:
yeah, Nev tells me what his childcare costs and I have no answer for that...none. I have never seen childcare under 80 a bucks a day for a kid in diapers and that was the other end of the state. If I remember right it was 80 bucks a day here for a kid OUT of diapers/preschool age.
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I just googled. First one I clicked in your area. $335/week for potty trained, $250/week for non potty trained. $50 a day.
 
ceo said:
I just googled. First one I clicked in your area. $335/week for potty trained, $250/week for non potty trained. $50 a day.
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I think you got potty trained and non potty trained mixed up...pm link
 
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Jesus. I only pay $87/ wk for her up be there 3 days. It'd be $102 for 5 days. It's a nice place too.

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I dont know anything about money problems. I'm literally a millionaire

Shurls, if Greg's job had an EAP service (they do i'm sure of it), then they also have a childcare resource service whete they research ALL licensed child care in your area including calling each place to see about openings and get answers to basic questions. Then they give you the list with all the info. Basically they do all the foot work for you.

I've used this service twice now and its amazing
 
My kid has a summer club at his school for $15/day and they take him to Lego Land, the zoo, museums. All sorts of cool shit that I never got to do at school.
 
WoodyO said:
Mi kid has a summer club at his school for $15/day and they take him to Lego Land, the zoo, museums. All sorts of cool shit that I never got to do at school.
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yeah mine too. They go to the pool water park once a week, bowling, movies...


My older brother just beat the shit out of me every summer.
 
woodyo said:
my kid has a summer club at his school for $15/day and they take him to lego land, the zoo, museums. All sorts of cool shit that i never got to do at school.
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ess?
 
Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me. Give it to me.
 
You like that? You like that you faggot fuck! This is what it's going to feel like when you're getting fucked in the ass by some big buck ngr!
 
ceo said:
nah, typo. I meant $225/week for potty trained. Sorry.
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I just looked, that's for preschool,though I honestly never heard of it till now. Quick tour tells me why; They aren't NAEYC accredited.

they take kids three and up...the youngest better be potty trained by the timer she's three or she gets the belt..my youngest just turned two.

the three yr olds meet on Tues and Thurs, the fours on Mon, Wed, Fri. They don't have session when school is out.


Their rates are really weird to me...Trinity was cheaper than that..the preschool Kayka went to and the hrs are the same..all children had to be potty trained to attend.
 
smurf2 said:
I dont know anything about money problems. I'm literally a millionaire

Shurls, if Greg's job had an EAP service (they do i'm sure of it), then they also have a childcare resource service whete they research ALL licensed child care in your area including calling each place to see about openings and get answers to basic questions. Then they give you the list with all the info. Basically they do all the foot work for you.

I've used this service twice now and its amazing
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I had to google EAP...they do. I'll have him ask....I didn't know they'd do stuff like that.

The last time I seriously hunted down daycare was when I only had one to put in daycare.
 
^^^^^ LOLOLOLOL

we have a big indoor playscape one right down the road...thats a GREAT idea
 
yeah...that was my next option...stick em in my room with the tv on...benadryl em and lock the doors from the outside

that should be safe right? I mean, they got a bathroom
 
I brought a girl to my house a couple weeks ago and she drank an entire bottle of codeine cough syrup I had.
 
shirlene29 said:
yeah...that was my next option...stick em in my room with the tv on...benadryl em and lock the doors from the outside

that should be safe right? I mean, they got a bathroom
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I know a girl with benadryl.

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I have one 10mg codeine pill or something equally as small...whats that worth? like a buck fifty?
 
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