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mistaballoonhands
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LOL @ Epic superusers. They're useless.
which part makes you angry? The fact that he pays more in support to his ex in one month than you make in two months? Or...?
Won't be too long and you and the doctor will be 1%'ers too.
digimon7068
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bwahahahahaha
digimon7068
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lolololololololol
i'd agree but as long as there are hospitals willing to pay me $85 an hour and my wife.. i'll keep using it for them..
youpissmeoff
Banned
Your ex needs to be shot. Unnecessarily subject his own children to this will earn him a special place in hell.
digimon7068
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true dat...if anything ever happened with my wife and i, i wood do everything in my power to make sure my kids had everything they needed...i'd just end up working 7 days a week...which wood be different than now because?????? hahahaha *sigh*
Ummm you think i've never had to pay taxes? You talk out of your ass dude. I just got done paying off the IRS for a year where i owed so much i had to go on payment plan for 4 yrs
He's around. Asking to get to know the boys better, hopes to move in together.
He has been hoping that I will get tired enough of being broke that I will just hand the boys over or come back.
I won't do either.
I was 16. Suffered an attack, so I picked the biggest aggressive asshole I could find. My guard dog.
javaguru
Banned
Yeah, that makes sense; Childhood trauma is the basis for all our dysfunction. You probably didn't need an attack dog but the exact opposite.
tryin2tone
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I'm not sure what state you live in. But each state is pretty much the same at support enforcement. It just sucks that you haven't done anything up til now to put him in arrears. If he was behind on his support payments the enforcement agency would be more hard pressed to put the shaft to him. I am speaking from personal experience with this. You seriously need to go petition for custody and support.
we know
Look for myway?
WoodyO
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Frank Sinatra?
billfred
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noob
redsamurai
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look i'm certainly no legal expert but do you think that was maybe a mistake given how you were rawdogged by the ex? I don't know, maybe the other way you would have spent way more initially...but maybe you wouldn't have to suffer the indignity of writing the hure that big check every month. I would think that might have been worth it no?
redsamurai
Banned
there wasn't, it's just election time and spy is trying to make a political statement using V's circumstances which is completely and entirely unfair. But people like to parse and pull what they want from a story so it fits their own narrative.
V is one of those sluts who dared walk on her godly ordained husband and now she wants a handout, which she isn't but that's neither here nor there when someone wants to make a political point.
i actually did way better bro...if you go to court the judge decides on what you pay? would you take that risk? i have 2 kids i did not want them to get all caught up in this also...i dont pay alimony, just a net worth of my 50% assests like any mediation or court would ask for...you go to court you will have to pay more lawyer fees, court time and for sure some alimony...trust me, im an expert on this topic now lol
redsamurai
Banned
ok, yeah i certainly won't argue with you on this one. lol
He owes nearly $14,000 in back child support. You're right a waited too long to do anything. But please understand, he made threats, his other family members did too. I didn't feel safe enough to do anything until I moved clear across town. The cops in the city I was in were absolutely no help.
WoodyO
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I spent more than that on Craft Beer and cigars so far this year.
-half Teh Jacket
-half of forex millions
-half a 750 chic bike
sprinkled with threats of snitching on joose usage
who's fate is this?????????????????????????
1 Canadian dollar = 1.0081 US dollars we been above par for a while
Lol, how dare I? I need to be put in my place!
All kidding aside, I think if I was looking at my situation thru a web forum it would be very easy to pass judgement. I joke around in here a lot. You guys see the more crass side of my personality and with my circumstances it's easy to draw conclusions that are incorrect.
I'm not upset with SW for what he posted. His experience was awful and we draw our points of view from our experiences.
I really appreciate you guys standing up for me thou
Its nice to know that people see that I'm not a lazy welfare mom.
My best friends ex got tossed in jail for not paying support only took 5 years to catch up to him but still. I hope he got ass raped good in there he called her crying like a bitch a few times.
He's out owes here over $30,000 in back support never paid a dime for his child plus he still needs to pay what's currently mandated.
Sadly I think he will go back to jail before she see's a dime. If he never pays when he's suppose to collect old age pension she will get his money. Canadian government makes you pay for your kid at some point just takes a long ass time.
Hi Stefka
I'm thinking he will leave the country and live with family elseware before he pays. When he got arrested for messing with the neighbors he was totally groveling. All I heard was how right I was and how he was so sorry for being a bad example to the boys. Please please don't take his kids away.
Fucker. All he ad to do was be fair with me. Help a little with the boys.
We starve and he picks them up decked out in new clothes with expensive shoes. I waited until I had the boys situated in thier new school, I got the court papers from his arrest and I am gonna throw everything and the kitchen sink at him.
Fucker. All he ad to do was be fair with me. Help a little with the boys.
We starve and he picks them up decked out in new clothes with expensive shoes. I waited until I had the boys situated in thier new school, I got the court papers from his arrest and I am gonna throw everything and the kitchen sink at him.
noodles1010
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V, what state are you in? I'm actually going thru the same shit with my girl and her ex now. I'm nailing his ass to a cross and burning it. Let me know I can tell you what we are doing and it's working.
Similar situation except he doesn't know his dad cause he is never ever around. When he does come around he only causes problems, So we said to hell with it and make him pay out the ass.
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mistaballoonhands
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jackangel
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If Mother Teresa showed up on EF to complain about her difficulties in helping the homeless on the streets of Calcutta, I'm pretty sure a wise juicer with much experience banging whores and earning a middle class living would have some ready criticism and sage advice for her. All hail the Internets.
I'm in Colorado
They take your drivers licences and passport away when your a degenerate that doesn't pay for your child here.
My friend at least has parents to lean on and she had to move back in with them. Her son does love it close to the grandparents so that nice for him.
I've been scared. If I hold back maybe I can keep my feeling for him in check, or that's what I thought. So if he decides my drama is too much and he leaves I'll be cool.
But we spent all last week together when the boys went to see my grandma. things were said that blew that out of the water.
She's lucky. My mom drinks so I don't let her see my kids.
noodles1010
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Take him to court and demand that he surrender his w-2 from the time you were divorced, split ect.. Once the judge sees those they will asses back owed support, then they will asses how often he sees them. The less he sees them the more support is owed. If you can get pictures of him drinking or acting "un fit" then it's more ammo for your arsenal. If he smokes pot or had a medical card ect. Make him look like a scum bag. How often does he call the kids to check on them ect. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Then lay it all out there at once in court. The less he knows the better for you.
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youpissmeoff
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Rightfully so
jnevin
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Sorry, but Spy Wizard is right.
WoodyO
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Spill it!
jackangel
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watch your fucking mouf chinaman
Right about what?
Do I have to?
WoodyO
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Shit yeah, you do. The only other thread that's getting any traffic is whiny bitches saying welfare won last night.
The only thing that makes him "unfit" is that he is aggressive. And since that one time he has not been aggressive with the boys. Or at least the boys haven't said anything about it.
He is just a completely arrogant asshole. He's racist, lazy, arrogant and thinks he's entitled to being taken care of. He is the "cool" dad. He let's them do what they want, encourages fighting. Doesn't push education and self reaponsiblity. To me those are traits if an unfit father but I'm not sure a judge will see those as reasons.
noodles1010
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Unfortunately that's the job of the separated dad everywhere...
There is always other ways to show that he's unfit. Maybe your in his car, drop 500.00 in blow under the seat and maybe your a pissed off drug dealer who drops an anonymous tip about a other dealer stepping on your toes. Be creative. There's nothing I won't do to protect my son. This is all hypothetically speaking of course cause no one would ever do this... : /
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gotmilk
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Fuck, no wonder you are tripping between Bogota and Calgary...
LOL youre catching on
gotmilk
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Is part of that settlement because you didn't have to sell your house?
That's the ass-kicker here in the states. 50-50 split of assets often causes people to have to sell their home too.
youpissmeoff
Banned
Yeah... Better to keep two homes
Ugh, ok. Well he said he loved me. It felt...really fucking good. Now he wants to do a few things to help me. Join a couple of bills. He is offered to pay some stuff off for me. Really pushing to get to know the boys because he wants to move in together. Having a two income household would help a lot. But...
I feel like I'm slipping into something that could get out of control real quick.
WoodyO
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Do you get off on the drama or something? Sounds like you've got a chance to make a better life for you and your boys.
Fuck that, once the guy starts paying your bills hes gonna want stuff from you, like pussy and blow jobs maybe anal. Think about it? Is giving up the pussy alot worth some guy paying all your bills?
No woody. I have a teenage boy. It's not just as easy as moving in with him and we are having a happy Brady bunch life. I have to take it slow. My Kids have been thru a lot, I'm just being careful. My boys father manipulates them. My oldest is unsure of BlueShirt.
Look, I love BlueShirt. He is a good man, hardworking, kind, responsible and honestly he would make a great father. He's consistent and a very moral man. He would be a great example to my kids.
I think I hesitate because sometimes I wonder why a man like him would walk into all of this chaos. And what if he changes his mind?
WoodyO
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I hear ya.
I've got step kids. My wife's ex was a worthless piece of shit that knocked her up as a teenager, joined the navy and took her from her family in San Diego to a naval base somewhere in Jersey or Philly, where he persisted to beat her in front of her young children daily until an officer living next door had enough of it and kicked the door in one night.
It's not easy raising step kids. Especially when there's a shitty ex still in the picture and the kids don't respect you as a father, but still come to you when they need something.
Lol he already gets all of that now.
Pics vids or I call bullshit right now!!!
And then I am fucking steaming fucking mad about the lies!
Woot when the fark is your kid gonna pop out? We are already having some contractions here and there.
Race ya!
Race ya!
redsamurai
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i do love a woman who freely talks about going anal. It's so hot. It really is the only sex we should be having till we're married and are responsible enough for children.
Well maybe if you ask him nicely he'll help out. Who knows, you might have to ask at several different times. Make sure you treat him with 100% respect at all interactions. He might not deserve it but I'm almost positive he will eventually come around.
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^^^ who that fuck is this?
Haha beat u!
Gutdamnit I was taking a shit!
Hope you wiped good.
I outsource my ass wiping since I can't reach back there
cool story you fucking waste
WoodyO
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redsamurai
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Big Rick Rock
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Is he paying his proper and legal % of child support?
Did you guys did in deed separated because you wanted to be independent?
If you answered yes to those two, he is kinda right babe.
-BRR
youpissmeoff
Banned
Lol - you don't get around much anymore
You are absolutely entitled to child support, not sure about your state but in NY, they'd make him pay your legal fees as well.
Is there such a thing as legal aid in your state? You DEFINITELY need to talk with a lawyer.
He pays no child support. I'm not trying to take him for everything he's got, not trying to get rich off of him. I just want him to pay what's fair. I'm happy to work and pay my side of it.
If being independent means not having to ask permission to go to the bathroom and having to beg to close the door while I do my business. I would say yes, I left him to be "independent".
He was rediculously controlling and agressive. That is why I left. He calls not wanting to be watched every minute and having to ask permission to buy even groceries seeking independance.
I actually talked to them yesterday. They won't take my case because I filed the papers before I contacted them. They only want to take easy cases.
Getting the order isn't the problem. Getting him to pay is. He will go to jail before he pays.
canadianhitman
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tryin2tone
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I would get up to go to the bathroom he would grab me and ask me where I was going. I would tell him to the bathroom, sometimes he would follow, sometimes I would get just a moment before he would be knocking in the door. If he followed he would want the door cracked so he could talk to me. He didn't stand in there with me. I absolutely hated it.
jnevin
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Cunt tax?
Big Rick Rock
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Well there you go. That money is for your children and you should request it and receive it, it is your Kid's money, not even yours to turn down.
Sound like great reasons to want a Divorce, not great reasons to get married to begin with. How you not see it coming?
Maybe you are just too attractive and he too insecure to handle having you.
Anybody on EF seen a pic of you yet? -
Hit me with Karma and let me know if you have. 
Kind of interesting actually.
Sound like great reasons to want a Divorce, not great reasons to get married to begin with. How you not see it coming?
Maybe you are just too attractive and he too insecure to handle having you.
Anybody on EF seen a pic of you yet? -
Hit me with Karma and let me know if you have. Kind of interesting actually.
How many time do I have to tell you guys lol. I was 16 when we got together. Very immature and stuff happened that made made me very insecure. Looking back I can tell you the warning signs. But at the time I blinded myself to them. He really didn't get unbearable until after I lost the baby weight from my second child. I started working out, I became physically and mentally stronger, and he lost his damn mind.
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