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My girlfriend might be pregnant help

and who's the father???

The morning after pill go down or rather she goes down you can take her to the planned parenthood clinic tomorrow and it will be free..

then a nice breakfast at perkins maybe..
 
my suggestion would be wait til you're ready to have a kid before you do what it takes to make one. Good luck future dad
 
She is on the pill so I thought I was good but it's not looking that way I'm 23 so I guess it's not the end of the world just not what I was planning on right now we are home but she is afraid to take the test I'm trying to convince her
 
The morning after pill or as I like to call it breakfast in bed works every time. You should have been prepared. She's cheating on you any ways so it's probably only like a 25% chance it's yours or one of the other three homos she's screwing. Lol


When we do right nobody remembers, when we do wrong nobody forgets. H.A.M.C
 
wait till the morning to take it...
if u test tonight and she is pregnant then u'll be up all effin night panicking and then tomorrow will suck even worse. procrastinate.
 
If I was 23 I would be considering the a-word. Rhymes with smushmorshion. Unless you're ultimate plan is to marry this lady and you have some money reserves....

also dude, did she take her pill at the same time every day for the past month or so? any chance she skipped the placebo pills and went with the baby killers instead?

Make her pee on the damn stick.
 
Look at it this way. If she is prego then you can bust a nut in her all you want now. You don't have to worry about pulling out or using a rubber. That's if she puts out because a lot of prego's libidos goes down the gutter. And for me a baby in the belly doesn't really do it for me.


When we do right nobody remembers, when we do wrong nobody forgets. H.A.M.C
 
She wasn't ready either she just became an RN and is starting a career so I guess we will have a little talking to do
 
Did you want to be with or marry this girl anyway? If you did then don't have or consider an abortion if she's pregnant, it will fuck shit up between you forever, that is unless you have no souls to start with, but if you think it's the easy way out and break up you may end up a couple years down the road regretting it, 23 is a man and if you love this chick the you should do the right thing and all I mean by that is do the right thing by you, fucking your gf will always eventually lead to this, the first kid is scary as fuck but I've got 3 now at 33, no problem, that's life, some of the best years of my life, scary but pretty fucken good! things you may want to consider
 
Just make damn sure you don't let the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with have a abortion, you'll never get past that, hind sight is 20/20 kind of shit, you know what I mean

Good luck Bro!
 
In all seriousness man kids are great. I have a few nephews and nieces and I can't get enough of them. I also have a little girl on the way and couldn't be happier about it. I was scared as fuck when I first found out and I didn't know what to do. Now I'm excited as fuck and can't wait for her to get here. It's calmed me down a lot knowing I'm going to be a father. Before I was getting into fights, drinking and pill popping and running wild with my mc. I still run wild with them but think more. She's still a couple of months from being born but the love I have for her is like no other I've ever felt. People told me this before and I didn't understand until my time came. Everything works out. Me and my girl are young but not as young as you two. I'm 29 and she's 24 so for me I've lived my days partying and she did two in college. The bases flea from red hot chilli peppers said this "your life isn't over when you have a child, it's just beginning. And for some it saves your life". Those words for me a very true. I know for a fact that if it wasn't for the person I'm with and the baby that is relying on me for her survival, I'd be dead or in prison.


When we do right nobody remembers, when we do wrong nobody forgets. H.A.M.C
 
Then I'll give you one more piece of advice I really could have used, I wasted so much time through out the 1st pregnancy tripping out and stressing that I missed all the good stuff with my now wife, what I wish I would have done, easier said than done but really is that I just chilled and was 100% for it the whole time, cuz she needed that from me and we both missed out because I couldn't be man when it was as simple as just accepting that the chick I couldn't live without anyway was pregnant and go with the flow, the next 2 were different, but I was lost with the first man, you hit me up of need anything Bro, sounds like she is pregnant huh?
 
In all seriousness man kids are great. I have a few nephews and nieces and I can't get enough of them. I also have a little girl on the way and couldn't be happier about it. I was scared as fuck when I first found out and I didn't know what to do. Now I'm excited as fuck and can't wait for her to get here. It's calmed me down a lot knowing I'm going to be a father. Before I was getting into fights, drinking and pill popping and running wild with my mc. I still run wild with them but think more. She's still a couple of months from being born but the love I have for her is like no other I've ever felt. People told me this before and I didn't understand until my time came. Everything works out. Me and my girl are young but not as young as you two. I'm 29 and she's 24 so for me I've lived my days partying and she did two in college. The bases flea from red hot chilli peppers said this "your life isn't over when you have a child, it's just beginning. And for some it saves your life". Those words for me a very true. I know for a fact that if it wasn't for the person I'm with and the baby that is relying on me for her survival, I'd be dead or in prison.


When we do right nobody remembers, when we do wrong nobody forgets. H.A.M.C

^^^^^*good shit here, Bros to the rescue, awesome!
 
This is the reason i stick to anal

Or a swift unexpected shot to the lower abdomen always does the trick

fuck parenthood, i got my own problems to worry about.

Just tryin to give another perspective here guys. Much love and respect to the EF mommas and daddys :D
 
good luck with whatever you guys decide...

tough conversations
if shes an RN this really wont derail her career much at all...the staff she works with will be all twitterpated
also...if shes an RN she really doesn't "need" you for like...income or anything so don't go all male provider bullshit on her

everyone is really too selfish for a baby until theyre presented with their own...so thats not much of a deciding factor either
if you planned on sticking with her for the long haul and shes ok with the crazy body metamorphosis I say go for it

if youve both still got wild oats to sow...well then maybe its not time

is adoption a consideration?


reverse order but I was super freaked out about my fourth..and when I got into the idea of having another baby..my house burned down
I wasnt really psyched bout her until she was born
now shes the best baby girl ever and I cant imagine a day going by where she doesnt give me her crazy excited wave first thing in the morning with a big smile and a "hi"


just sayin
 
I should add that when i first found out that my wife was prego i was so scared and just wanted it to go away. i freaked and flipped and cried too, lol. Now what I thought at the time was a night mare, has turned out to be the 2nd best thing that has ever happened to me (wife being 1st). I have two girls now and love being a daddy more than anything else. plus finding out about #2 was much easier ;)
 
I should add that when i first found out that my wife was prego i was so scared and just wanted it to go away. i freaked and flipped and cried too, lol. Now what I thought at the time was a night mare, has turned out to be the 2nd best thing that has ever happened to me (wife being 1st). I have two girls now and love being a daddy more than anything else. plus finding out about #2 was much easier ;)

God you're such a pussy
 
If u see your self getting married keep
It and man up if u don't then u have options . I got an abortion with my ex . It made her crazy af but do I regret it no because that bitch was already crazy to begin with and now I'm happy with my current gf .. You need to make your decision based on how u feel Though not on the opinions we have given
 
jesus he is 23

he is still a kid

stop fucking telling him to get married cuz he knocked this chick up

is everyone on here out to ruin this kids life or something?
 
well he did say in is into this chic bro

i wouldnt get married just because of the child.
 
jesus he is 23

he is still a kid

stop fucking telling him to get married cuz he knocked this chick up

is everyone on here out to ruin this kids life or something?

Yeah no shit rob
Let me research divorce stats for kids under 25 and preg before getting married. Pretty sure its not good.
Abortions cost about 5 bills. Best investment youll ever make.
 
jesus he is 23

he is still a kid

stop fucking telling him to get married cuz he knocked this chick up

is everyone on here out to ruin this kids life or something?


23 is a kid? seriously?

I see your marriage point, etc. I would never want a kid at 23, but 23, fuck, 18 is an adult. You deal with shit. Don't feel sorry for the "kid".
 
I went through this in January thus year so let's make it easy for ya in a step by step plan;
1- abortion. Where I live they are free, otherwise I'd opt her to pay
2- she goes crazy with hormones and shit and you dump her
3- fuck a new chick, in the ass this time tho
4- smile :)
 
Wow guys an incredible amount of advice on here thank you so much I just read it all now after work and thankyou all so much
 
23 is a kid? seriously?

I see your marriage point, etc. I would never want a kid at 23, but 23, fuck, 18 is an adult. You deal with shit. Don't feel sorry for the "kid".

23 is still a fucking kid. I changed so much between 21 and 25 and even more from 25 to 30. Now in my mid 30's I can honestly say that most 23 y/o have no business having kids.

If they have the baby they are doomed cause it changes things. If they have an abortion they are doomed cause of the resentment. Either fucking way they they are doomed.
 
23 is still a fucking kid. I changed so much between 21 and 25 and even more from 25 to 30. Now in my mid 30's I can honestly say that most 23 y/o have no business having kids.

If they have the baby they are doomed cause it changes things. If they have an abortion they are doomed cause of the resentment. Either fucking way they they are doomed.

The hot chick with the tats is right

just sayin

Id locate the first wire hanger i could find or possibly an egg beater and go to work bro
 
Ahhh nans... ive missed you

its such a shame I havent had the opportunity to dip my balls in your eager mouth after all these years.... *sigh*
 
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One more thing...

He said she was on the pill, I'd I had a nickel for everytime I heard that I'd be a rich bitch.
 
I had problems with an IUD but never the pill. Most of the time birthcontrol mishaps are user error.
 
What Wulf said! Stop convincing him to get married. He's too young. Abortion, in my opinion, is the best option.
And wear condoms dude!!!
 
Yeah nobody wears condoms anymore haha kidding but yeah were debating what to do she's been upset since she found out shes going to the the doc to see how far along she is and what the options are IF that's what we decided
 
And she was is on the pill but she's horrible at remembering shit she probly fucking missed a day or something

^^^that's what it was. Sometimes all it takes is a missed day.

Good luck with your decision!
 
Yes or pull out, even on the pill. I got preggies on my period and my ex pulled out. I am more fertile than a rabbit.

But yeah, she is not too far along for an abortion, but yes, good vibes with whatever you two chose. Just do what is best for you both
 
Yes or pull out, even on the pill. I got preggies on my period and my ex pulled out. I am more fertile than a rabbit.

But yeah, she is not too far along for an abortion, but yes, good vibes with whatever you two chose. Just do what is best for you both

It honestly shouldnt even be a choice

spike her crink with some RU-486 powder bro

I got some if you need it. Its great for controlling progestoerone sides too boot
 
I had my only child at 23 in a situation much like this one, only the relationship ended before I knew about the pregnancy. We did not reconcile. I looked at adoption but changed my mind at about 6 months into the pregnancy. While I wouldn't trade my son for anything, it's a long hard road, especially when you're just starting out career wise and trying to make ends meet. It can be easy to get caught up in the "magic" of a baby but it really is a lifelong commitment. Not that it isn't with any child...but can be more so when you aren't prepared or planning for it.
 
What Wulf said! Stop convincing him to get married. He's too young. Abortion, in my opinion, is the best option.
And wear condoms dude!!!
I'm pro abortion 100% but something about how easy it is for us to state that option isn't sitting well right now.

Cover up or be a man.
 
Dial Tone, death is part of life. If we can slaughter animals in sick and horrible ways to eat, then why would the same people care about scraping some unformed human cells from a Uterus to stop a human from developing.
We hold on to life like it's tangible, it's not! People die and are killed in droves every minute.

Abortions should be easy.....the world is overpopulated anyway

I'm not cold hearted, just a realist and not afraid of death
 
I don't see the issue with early term abortion and idk what you guys are talking about with resentment. Known people that had an abortion early in life and later married and had kids.

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I always love how teen moms convince themselves that it was the best thing to ever happen to them! Well, they can have fun when 9/10 end up raising it alone. New cars, bikes, and whatever other toys you are into def sound like the better option, than paying for a kid.
 
Well we had a long talk today and my girlfriend is leaning more towards an abortion because she just got hired at the hospital with a good job
 
Well we had a long talk today and my girlfriend is leaning more towards an abortion because she just got hired at the hospital with a good job

Keep the pressure on and dont let up. Youll thank me later
 
i got to walmart when i want to feel better than everyone else! otherwise if you shop there you cant afford children.



you = kenny ^^^
 
Ok couple of questioni kbow she i 22love how old are you what make you tgink she is pregnant and why are you so worried anout it
 
Never mind on my last reply im 24 a single mother of a beautiful three year old daughter my husband found out that i was preg and asked for a divorce right iff the bat but if you love each other then you can do this and i promise you it will be the best thing you have done in your live it wont be easy but it will be soooo worth it

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Never mind on my last reply im 24 a single mother of a beautiful three year old daughter my husband found out that i was preg and asked for a divorce right iff the bat but if you love each other then you can do this and i promise you it will be the best thing you have done in your live it wont be easy but it will be soooo worth it

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Yea worth it until she resents you for knocking her up 10 years later cause cause she spent her 20's struggling to raise a baby. Which, by the way, is a fucking huge responsibility. And let's not forget when the kid becomes a teenager and diesnt appreciate a damn thing.

You're best bet is to wait till you are both ready and mature enough to handle a child. It's a hard job and you get only one chance to make it right.
 
Yea worth it until she resents you for knocking her up 10 years later cause cause she spent her 20's struggling to raise a baby. Which, by the way, is a fucking huge responsibility. And let's not forget when the kid becomes a teenager and diesnt appreciate a damn thing.

You're best bet is to wait till you are both ready and mature enough to handle a child. It's a hard job and you get only one chance to make it right.

your
you're
 
I didn't read through the whole thread, but just incase you haven't been informed prior to this post...

She's cheating on you!
 
Ok couple of questioni kbow she i 22love how old are you what make you tgink she is pregnant and why are you so worried anout it

What?? They took a test. Read the whole thread he explains how they know and his age.


When we do right nobody remembers, when we do wrong nobody forgets. H.A.M.C
 
Never mind on my last reply im 24 a single mother of a beautiful three year old daughter my husband found out that i was preg and asked for a divorce right iff the bat but if you love each other then you can do this and i promise you it will be the best thing you have done in your live it wont be easy but it will be soooo worth it

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Haha. Keep convincing yourself.

OP curb the fetus. Get a good job and spoil yourself with nice things, a great lifestyle, fun vacations, and have a kid after you have enjoyed life instead of having one now and waiting till its in university to travel or party or whatever. It'll never happen! You will struggle and miss out on life!
 
Abortion will be the best decision youll ever make that you wont recognize was the best decision until 10 years later. Mark my words
 
Never mind on my last reply im 24 a single mother of a beautiful three year old daughter my husband found out that i was preg and asked for a divorce right iff the bat but if you love each other then you can do this and i promise you it will be the best thing you have done in your live it wont be easy but it will be soooo worth it

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I thought the whole point of marriage was to eventually try for kids... Extenuating factors ftw :confused: ?
 
So the options are the abortion pill that she takes and basically has a lot of blood and stuff come out or the clinic where they pretty much vaccume it out which is the most effective way and her insurance will cover it she is 7 weeks pregnant
 
just remember that could and should are two very different concepts when it comes to having chidren, I'm sure you could do it and struggle and enjoy it but that doesnt mean you should, there is nothing wrong with waiting for a more stable opportunity when you have time and resources to raise a child the best way you can.
 
shes gonna have to decide which route to go...pill vs d&c/d&e

Im with DT on this and Im pro-choice
bums me out no one gives it a second thought

to anyone saying they'll resent each other post abortion..I doubt it...I remember seeing some statistics on it that overwhelmingly the thought is relief
 
So the options are the abortion pill that she takes and basically has a lot of blood and stuff come out or the clinic where they pretty much vaccume it out which is the most effective way and her insurance will cover it she is 7 weeks pregnant

Vacume procedure at an abortion clinic is the most effective. Planned Parenthood can help you with that.
Not covered by any insurance. Last time i checked it was about $500.
If you dont have the money you better find a way to get it.
 
So the options are the abortion pill that she takes and basically has a lot of blood and stuff come out or the clinic where they pretty much vaccume it out which is the most effective way and her insurance will cover it she is 7 weeks pregnant

My ex was only three weeks pregnant and we did pills . Shoved four up her vag waited 30 she had extreme cramps and bleed for about a week and then she was pregnant no more
 
Yeah I'm surprised theres a lot of pro abortion people on here but it's good support if that's what we choose thanks guys
 
Yeah I'm surprised theres a lot of pro abortion people on here but it's good support if that's what we choose thanks guys

for the first time in my 27 years I had to pee on a damn stick last November eventhough I used 2 forms of birthcontrol and barely had sex, was late a couple of days on the first neg test and several weeks on the second neg test, it's an awful feeling to think you're pregnant when you dont want to be or are unprepared, specially if you were doing things right to prevent it, I dont judge you regardless of what route you take bro!!!
 
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