I'm thinking about kicking someone in the face...

[SpyWizard]

I got a guy friend who has helped me with some stuff. Lately he's been asking me to dinner. I've said no. He keeps insisting that it's just a friend thing but I know better.

At first I was trying to let him down gently but he is very persistent. Now I'm torn cause I feel like he has been a good friend to me in some ways, but at the same time I feel like his asking me out is disrespectful.

disrespectful?? how is that so?? because you are sending mixed signals?? or is he just socially inept?? or now that he's done things for you, and you don't need him/want him, he's disrespectful??

I'm confused..

 

[SpyWizard]

fair enough. but you knew he was expecting at least a bj, right?

bj is not sex...

 

[blueta2]

disrespectful?? how is that so?? because you are sending mixed signals?? or is he just socially inept?? or now that he's done things for you, and you don't need him/want him, he's disrespectful??

I'm confused..

Don;t bother, she doesn't answer any questions pertaining to truth and reality, unless you admit you're a thunder cunt.

 

[WoodyO]

Bj's really should be treated the same as a kiss hello. It's just a normal greeting these days.

 

[sterolizer]

Bj's really should be treated the same as a kiss hello. It's just a normal greeting these days.

I mean that's how you greet all your new friends right?

 

[nydj66]

Jesus Christ, V. What he wants is different from what you want. That's it.

It's silly to feel disrespected becuase he broke some rule that only exists in your head. I'm assuming you've told him that you cannot return the romantic feelings he has toward you AND that you're grateful for what he has done for you.

At that point you're done; nothing left to say. The relationship will not work the way it is now so walk away.

 

[Strongbow]

I get along fine if no one messes with me. You know I didnt start this.

Girlz are like way more hateful than G's, that's a fact/

 

[just...v]

Don;t bother, she doesn't answer any questions pertaining to truth and reality, unless you admit you're a thunder cunt.

No...


I just don't answer a thunder counts questions till she admits that she is a thunder cunt and then repeated the question nicely .

 

[SpyWizard]

Bj's really should be treated the same as a kiss hello. It's just a normal greeting these days.

i completely support this..

 

[just...v]

disrespectful?? how is that so?? because you are sending mixed signals?? or is he just socially inept?? or now that he's done things for you, and you don't need him/want him, he's disrespectful??

I'm confused..

Ok. I don't know how I've ever given him mixed signals. I honestly never flirted with him or anything. I'm careful about that cause I really don't like to be in these situations. What he did for me was put a good word in for me so I could get a job. That's it.

As far as the disrespectful part. I feel like I have very clearly drawn a like with him. I told him I wasn't interested in going out with him. He knows I'm seeing someone and he continues to push. He is ignoring what I'm saying to him and it's making me mad.


Does that make better sense?