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Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advice!

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I ain't reading all this shit. But has the bitch been kicked to the curb yet?
 
Believe me, she is OVER him, what she is not over or struggling to get over is the pain he caused her. It's called PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) and is common in abusive relationships.
Addicts are NOTORIOUS for abusing their loved ones.
Believe me, I know! The psychological abuse caused by all the lying, cheating and sick actions of my ex's put me in a tail spin. I had to go to 9 months of PTSD therapy to deal with the horrible things that I put up with.

Just give her a chance and talk to her. Support her if this is true love cause true love is hard to find and we all grow and we all change if we put a true effort into it.

Sometimes all someone needs is someone who wont turn their back on them. They just need to know what love is supposed to feel like.
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Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

oh just fuck her already
 
None of us can say why she is doing it, we dont know her, her family, her past, etc we could all sit and theorize if she has a disorder and that doesnt matter, why? Because she is not getting it treated... Labeling her "appropriately" wont make her stop.
Deco she does not seem to be over the ex, dont you feel like she'd drop you in the blink of an eye for her ex?
Personally I'd tell her I know what she is doing and it is not healthy in fact it's down right illegal and I would tell her she needs to go to therapy or move out, this problem will not go away just by her trying, Id also go with her to therapy because I wouldnt take her word on it, people who like being needed are the most resistent to seek help and go to therapy

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Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

None of us can say why she is doing it, we dont know her, her family, her past, etc we could all sit and theorize if she has a disorder and that doesnt matter, why? Because she is not getting it treated... Labeling her "appropriately" wont make her stop.
Deco she does not seem to be over the ex, dont you feel like she'd drop you in the blink of an eye for her ex?
Personally I'd tell her I know what she is doing and it is not healthy in fact it's down right illegal and I would tell her she needs to go to therapy or move out, this problem will not go away just by her trying, Id also go with her to therapy because I wouldnt take her word on it, people who like being needed are the most resistent to seek help and go to therapy

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She wouldnt drop me over her ex, thats one of the things I mentioned several times. I broke up with her handful of times and always comes back this way even though the ex was available. I broke up on her bd as I mentioned because I threw her and her friend a huge party, booked out a big venue but she then tried to cover it up so it woulnd't come up on fb and shit like that. I got pissed and told her thats not how its gonna go down. She cried her ass off and txtd her ex, I ended up apologizing and she cut him off again. What's driving me nuts is that she's trying to keep him as a backup plan almost and this creeping crap is just annoying the shit out of me. The fact that she's so dependent, two faced and weak & needy makes me just not like her at all. Shes only been with couple of guys in her life so she gets attached to people way more, in this case it has been just annoying, wish she could be more mature and indepedent but whatever.
 
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My son's mother does all sort of stalkerish stuff like that.Bish makes up fake sns on facebook and requests girls on my page and then start bothering them lmao .Had to make my friendlist private

Woman are stalkers and crazy bro.This is not out of the norm for them

What a STUPID and ignorant thing to say!!!
I've met many MANY men who are stalkers and crazy.
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

she's trying to keep him as a backup plan almost and this creeping crap is just annoying the shit out of me. The fact that she's so dependent, two faced and weak & needy makes me just not like her at all. Shes only been with couple of guys in her life so she gets attached to people way more, in this case it has been just annoying, wish she could be more mature and indepedent but whatever.

Why deal with that? Seriously...it's not worth trying to be a boyfriend and a therapist. So much easier to give her the boot and find a girl that's normal.
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Why deal with that? Seriously...it's not worth trying to be a boyfriend and a therapist. So much easier to give her the boot and find a girl that's normal.

yea I just lost so much respect that i can't even look at her the same way. Im almost to the the point where i just want to print these screen shots off and put a sticky note on there asking her to get help and to move out. the fd up part is that otherwise she's been a good girlfriend thus far but this just kind of cancels everything out for me..
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Do You Stalk Your Exes on Facebook? Be Honest!: Smitten: Sex, Love & Life: glamour.com

"My girlfriend and her last ex have been broken up for at least four years, and she just celebrated her two-year wedding anniversary with her husband, so she's clearly physically moved on. But she admitted that she still wants to know what her ex is doing. She said that she feels guilty looking because her husband doesn't know she thinks about her ex. I told her there's nothing wrong with checking his profile (it's not like she's cheating!), but she said she's scared it would make her husband feel insecure. My solution was to de-friend her ex, but she said she can't bring herself to do it.
The best advice I ever received after a break-up was to stop all communication with an ex. I still think it's the best thing to do, and it's the semi-cliche advice I pass along to all of my friends, but in a world with so much technology, it's almost impossible to sever all ties.

Do you Facebook-stalk your exes? How often do you look, and do you think it would make your boyfriend jealous? Have you ever de-friended your ex?

P.S. Are you friends with your exes on Facebook, and how do you feel about Facebook relationship status updates?

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this explains some of it i guess hah
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

I'm the best friend you'll ever have
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

is alone better
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

swallow your pride
guys and gals have a most difficult time doing this
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

I'll confront her but in some joking manner. I don't think she wants anything to do with him just wants to know if he's prolly lied to her all along or is dating the same old chicks.. I deleted her on fb so now she's desperetly trying to creep my profile... ill give you guys an update when I have one..
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Sometimes all someone needs is someone who wont turn their back on them. They just need to know what love is supposed to feel like.
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Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Why deal with that? Seriously...it's not worth trying to be a boyfriend and a therapist. So much easier to give her the boot and find a girl that's normal.

the nutbags are better in bed
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

well she tried to kill me or kill us both..

more to come...
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Okay, I'm the one that said she was seriously fuggin crazy! I called it!
 
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i have deco dick
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Deco is like a woman with all his meme and fml threads.
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

I guess he's dead, wonder if she choked him, or donkey punched him...
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Okay come on, guy. I think about this situation from time to time. I need to know what happened.
 
Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

update!? I think he's gone :worried:
 
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