Listen bro; i was in the same situation but it was my x-wife and we were in the army so there was a lot more red tape...that being said, i saw him at the bar (called tumbleweeds in vilseck, germany) needless to say..she wanted me to let it ride but being the hard-ass i sometomes am and with my blood loaded with test prop, i waited to get to the parking lot and put it on em real good; i ended up getting charges filed against me (agg. Assault on a government instillation) although they were never persued and dropped after bout a month; That was 6 mos before the deployment to op. Iraqi freedom and during the 15 month tour we fell apart (not my doing whatsoever tho) and ahe found somebody she's "more compatible with and realized that our relationship wasnt right for her anymore" (her words). What im gettin at is 2 points; 1) i did what i felt i had to do as a man, a husband, and protector although it damn near landed me in the brig; and 2) She left me bout 21 months later anyway even though it was a completely different person. That being said me personally, I'll be goddamned if anybody is going to disrespect the woman i love no matter where the fuck in the world we are BUT the harassment as well as what you do about it most likely will have little impact on your relationship or what will happen in the future. Bottom line bro..do what YOU think you should do bout it; if you're a fighter go fight, a shooter go shoot, or if you're a pacifist do nothing and let it continue. Id say my best move would have been talk to her about it and do what she wants u to do, but keep in mind if she says do nothing and its gonna eat u alive inside then you'll be the one trippin on it, not either of them.. Good luck to you bro, i feel for you sincerely and its a fucked up situation. Handle your business how you would handle it if it was your mama or your sister, thats what i did. Didnt work out for me long term but when he put his hands up and said "im done, im done" and i dropped him one last time anyway, it sure as fuck made me feel a lot better even tho we split later anyway. Aint no "im done" when its personal, its war and theres gotta be casulties. Just make sure its not you gettin lumped; when it comes to the women i love in my life, they cant physically defend themselves and sometimes just let it happen and brush it off; prolly happens once a day by some random punk anyways...that being said its your decision how u wanna handle it as much as it is hers, if not she wouldnt/shouldnt have mentioned it.
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