Maybe this is what Lart saw condescending, I've seen it in a couple of your posts in different threads, I didnt want to address it but when "believers" give us the "I feel sorry for you, I pray for you, your life will be better with..." etc stuff it's judgmental, like we're some sort of ignorant or lost souls just because we dont believe in the same things you believe, that's passive digressive judging and maybe you should keep it to yourself if you dont want people calling you out on it....