That is what is fucked up.
You guys just dont get it.
VIOLENCE OF ANY SORT IS WRONG - PERIOD.
I suppose you guys think it equally funny when those big dudes who go out with crazy violent little bitches (the ones that crack beer bottles over their boyfriends' head because he was "talking to long to that skank ho") not refuse to press charges against those crazy little bitches but then say they love her and stay with her.
Those guys are being degraded EQUALLY and it isn't right.
Again, that old Y chromosome fucking ye up each and every time.