You find out the girl you're dating is a VIRGIN.....

[izap1]

AND she's over 21, Do you:

a) get blown away in a good way. You revere her integrity, self descipline & self control. You value her viriginity highly.

b) You get turned off... A woman not knowing what to do in the bedroom is the same as a woman not knowing how to drive. You need an EXPERIENCED lady, who will be fun as hell. You need a lady in the street but a FREAK in the bed.

c) You stay apathetic, because viriginity is not big of a deal. You treat her the same as you would other females, because her being a virgin doesn't give her a plus point nor minus.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

I'd probably feel A, but do C..

just because I wouldn't want to make it wierd or awkward for her..

then I'd take option D : and work on thefting her v card.

 

[heavy_duty]

marry her or leave her alone.

 

[captainahole]

Chances are if she let you know this early in the relationship than there will be a slim chance of having sex with her unless your relationship gets real deep and she feels you are the one she will marry.
If sex is not a big thing with you than there shouldn't be any problem but if you want to get your nuts off you have a problem.
If you do have the chance to have sex with her remember she will be clueless and then nothing is out of bounds.

 

[ironcheif1984]

Stay with her take her virginity and mold her into the sex goddess you want if she is inexperienced. thats just my opinion on it. Did you ask what this girls opinion is on the subject lol......

 

[JimBoy]

The women I know who lost their virginity in college ( only 3 ) are now freaks! They were a little more mature when they finally did get it, and they weren't sleeping w/ some 16 yr old w/ little or no experience. Watch out, once she gets some she may realize what she's missing and go look for more from other places. Maybe not.

How much work is it going to take so you don't hurt the poor girl? If she's small down their and hasn't had any other penetration you may have some work.

If she's cool to be around and you are attracted to her, I would say do it.

 

[RearNaked]

I'd take option D : and work on thefting her v card.

Word!

 

[manny78]

Because she's virgin doesn't mean she wont take it up in the ass.

 

[izap1]

Suppose her most risque experience was only foreplay & handjob...(NO oral sex giving nor receiving)

 

[KillahBee]

I run.

I was in this situation only once (a few other V cards taken but those were under 21). I was floored. She was fucking really hot. Definitely dated dudes before me, was social, etc. No daddy issues or anything. So rare.

Anyway, we dated exclusively (mistake one). A month or 2 into it I slept with her.

That was about 5 years ago. Fast forward to today - she has not slept with a guy since me. Calls me constantly. Still cries on the phone with me.

Taking v-cards is only cool when you're in college or younger. After that it's just annoying and a pain in the ass. Not worth it, IMO