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would you leave your partner is he or she got fat??

Friscochick

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let's be honest here guys!! would you leave your partner? or possible cheat on them if they got over weight while you were with them???
 
No, I wouldn't cheat on her. As long as you stay away. :p

I'd help her get back in shape. Whether that be through fixing healthier dinners and lunches myself or training her at the gym. I'd also hope that one would have an honest enough relationship with their partner that they could talk to them about it openly.
 
Friscochick said:
let's be honest here guys!! would you leave your partner? or possible cheat on them if they got over weight while you were with them???

No i wouldn't it, but i would do everything in my power to encourage her (or force LOL) to lose it.

I think there comes a point in every relationship (i'm talking marriage here, not boyfriend/girlfriend) where love transends the physical aspect.
 
No, I wouldn't leave my man for getting fat. I actually relish the day that my hubby spends less time working out (he can be so obsessed) and doing more ordinary things with me even if he did get fatter.
 
grlpwrd said:
No, I wouldn't leave my man for getting fat. I actually relish the day that my hubby spends less time working out (he can be so obsessed) and doing more ordinary things with me even if he did get fatter.

cool cool.. were all "obsessed" on these boards love tee hee
 
I don't think I would leave, but I think it would get a little annoying and possibly wear on our relationship. I mean, I am constanly wanting to go hiking, play soccer, run, lift, fuck or do anything that can take a lot out of a person. If you are not phsyically able to keep up with me, we could have a problem. I think instead of leaving, I would just start shopping and cooking a little better and try to get some motivation to get outside... like, "come climb to the top of this mountain and have sex in front of the world with me." That is usually some good motivation. Bribing always works for me.
 
Being overweight is generally associated with laziness, gluttony, lack of self-respect and self-control; the unattractiveness of these character traits would outweigh the (subjective) unattractiveness of not having a six-pack. If my partner gained the weight due to a health problem, however, that would be a totally different story. And I'd enjoy playing nurse. ;)

Bottom line? Probably not, unless we're talking about an obesity level of fatness for the abovementioned reasons.
 
i wouldn't leave him for getting fat. he didn't leave me when i had my fat years after i had our son. he always told me i was beautiful, and would give him the same exact love in return if the shoe was on the other foot.

cheating is a terrible terrible thing, it can destroy the confidence of the innocent person involved. i've been on the receiving end of that, and it took me years to feel like i was worthy. i would never want to make someone go thru that kind of pain.
 
No I wouldn't leave..

You come to a point in your life and you have to realize what's
important!!
Someone gaining weight is not important to me.
 
well whatif the guy was just bulking up? can't exacltykeep ean and bul at thesame time, least I can't :bawling:
 
I asked my girl this very question last weekend, if I gained 100 lbs if she would still love me or if I had some type of accident that put me in to a wheel chair and I got fat if she would stay with me and stil love me, because, let's face it - physically I'm just money, absolutley gorgeous. Then she got this really serious and somber look on her face and looked me directly in the eyes and even took hold of my hands - I don't know if she did that for dramatic effect or not - and then she said "well baby, if that happened, I would still want to spend the rest of my life with you and then I would truly show you how much I am in love with you"

Personally, I think the bitch is lying. J/K. It brought a tear to my eye though.
 
notoriousQQ said:
I asked my girl this very question last weekend, if I gained 100 lbs if she would still love me or if I had some type of accident that put me in to a wheel chair and I got fat if she would stay with me and stil love me, because, let's face it - physically I'm just money, absolutley gorgeous. Then she got this really serious and somber look on her face and looked me directly in the eyes and even took hold of my hands - I don't know if she did that for dramatic effect or not - and then she said "well baby, if that happened, I would still want to spend the rest of my life with you and then I would truly show you how much I am in love with you"

Personally, I think the bitch is lying. J/K. It brought a tear to my eye though.


wow!!! your very lucky.. im sure she meant every word!!!

good for you!
 
Ceebs said:
Being overweight is generally associated with laziness, gluttony, lack of self-respect and self-control

I don't think I could be with a person like this. Being fat would drive me away it would be the attitude.
 
I would never leave my mate if she gained weight. As hokey as this sounds...if your only in love with someone when they look good physically then you should walk out of that relationship as it isnt real love and chances are it wont last....

then again...im a small town boy who is very respectful to women and dont see them as just a piece of meat....
 
I agree with what Ceebs said.

For me, I am attracted to people who take a little pride in the appearance. They don't have to be anywhere near perfect, lord knows I'm not. But just making a genuine sincere effort shows a lot about your character.
 
I agree with what Ceebs said.

For me, I am attracted to people who take a little pride in the appearance. They don't have to be anywhere near perfect, lord knows I'm not. But just making a genuine sincere effort shows a lot about your character.
 
Lestat said:
I agree with what Ceebs said.

For me, I am attracted to people who take a little pride in the appearance. They don't have to be anywhere near perfect, lord knows I'm not. But just making a genuine sincere effort shows a lot about your character.

you can say that again, LOL, hehe, oops, i guess you did!
 
ha! very funny.. i duno what's up with the board lately.. I didn't mean to double post.
 
Lestat said:
I agree with what Ceebs said.

For me, I am attracted to people who take a little pride in the appearance. They don't have to be anywhere near perfect, lord knows I'm not. But just making a genuine sincere effort shows a lot about your character.

Ditto
 
I would never cheat or leave my boy if he got fat. I love him for the person he is and not what he looks like. (though true to point my baby will never allow himself to be fat).
 
I would never cheat on any woman.

I would tell her that she's getting fat, and help her lose it. If she got lazy and continued to get fatter, yes, I'd leave her.

I have a friend who used to have a fairly thin girl. Now, 2+ years later, she is such a fat pile of garbage. She is such a lazy, gluttonous (sp?), whatever Ceebs had described. I can't stand it. I just wish he had the heart, or the balls, to tell her ...
 
isnt this interesting

its funny hw everyone in this thread is such an upstanding person.

ill call bullshit on %80 of all of you.
 
YES Goodbye Fat Ass


I have told her this many times, I think it is so sad when a guy marries a cute girl and she blows up into a fat lazy hog and expects him to stay with her. I would also expect her to leave me if I ever let myself turn into a pile of shit (but that's not going to happen:D )

She knows how I feel about this issue and she understands so no flames please.
 
What ever you do......don't tell your girl that her ass is getting wide. I told my old lady that in a round about way and I still haven't heard the end of it:mommakin:
:FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol:
 
Nah, wouldnt cheat or leave, my fiance and I have both gained weight over the past couple of months.. Although i seem to be the only one who cares about losing it. I cant see leaving her due to some weight gain, besides her ass is still killer!
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