Women's attitude about men losing their hair

[hammercurls]

you can tell yourself anything you want to make you feel better, i would too. but its a FACT that hair is better and will always be, sometimes girls flock to bald bald guys the way guys flock to chubby chicks who buy buy their guys what ever they want..see the paradigm? but try to ACT confident and cocky with a bald head and watch the chick/women slaughter you down with one sentance or perhaps 2 words " your bald" dude what happend??
i have WITNESSED girls/women slaughter bald guys when in private, you see i wear a hat so conciously they dont equate me with baldness because i wear a hat 24/7 so they let loose and say what ever around me. so when they talk about the bald guys they are also talking about me.

your happy with baldness good for you, but dont lie to yourself and goose up your ego to try to over power the devastating loss that you have sustained. its almost like a death to a part of your soul not your physical life . the best advice i can give you is to GRIEVE the loss not prolong the pain by acting badass,gung ho. im saving you time. And getting laid isnt justification for acception for hairloss. i get laid 24/7 and have a GREAT sexual life but there's the part of me that knows im not desired as i want to be because with my hair im a different person . you guys act like getting laid is the most triumphant part of a mans life and the cure all for anything. like i said when you mature then repost your thoughts

 

[wayneboard1]

hairloss will not end your life, it will only severly cripple you if your mind aint right, sometimes my mind isnt right and the tears flow, no lie. sometimes i dont think about it. i have been wearing a baseball hat for almost 4 years straight, i even wear it into the bathroom when theres company over. im glad i can wear a hat to work or else id be unemployed. most of you bald dudes that are young remind me of my old self, i used to be like gungo shave my head, i dont give a fuck attitude, but as i got older im getting more paranoid ans its really hittin me hard.

for you 22-25 year old badasses shaving your head wait till your 28 30 then repost your thoughts here

I am in my early 30's and I disagree. Let me ask you one question and I don't at all mean to be mean here. Do you really actually cry because you are losing/have lost your hair?

 

[wutangnomo]

This thread is too funny because it's obvious:

a) That many of you guys are 15 year old teenie boppers.

b) That many of you guys know jack shit about women.

c) That many of you guys are probably virgins.

lol

 

[wayneboard1]

you can tell yourself anything you want to make you feel better, i would too. but its a FACT that hair is better and will always be, sometimes girls flock to bald bald guys the way guys flock to chubby chicks who buy buy their guys what ever they want..see the paradigm? but try to ACT confident and cocky with a bald head and watch the chick/women slaughter you down with one sentance or perhaps 2 words " your bald" dude what happend??
i have WITNESSED girls/women slaughter bald guys when in private, you see i wear a hat so conciously they dont equate me with baldness because i wear a hat 24/7 so they let loose and say what ever around me. so when they talk about the bald guys they are also talking about me.

your happy with baldness good for you, but dont lie to yourself and goose up your ego to try to over power the devastating loss that you have sustained. its almost like a death to a part of your soul not your physical life . the best advice i can give you is to GRIEVE the loss not prolong the pain by acting badass,gung ho. im saving you time. And getting laid isnt justification for acception for hairloss. i get laid 24/7 and have a GREAT sexual life but there's the part of me that knows im not desired as i want to be because with my hair im a different person . you guys act like getting laid is the most triumphant part of a mans life and the cure all for anything. like i said when you mature then repost your thoughts

WOW......just WOW. Bro you are WAY to wrapped up in what others think and even though you are older, you are not wiser in this instance. You really and I mean REALLY need to not care so much about what others think and stop equating lost hair on your head like a deceased spouse or the loss of both arms. It's frigin hair man and thats it, JUST HAIR. Losing hair does not mean you are less of a man. You should not "grieve" the loss of hair. Part of being mature is accepting ones self and making the best of the lot god has given you, not hiding behind a ball cap. For all you know these women that bash bald guys may very well be bashing guys that wear hats 24/7 when you are not there. You make statments such as "it's a FACT that hair is better and always will be". OK, so what? What are you gonna do about it? Are you gonna sit there and cry me a frigin river or are you gonna telll them to take their "facts" and shove it and just be yourself? You started your most recent post off with "you can tell yourself whatever you want to make yourself feel better" but the only one I see doing that here is you. Good God man, screw anyone who is so shallow they can't see past you having hair or not and beleive in yourself!!! Besides why on earth would you want to be with a women who slams you from the word go with "bald dude, what happened?" Losing hair is not the end of the world, it is a part of life for some men and women, DEAL WITH ITAND GET OVER IT. You should have stand up and just be yourself and be proud of who you are. In this instance I think your lack of self esteem is the issue and not your hair. When you beleive in yourself enough and can mature past this hangup, then post your replies.

 

[stuck]

your happy with baldness good for you, but dont lie to yourself and goose up your ego to try to over power the devastating loss that you have sustained. its almost like a death to a part of your soul not your physical life . the best advice i can give you is to GRIEVE the loss not prolong the pain by acting badass,gung ho. im saving you time. And getting laid isnt justification for acception for hairloss. i get laid 24/7 and have a GREAT sexual life but there's the part of me that knows im not desired as i want to be because with my hair im a different person . you guys act like getting laid is the most triumphant part of a mans life and the cure all for anything. like i said when you mature then repost your thoughts

I'm married, so I'm not out trying to get laid anymore. I'm very comfortable with myself, my life and my career. So please don't project the insecurity of your own "devastating loss" onto me.

Did I freak when it started to happen (age 21)? Yes. Did I stress out when I walked into the barber shop and said "shave it all off"? Hell yes. In fact, the guy had to tell me to relax cause I was sweating so bad he couldn't push the trimmers through my hair.

I didn't know if I liked it at first and it took me a couple months to get used to it. But, I have no regrets and I wish I had done it sooner. I take what life gives me and work with it. I can't imagine waking up every morning and having to deal with a crisis of insecurity created solely in my own mind. If you're basing your whole self image on whether you have hair, the problem is in your head, not on top of it.

 

[wayneboard1]

excuse me while i go put gel in my full head of hair

LMAO...ok fabio.

 

[wayneboard1]

Women who want to be treated like shit don't love and respect themselves.

I love those kind of women. LOL

 

[wayneboard1]

Personally, I like women and I respect what they think. The reason some guys think they think one thing and act differently is because the guy just can't relate to them. Guys should quit assuming things about women and take some time to actually get to know them. I have some awesome female friends! If a guy can understand them somewhat, he doesn't have to be a fool and treat them like shit to get their attention.

Not to get all Dr. Phil on everyone here, but it is amazing how well you can do when you ACTUALLY LISTEN.

 

[exotic_island_girl]

We are still talking about the hair on our scalps? right?

--Techbaseball

Duh! Get your mind out of the gutter , sicko

laughs

 

[wayneboard1]

Duh! Get your mind out of the gutter , sicko

laughs

LMAO!!! Well in that case I am bald there too. CHicks dig it at ALL ages. LOL