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Women- explain this, please

Grizzly

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Well, first some slight background to explain my extremed pissed offedness.

About 5 months ago I broke up with the girl that I had considered the love of my life. During the break up she lied to me so badly. One might ask "What did she lie about?" It would be better to ask "What didn't she lie about."

On Labor Day I broke up with a girl that I had been with for two months. She was fucking perfect. Absolutely perfect, except for having 2 kids. Basically, we broke up because I went away to school and we couldn't see eachother as much as one would like because of her kids. You know, she can't just drop them to come here and when I come home she can't always find a sitter. Well, she said that we couldn't exactly be boyfriend and girlfriend because of the difficulties contained therein, plus she had recently broken off an engagement and she wasn't completely ready for another relationship. However, we could still talk to eachother and hook up when I came home and she would try to make it down here once and a while. That sounded like a great idea to me. I could still maintain contact with the perfect one while still getting naked with the beautiful little girls here. However, I have called her numerous times and she hasn't called back. Bitch!

In the last couple of weeks I have gotten a couple of phone numbers. The first girl I called and she didn't call back. No biggie. I went out and met someone else. Cool. The other day I got another phone number. I plain asked her it I called her if she really wanted me to call her. She said yes. I called her and she told me that she would call me back when she was done eating. Did she call back? No! Bitch!

My question is this: What's with all of the lying? First, what was the point of "the perfect one" telling me that I could still see her if she had no intention of following through with it? Why not just say "I'll see you later, buddy." Secondly, why give me your phone number if you don't really want me to call? Wouldn't it just be easier to not give it to me. I didn't ask for either of the numbers. They offered them to me and told me to call them. What the fuck?

Also, let's call this my personal ad. If there's a woman on here who is either a jacked up beast woman or who happens to be a 200 pound fat-ass, give me a ring. I really don't like fat broads, but I'd better start dating them because the next girl who lies to me is going to get a severe beat down. Chyna are you listening? I need you and I'm single.
 
How are you meeting these women? Like at bars? Or what? If your going up to complete strangers, then shit does happen.

Thats why I LIKE to meet guys over the internet. You get to know a little bit about them, what they look like, IF THEY ARE SINGLE, without even talking to them. Makes dating life so much easier.

I personally, have given guys the wrong number before. I feel A LITTLE bad, but not really. I hate it when guys come up to me when I'm busy or going some where, I just find that weird. I guess I just don't like strangers coming up to me, and asking for my number-----what do they know about me? SHIT. So, I guess that means they are attracted to me-----but what else? thats it. Plus, usually guys that come up to girls like that, do it all the time, and its not personal at all.

If I'm at a club, and a guy wants to buy me a drink, thats different. Gives us some time to chat and get to know each other----then we can switch numbers, if its going well.
 
Just recently, I had my first dose of that shit in a long time. With a couple of weeks left before I went back to school I meet this girl and things are good. She tells everyone that she likes me and so on and we go out a couple of times and things are cool. She even tells me I am awesome. So I get back to school and send her a nice e-mail and she never replies. What the fuck? :mad:
 
jennifer said:
How are you meeting these women? Like at bars? Or what? If your going up to complete strangers, then shit does happen.

I met "the perfect one" at a bar, yes. But, that turned out alright for two months. And it's not like I just said "hey, wanna go out?" We talked the whole night. The same for the other two. One I met at my friend's house and we talked for a couple of hours and then I drove her home, which is when I got her number. This last girl I did meet at a bar, but I had met her before because she's one of my sister's friends. And, no, I didn't just ask her for her number. Actually, she gave it to me after we had been talking for a few hours.

As for the complete stranger thing. Of course I talk to complete strangers. If I didn't I'd never meet anyone new now would I? But it's not like I walk up, say "can I have your number" and then walk away. I ask for such a thing after getting to know them better.
 
I personally have found that all girls lie and are not to be trusted. There might be one or two out there out of 4 billion, but I am not really sure. Maybe fat girls are nice, as they have to be. What is more worthless than a 300lb bitch with an attitude? And who wants to go out with a fat girl anyway? Just lie to them and you are playing the same game dude. That's what I have started doing. I have thrown my hands in the air and I no longer give a fuck. :o
 
Bro,
I know where your coming from here trust me i been havin alot of this recently

I dont know why they cant just tell the fucking truth...!


Jen wanna get 2 know me over the net ;)
 
Guys lie too --"Hey I'll give you a call this weekend..." nuthin.

I think if you took a poll, you would find about the same % lies from both men and women. Its more a human nature thing than a guy or a girl thing.

Lying is the easiest way to get out of something, get away with something or protect yourself. Its particularly easy and also most frustrating for the person you are lying to, to have this happen when you either just met or are trying to get to know the person. You are not "committed" in any way yet so you are not really held accountable. I.e. you can blow the person off without feeling too bad about it at this point.

Another time when the lying gets the thickest is just before a big breakup -- I guess lying is the easy way to avoid a big conflict/scene, feel less guilty, be less harsh on the person being lied to, etc.

I personally still prefer the direct approach - at least then you can just move on with your life and not get strung along or have to string along.

Lying is just the easier way out. But I think it also says more about the person's integrity, which is bottom line, the most important thing to me (personally speaking).
 
Sassy69
I think you hit the nail on the head there gal but if i dont like someone or cant be fucked with them i just say I cant stand no knowing whats goin on it is fucking hard to know how to take somone if they say one thing but mean another


Still it pisses me off big time you know a well i dont think it will work or a you where a bit of fun is betta than not knowing..!

If i want sex i tell them that if i want a relationship i tell them..!
 
Sassy69 said:
I personally still prefer the direct approach - at least then you can just move on with your life and not get strung along or have to string along.

Thank you! That's all I'm asking for. When I was in the process of breaking up with my ex I got strung along for 2 months or so. That was one of the most terrible experiences of my life. If she knew that she didn't want to be with me anymore because she'd rather sleep with the whole town and not just me, then why didn't she just say "Hey, I'm a whore and I can't just be with you" instead of head-fucking me for so long?

And now, with "the perfect one" all I want is an explanation. I hate not knowing things. I hate uncertainty. I mean, I guess that there isn't too much uncertainty. I mean, it's obvious that she doesn't want to talk to me, but I want to know why. You can't make it seem like things are going to be mostly alright when you know that there's not going to be anything. That's just plain rude. I need a definite end, goddamnit! What's wrong with a little closure?
 
Sassy69 said:
Guys lie too --"Hey I'll give you a call this weekend..." nuthin.

I think if you took a poll, you would find about the same % lies from both men and women. Its more a human nature thing than a guy or a girl thing.

I dunno...I think most guys are too slow...not creative enough. Lying gets too complex. The truth is just easier to remember (especially as you get older)!
Women seem to be more creative...thus, more skilled at lying. Of course the other side of that is that most guys just don't pay attention. Therefore, its easier to get away with lying to them. Not to mention, if a man ever does question a woman, she just denies it (ie. lies again), then an arguement ensues. Once that point is reached, the man can never win. You can never win an arguement with a woman.
This is why (and how) women lie more than men. They can just get away with it easier.
 
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