woman at work...

[kimchee]

after reading all the posts, i guess i understand what you all are saying or maybe i don't. i seen her yesterday and i still feel that she is a nice girl, and really look forward to seeing her. she seems to have me in her web, i know that it's crazy.. thanks for all the advice. i am going to have struggle with this. i feel for her so it's going to take time to get her out of my head, yes she got into my head and i know that is a no no... everyone say don't let youself get into these situtions, eaiser said than done sometimes.... thanks

 

[Sassy69]

i feel for her so it's going to take time to get her out of my head, yes she got into my head and i know that is a no no

Its ok to feel a connection with someone, but you need to refocus on yourself and where your attention should be (E.g. wife). Bad shit happens when "us" becomes "you" and "me". This office chick has no vested interest in you while you have lots in your wife. Pay VERY CLOSE attention to where your priorities are. Sometimes "new and exciting" looks more fun than "same ol' same ol'" - but "new and exciting" may be because she ISN"T attached to you - the thrill of the moment & all does NOT make for a solid, reliable relationship in the long run. Not to mention all the shit associated w/ an office relationship.

Good luck.

 

[pump-n-iron]

Be wary of anyone (male or female) on the rebound.
They do not have your best interest in mind. You have
much to lose and she does not. Danger, Will Robinson!

Make it a priority to STAY AWAY from this woman until
you get your head on straight.

Use this as a chance to romance the wife and remember
why you got married in the first place.

Think with the big head.