woman at work...

[kimchee]

i am happly married or at least i thought i was. i seen this woman at work and she was really giving me the eye. so i found out her name and we talk almost everyday. she told me that i was very handsome and i told her that she was pretty. she knows that i am married, she tells me that she is breaking up with her boyfriend, she told me where she lives, what she likes. when i am talking to other people she won't come around, but when i am by myself she comes over. i don't know what to make of this, but the way she makes me feel really scares me. now for the past three days she has not come around, and i feel like i miss her. this girl is really messing my mind up. HELP.......

 

[frorider6]

She's not messing your mind up, she's fucking with you. Just remember, you love your wife but you have a crush on this girl. It doesn't mean you love your wife less. Neither does flirting.

And she could be fucking with you like this because she knows you're married and she needs a self-esteem boost. You're "safe" to flirt with because she doesn't have to worry about you being able to date her.

I'd bet she's using you to bump her self esteem before she jumps back into the dating pool.

 

[Hotdad]

Unless you want to cheat..run. I think these office romance things get carried away too easy. Especially when someone is on the rebound. I have found that a lot of women don't care if you are married or not...just like men usually don't care if a women is married or not.

 

[Sassy69]

She's fucking with you dude! If she knows you are married, would you really want to get involved w/ someone who has no respect for your relationships? If she's breaking up one relationship, she's probably looking for a change and is giving you attention and you are eating it up right? Nothing wrong with that, but dont' let it distract you from the relationship that really matters --- your wife. You must've thought your wife was worth something to have married her. This other chick is either very selfish and just going after whatever is convenient or is really trying to see if she can play you.

Even if you were free, would you really want to start up w/ someone at work? What if she is just playing you and then she dumps your ass when she decides to move on to the next guy?? Now you are stuck seeing her at work. She could even really turn on you and pull a "fatal attraction" thing or work it into a sexual harrassment thing. Now somehow your dick has managed to get you fired. I can't imagine its worth it.

RUN LIKE HELL!

 

[Beezers]

You're a male. You're supposed to be attracted to women. It's only biological. There is a difference between atraction and love. I don't think it means you don't love your wife. I think it means you're part of the human race relying on natural instincts.

 

[big4life]

Take a look at what you have at home.
Then decide is it worth losing all that
for this woman.

She's probably trying to get over this
guy, and your were there at the right/wrong
time.

Be careful or you can get burned real
bad, real fast.

 

[TheSalami]

fuck the bitch!!!

 

[Mr. Cabo]

Kimchee, think about it, what if it where your wife doing the same thing with a guy at her work?
If you repect your wife, and yourself, stay away from this woman.
I have found that in almost any work environment (when I was married at least) that there will always be some chic that hits on married guys, they see it as a conquest I think...

On a side note, I used to post on this board once in awhile, and I am back!
(different name though)

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

I think she is a crackwhore.

She is using you to boost her self-esteem. I know chicks like this. STAY AWAY.

You have a wife dammit, you are not supposed to get tempted by some silly hoe.

Think about it. BAD SHIT COULD HAPPEN.

 

[Mandinka]

Sexkitten is right ,
this is grade B bitch , she's just usin u cos you're handy and she just can't face the cruel harsh world alone without some sucker (u) to take the fall with.
When there are others around she won't come and talk , she's probably feedin folks b.s. like "Oh , he's hittin on me all the time" for more boosters.
Don't be (too) stoopid.
Any chance you get , fry her ass , I'd do it for you pal!