WOAHHHH!!!! Attack of Mr INTENSITY

[shrimp poboy]

You mean the guy I met after Mr. Intensity here? I really was in love with him and he was ga ga over me at first too. Then, he just sudeenly dumped me and said that he needed to miss me. Whatever the fuck that means. LOL. Big cop out.

Did you ever get your baby blue hair dryer back or whatever that thing was?

 

[NEO1]

QUICK!!!! There is no definition for Snacky Cake in webster's online dictionary, you should submit "More drama than a days of our lives episode".


Teasin but damn girl you have some whackos in your life.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sounds like the guy has a serious mood disorder.

Dear Lady - you really should steer clear of these types.

To exhibit emotion is an excellent thing, male or female, but what I read about this GROWN MAN (we aren't talking teenager who is still trying to contain his hormones LOL) is frightening, all kidding aside.

 

[shrimp poboy]

Sounds like the guy has a serious mood disorder.

Dear Lady - you really should steer clear of these types.

To exhibit emotion is an excellent thing, male or female, but what I read about this GROWN MAN (we aren't talking teenager who is still trying to contain his hormones LOL) is frightening, all kidding aside.

BM in Da House Hell Yeah!!

 

[snacky cake]

seems weird that a total stranger would confront you like that lol I mean, do people really do that? dont people usually just stare and walk away from stuff like that? i find the last part hard to believe. well i guess if the guy was at the bar, and had had a few drinks, perhaps this is a possibility lol

Evidently, it was a fetish of his.

 

[Smurfy]

Evidently, it was a fetish of his.

OH. Well then that was quite a coincidence lol

 

[jaybois]

True story here! We went to RedFish for dinner one night. I had just gotten off work and so had he. We had not been arguing or fighting or ANYTHING. He says something. I didn't hear him and ask him to repeat himself. God forbid! Taht was the WRONG thing for me to say for some reason. He starts CRYING out loud, like a girl in a movie! lol. I say, "Hey, calm down. Dang. " So, the waiter comes and he is full out bawling.. The waiter says, "oh, I better come back in a bit." I say, "Nah, it's okay. I'll order for him. He always gets the same thing here." So I order for us. some time elapses and the guy now has his head on the table bawling! lol. The waiter comes wtih the food and I say, "Okay, that is quite enough! Go in the bathroom and pull yourself together!" He goes in the bathroom and some guy walks up from the bar and says, "Man, what did you do to that poor guy?" I said, "I assure you I did't do anything to him. He's just like that." He says, "Oh, you have him WRAPPED! YOu are a BITCH!" I get offended and start to protest and he says, "That is such a fucking turn on! You want to ditch him and let's go hook up?" lol

Please tell me you went with him.

 

[snacky cake]

There are some funny ass replies on this thread. Okay, this guy surely hasn't changed. He looks me up 4 years later to complain about why I broke up with him? WTF? I find myself explaining this stuff to him again? This guy never changes!

Here is our exchange today:

HE WRITES:

thats what i never understood...if you wanted it to work out as much as i did...why could we not ever talk about the future? as alluded to...when that wasnt an issue...it was perfect...at least i thought so...i mean other than the commitment issue...i wasn't making you crazy was i?

I WRITE:

Yes, you made me very tense. We could never just have fun. You were always upset over something. It is very uncomfortable for someone to feel like they are the reason for another human being's misery. Anyway, you look me up to discuss this years later? I'm feeling the same pressure I did back then.


HE WRITES:
well...i guess it was a snowball effect..again, the thing about me that drove you crazy all centered on one thing...i wanted you to give yourself to me (for lack of a better phrase) as i was willing to give myself to you...but i never felt comfortable talking about feelings with you..you always just rolled your eyes in discust at me...so my feelings came out in other ways...like crying at weird times...i think you agree that sharing of feelings is essential for a successful relationship...our ships passed in the night at the wrong time, lol

yes..i wore my heart on my sleeve...and the shame of all this is the timing...i guess we were supposed to meet when we did for whatever reason but had their been more time between us meeting and my separation/divorce it would have been alot different i think..

i'm not the same man now that you knew...that was a really hard time for me..something you might now more appreciate having a child...it broke my heart everyday what we did to our daughters (even if it was for the best)..just a few months ago grace asked lisa if we could all just sit down and work this out...she doesn't care mom is remarried...that lisa and i aren't in love...she just wants her family back...

anyway..i was perfectly content..my past behind me...ready to see what the future held...and then you and i connected again yesterday..and i was a wreck last night, lol...i don't know what this power is you have over me and was completely blindsided by the feelings that arose again yesterday...

again...i just could not keep it going for extended amounts of time not knowing where it was going...that is my fault and i'm sorry..

that said...you played your part in the drama too heather..nothing happened between lisa and i at my moms funeral and that to this day is what hurt me the most...far beyond you disappearing that weekend while i sat in a uhaul wondering where you were...i think you were trying to get me to hate you so i'd break up with you...like you handled relationships in the past....

..i don't want to argue...i know this is all pointless now..its just that i've been on many dates since our relationship and know one has "turned my crank" the way you did - literally and figuratively, lol...

perhaps i'm in need of some kind of "heather intervention"..i just loved you so much when we were together and in spite of everything that happened and the time that has passed...a part of me obviously still does...



MAN, IS IT JUST ME, OR ALL MEN FREAKING CRAZY????

 

[snacky cake]

Please tell me you went with him.

No, he was blasted drunk. Still probably would have been more fun than the evening with Mr. Whiney tit.

 

[miplank]

There are some funny ass replies on this thread. Okay, this guy surely hasn't changed. He looks me up 4 years later to complain about why I broke up with him? WTF? I find myself explaining this stuff to him again? This guy never changes!

Here is our exchange today:

HE WRITES:

thats what i never understood...if you wanted it to work out as much as i did...why could we not ever talk about the future? as alluded to...when that wasnt an issue...it was perfect...at least i thought so...i mean other than the commitment issue...i wasn't making you crazy was i?

I WRITE:

Yes, you made me very tense. We could never just have fun. You were always upset over something. It is very uncomfortable for someone to feel like they are the reason for another human being's misery. Anyway, you look me up to discuss this years later? I'm feeling the same pressure I did back then.


HE WRITES:
well...i guess it was a snowball effect..again, the thing about me that drove you crazy all centered on one thing...i wanted you to give yourself to me (for lack of a better phrase) as i was willing to give myself to you...but i never felt comfortable talking about feelings with you..you always just rolled your eyes in discust at me...so my feelings came out in other ways...like crying at weird times...i think you agree that sharing of feelings is essential for a successful relationship...our ships passed in the night at the wrong time, lol

yes..i wore my heart on my sleeve...and the shame of all this is the timing...i guess we were supposed to meet when we did for whatever reason but had their been more time between us meeting and my separation/divorce it would have been alot different i think..

i'm not the same man now that you knew...that was a really hard time for me..something you might now more appreciate having a child...it broke my heart everyday what we did to our daughters (even if it was for the best)..just a few months ago grace asked lisa if we could all just sit down and work this out...she doesn't care mom is remarried...that lisa and i aren't in love...she just wants her family back...

anyway..i was perfectly content..my past behind me...ready to see what the future held...and then you and i connected again yesterday..and i was a wreck last night, lol...i don't know what this power is you have over me and was completely blindsided by the feelings that arose again yesterday...

again...i just could not keep it going for extended amounts of time not knowing where it was going...that is my fault and i'm sorry..

that said...you played your part in the drama too heather..nothing happened between lisa and i at my moms funeral and that to this day is what hurt me the most...far beyond you disappearing that weekend while i sat in a uhaul wondering where you were...i think you were trying to get me to hate you so i'd break up with you...like you handled relationships in the past....

..i don't want to argue...i know this is all pointless now..its just that i've been on many dates since our relationship and know one has "turned my crank" the way you did - literally and figuratively, lol...

perhaps i'm in need of some kind of "heather intervention"..i just loved you so much when we were together and in spite of everything that happened and the time that has passed...a part of me obviously still does...



MAN, IS IT JUST ME, OR ALL MEN FREAKING CRAZY????

WTF! I'm not reading all that!


however...i still think you need some young meat...Or atleast a guy on HRT, because its obvious the guys your hanging around lack testosterone