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Why do some of you hate members of the opposite sex!!!
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Big Johnson
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Its not that I hate them, I just hate being so pussy driven. I can't help it and it would be nice if women learned not to take advantage of this weakness in any other but a sexual way.
Yes, that would be nice.
Yes, that would be nice.
the nature boy
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beastboy said:
so both of you are hermaphrodites?
the nature boy
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beastboy said:
screw that. I'd have kept both sets just to have sex with myself.
Ffactor
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Big Johnson said:Its not that I hate them, I just hate being so pussy driven. I can't help it and it would be nice if women learned not to take advantage of this weakness in any other but a sexual way.
Yes, that would be nice.
It's not their fault you are pussy driven! Try not to date skanks or trailor trash, they will definitely use sex as a weapon and take advantage of you!
bwood
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some are unduly oppressed by women...
people always hate their oppressors...
its kind of a sick possession thing as
well, kind of like the old cartoon of the
caveman watching the bird flying and
trying to fly...
and then building a bow and arrow
when he fails...
what men need to remember is that
a woman will go where she wants, do
who she wants, and usually make the
worst posible decisions...
from a man's viewpoint...
the trick is finding one that thinks
like you...
could take a lifetime, but dont compromise...
better to be alone than being super miserable
with one you really dont like...
people always hate their oppressors...
its kind of a sick possession thing as
well, kind of like the old cartoon of the
caveman watching the bird flying and
trying to fly...
and then building a bow and arrow
when he fails...
what men need to remember is that
a woman will go where she wants, do
who she wants, and usually make the
worst posible decisions...
from a man's viewpoint...
the trick is finding one that thinks
like you...
could take a lifetime, but dont compromise...
better to be alone than being super miserable
with one you really dont like...
Ffactor
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Spruceman said:
Interesting observation! I on the other hand like to be pampered and controlled. It shows me they care! I was expecting to get some replies from women. Seems like men on this board seem to have gotten dicked over by women more so than women by men. Respect the pussy brotha's!!
Nathan
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Maybe it's cause women have a total lack of kick ass genitals, namely the cock and balls. As such, the fellas on this board can't possibly grant them any respect and poke fun at them in the hopes that they will sprout a set. As for me, I like women plenty and want nothing more than to learn how to navigate my own spacecraft to other universes. In conclusion, eat shit and die.
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Citruscide
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What's the ditty? I think you mean what's the dilly...
I don't hate women, I don't hate anyone... I dislike people with extreme prejudice, I hate liars, I hate people who betray my trust, I hate cheaters, I hate gold diggers, I hate materialistic people.... I hate irrationality...
heh heh
C-ditty
I don't hate women, I don't hate anyone... I dislike people with extreme prejudice, I hate liars, I hate people who betray my trust, I hate cheaters, I hate gold diggers, I hate materialistic people.... I hate irrationality...
heh heh
C-ditty
Puddles
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Ffactor, I've wondered the same thing myself. I've been on a lot of boards but I've never seen so much hate and animosity towards women anywhere else. Could it be due to above average male hormones? I really feel for the people who are so filled with anger...I can only hope that someday they find a mate or friend who will teach them what true love is and they can be happy. I personally can't imagine living a life like some of the members of the board do...just so full of negative emotions. It also seems that the men here are much more negative than the women.
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alien amp pharm
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Citruscide said:
EXACTLY!!!!
Ffactor
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MrsPuddlesFL said:
You are so right Mrs. P, I don't think it's hormones. I wonder if male members of this board have had negative experiences with female members and choose the board to vent their frustrations.
So brotha's who on this board has screwed you over. Let's have some names please.
Citruscide said:
Pdiddy I mean c-ditty, you got to look in the mirror bro. You sound like someone (a girl) ripped your heart out and fucked u over so bad that you go to one extreme with your opinion. I am hoping that you do not portray this side of you offline because you will get no women if any. Understand there are all types of people out there good and bad. That goes for women and men. It takes two to tango. Some guy friends would fuck your girl when u are not looking and some wouldn't. Some girls will go after your money if you let them. As we become more knowledgeable through both real life expereriences and scholastic achievements we must realize this and be able to read people as good or bad. If you lay down with the dogs chances are you will get fleas. I agree with what some of your viewpoints on women but as for that one, two or three or four that fucked you over learn from it and don't be so bitter because you may miss out on some golden opportunitiess...
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alien amp pharm
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john937 said:
Okay I am going to get flammed for this, but anyone see last night on Joe Millionaire where the one chick at the end said "I don't like the fact that he (Evan) drinks beer and <something else he did that I forget>, but I can change him"
Typical female thinking.
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Citruscide
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Ffactor said:
zoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom!
C-ditty
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Citruscide
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Mackavelli said:
What happened to you Makavelli... you used to be cool man.
No one has seen the rainbow until they've seen the rain. One of my close friends told me that. I don't think ANYONE can appreciate a good relationship until they've seen the bad ones. When I find that "someone" I'll appreciate her all that much more because I've seen the bad side.
And what is bad with what I say? I know women... I know them well. I don't HAVE to know the "good" ones... I just have to KNOW the bad ones... the good ones will stick out by virtue of being a GLARING difference to the bad. I point out bad... I recognize bad... I tell other people on EF about the bad...
I believe there are far more BAD people in the world than their are good... instead of LOOKING for the good... realize the bad, and then work with what you have... because the truth be told... almost ALL bad people hold themselves out as good...
C-ditty
bro not flamming you at all. I believe in a lot of what you say. Don't take my post the wrong way. Just trying to convey that if you are bitter you may miss out on a good person - that's all. Most women up here are materialistic bitches but I just play the game with them and except them for who they are. However, there was a time when I hated women so much even the good one (if they are there) that I missed out.
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Citruscide
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Mackavelli said:
Your point is WELL taken my friend. I have come to believe that there ARE good women out there... it is good to hear stories about people who are happy... and have been with women they love for MANY years... Someday, I hope to have this... and I know that I am a good person... a tad jaded and devious, but good none-the-less...
C-ditty
Testosterone boy
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I have never hated women. I have realized that many are spoiled brats since I was 18.
Spoiled brats? You go guys. Have fun.
There is like 1% of me that is envious of AAP and MB and well....lets not go there. They can enjoy sex with men and I could never do that.
Spoiled brats? You go guys. Have fun.
There is like 1% of me that is envious of AAP and MB and well....lets not go there. They can enjoy sex with men and I could never do that.
I hear you brother. Trust me I got burned by a girl so bad not too long ago and it really took its toll on me. It really was affecting me emotionally, financially etc and I was like a hobbit. I was a dick to all girls. I was passing up on some really hot women. I mean I was not even using them for sex and this is crazy. I was just disgusted. I was bitter but I figured the sweetest revenge would be to move on and become more successfull. Success is the best revenge in life and you don't get in trouble for it . Live and learn thats all. See people for who they are not who you want them to be...
Ffactor
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I think some of you are too emotional. I've had a couple of ex-girlfriends cheat on me and you know what, we are still good friends. In fact they are both married now with kids and I still communicate with them on a regular basis, get along with their husbands and am extremely fond of their children. It's all good brotha's. Shit happens, time heals all wounds, if not you might need to see a shrink!
I love women. I can be bitter towards women in the past because of how they treated me or how horrible they were to me. Part of me would hate them, part of me loved them, part of me hated myself for believing them.
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Lao Tzu
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For me, its a spin off of Test boys post, because women are spoiled (even though i don't like that word, its the best one for this).
Men are taught to respect women, and pay for their shit, and not hit them offensively or defensively. Maybe its just me but when you pay for a womans dinner, or take her out for a really extravagant night what you are really saying ot her is 'thank you for existing, here is some money for being in my presence', which i find despicable. Men do the same thing at strip clubs that they do on dates, try to impress women & give them money for showing up.
In order to be successful with women a man has to be an amateur psychologist, courageous, invincible to shame & persistant. In order for a woman to be good with men she just has to show up and she will get her ass kissed so hard she will start bitching about being 'hit on'.
Basically, if women were just regular people instead of viewing themselves/being viewed as prescious commodities who must be pampered & rewarded daily, then i wouldn't hate them. But they are so i do.
Its partially envy too of how easy dating is for women. I have a female friend. Even though she isn't pretty (my standards are pretty low and even i don't find her attractive) she gets hit on daily and she complains about it. WTF? if women liked me so much that they approached me daily i wouldnt' complain about it. But she does. And if every woman in this country can't walk the street without being hit on or being asked out on dates where men can reward them for showing up by buying them expensive/extravagant dates then that leaves the rest of us screwed.
Men are taught to respect women, and pay for their shit, and not hit them offensively or defensively. Maybe its just me but when you pay for a womans dinner, or take her out for a really extravagant night what you are really saying ot her is 'thank you for existing, here is some money for being in my presence', which i find despicable. Men do the same thing at strip clubs that they do on dates, try to impress women & give them money for showing up.
In order to be successful with women a man has to be an amateur psychologist, courageous, invincible to shame & persistant. In order for a woman to be good with men she just has to show up and she will get her ass kissed so hard she will start bitching about being 'hit on'.
Basically, if women were just regular people instead of viewing themselves/being viewed as prescious commodities who must be pampered & rewarded daily, then i wouldn't hate them. But they are so i do.
Its partially envy too of how easy dating is for women. I have a female friend. Even though she isn't pretty (my standards are pretty low and even i don't find her attractive) she gets hit on daily and she complains about it. WTF? if women liked me so much that they approached me daily i wouldnt' complain about it. But she does. And if every woman in this country can't walk the street without being hit on or being asked out on dates where men can reward them for showing up by buying them expensive/extravagant dates then that leaves the rest of us screwed.
Ffactor
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Excellent points. I totally agree about the part of being a psychologist. Women like to play coy little games like not returning phone calls, making you sweat, but men are much more direct. I think it's just the way society has evolved. Women are considered to be the fairer sex and they are perfectly within their rights to exploit that!
I was watching the history of sex and dating on the history station a few nights back. It is funny how the dating became to be. In the early 1900s women did not get that much exposure to men on their own w/out family and friends around so the men use to have to go the parents. Then with the war women started to go to work. Around work they were exposed to men. Thus dating was formed. Dates were considered a mild form of prostition by the lower middle class. The man was expected to pay because women did not have equal rights. However, all that changed and now women have equal rights and are capable of making money, being in politics and having a defined carear path if they choose. However, the rules of dating have not changed. Thus women have become acustomed to being pampered. It was an interesting story...
Norman Bates
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Ffactor said:
If it is perfectly ok for women to exploit men is it then ok for men to exploit women,too?
Norman Bates
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Do you think women have still disadvantages is modern society or what did you mean with that?
Norman Bates
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One evil , sexism, should not be a moral justification for another evil, exploiting other people.
Besides, sexism got much better, though it might not be gone completely yet and hopefully it will be gone completely one day.
Society just needs a few decades to abandon something so deeply entrenched completely. A lot of people have been raised to believe that women are inferior or that women should be responsible for the house and children while the men works.These people will not change their believes anymore, so it will take some time until that chnages.
But as long as women exploit men , a lot of men will use this as justification to talk bad about women or treat them badly.
So should the goal not be to abolish both?
Besides, sexism got much better, though it might not be gone completely yet and hopefully it will be gone completely one day.
Society just needs a few decades to abandon something so deeply entrenched completely. A lot of people have been raised to believe that women are inferior or that women should be responsible for the house and children while the men works.These people will not change their believes anymore, so it will take some time until that chnages.
But as long as women exploit men , a lot of men will use this as justification to talk bad about women or treat them badly.
So should the goal not be to abolish both?
Sinistar
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Ffactor is a woman
Ffactor has a Perfect World Defect in his personality. it seems that you are saying men dont have a reason to be angry for this or that blah blah. are you a woman or a self hating man?
we have become more equal over time, but the thing of men having to stick there neck out first is still the same. im sure most guys on here and in the world have to be agressors in the sex arena. so we put it out there, over and over, and get rejected over and over, and this isnt supposed to have a culmitive effect?
i think alot of probs on here stem from giving total controll over to the women and the smothering that can happen.
take it back. its easy. dont go out and pay for everything on a date. dont mention sex, and be vague if she asks. dont bang her the first time you get a chance. dont roll over when you do. break the rules, they love bad boys.
Ffactor has a Perfect World Defect in his personality. it seems that you are saying men dont have a reason to be angry for this or that blah blah. are you a woman or a self hating man?
we have become more equal over time, but the thing of men having to stick there neck out first is still the same. im sure most guys on here and in the world have to be agressors in the sex arena. so we put it out there, over and over, and get rejected over and over, and this isnt supposed to have a culmitive effect?
i think alot of probs on here stem from giving total controll over to the women and the smothering that can happen.
take it back. its easy. dont go out and pay for everything on a date. dont mention sex, and be vague if she asks. dont bang her the first time you get a chance. dont roll over when you do. break the rules, they love bad boys.
Ffactor
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You misunderstand. Let me give you an example. I meet this woman last week and we have this incredible chemistry. We spend all of last Sunday together. Never a pause in conversation. She said she felt more comfortable with me than anyone before. She leaves late Sunday night. She calls me when she gets home and we talk some more. She tells me she had a wonderful time and she would call me on Monday. I have not heard from her since. I tried calling her but got her answering machine. Am I dissapointed, yes very, but shit happens. Does not mean I'm going to be bitter towards all women. I can remember many times when I have not been forthright with women. It all evens out my friend.
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