fellas its greed .......plain and simple. Like sigweed said "That which you cannot have, you must." We (the men) must learn to control our insatiable nature. About the "women bitchn" well.....she wasnt bitchn while at the alter was she? lol
We should know our mate well enough to alleviate her unhappiness quickly, not let it linger and fester into something ugly and uncontrollable. Oh yeah, if you got to cheat then do yourself a favor and leave because women are smarter in this game and you will always get caught, yes always. THOSE OF YOU THAT THINK OTHERWISE ARE FOOLING YOURSELVES. If you've been cheating for a while and havent been confronted, its only because when youre out fuckn , shes fuckn too. A wise man told me that a man can sleep with a different woman every night and not be considered a stud because all of those women are still experiencing the new-ness. What makes a man king of the castle is when after 20+ yrs that same man can still come up with new tricks to blow his womans mind.......thats a player and thats what I aspire to