Why can't my girlfriend go...??

[bbulla00]

A very large percentage of women cannot climax through intercourse/vaginal stimulation only. I'm one of them, and I thought there was something really, really wrong with me. It takes a kind, thoughtful significant other to keep you from getting upset over this and getting neurotic.

It's hard to explain ... but don't think of a vagina as an inside out penis, okay? What a lot of us are capable of feeling in it are pressure sensations and fullness, but not pleasure. The pleasure comes from the clit.

If you're hell bent on having her have an orgasm during intercourse either you or she has to stimulate the clit while you're having sex (easiest performed doggy style or with her on top).

Don't get hung up on the mechanics of things. Do what you have to do to enjoy each other, that's what's most important

ok, i'll try that.

 

[maxspeed96ct]

she's cheating.

lmao

man the poor guy is sad enough as it is don't tell him that.

hahah

 

[RachelEFC]

i didn't really start being able to until about a year ago... i wish I could tell you the trick.

Although I do know that I always have a much better orgasm fucking fairly soon after working out.

 

[silverstar1025]

Does she please herself? That might be a start is have her work with herself first to make sure she can achieve an O on her own. If she can't get one on her own then I am sure she can't get one with you. Just my two cents.

 

[Snarling Force]

My girl kind of has the same problem, but its defintely not her. She can cum in under 1 minute using a vibrator, so reaching orgasm isn't the issue. Its that a man's dick and a man's tongue cannot compete with the stimulating power of a spinning, vibrating motor at 4000 RPMs. So we normally have sex and if that doesn't do the trick, the vibrator always cums to the rescue.

 

[dps1822]

sometimes women concentrate too much on getting their man "to go" so we fill like we did our job...no really we just dont want to hear you bitch about it so we do our thing so your happy and will leave us alone for a couple of days...at least thats my M.O.

Also sometimes just doing it is satisfying enough that i dont need to orgasm. My tubes are tied no BC here and i dont orgasm all that much either.

 

[curvymommy]

She needs LOTS of good oral stimulation to the clit. If you are in a long term commited loving relationship and you like to give her oral ya'll will be real happy.

Oh yeah...if she says she doesn't like it she's prolbably just insecure. You have to convince her that you like it (if you do, lol). Once she is confident that you really enjoy pleasing her she wil let you do it.

BTW, it helps me a lot if I am clean shaven and on top. Then I can orgasm but only on top and only with a csp and lots of oral even before that. Sorry I had to spell it out like that but it's not something you do with a one night stand. We've been working on this for a long freaking time.

 

[txbondsman]

Does she please herself? That might be a start is have her work with herself first to make sure she can achieve an O on her own. If she can't get one on her own then I am sure she can't get one with you. Just my two cents.

can you describe this in depth and wait till I'm here at lunch when everyones gone?