WHY are you good in bed?

[gonelifting]

Maybe you`re not and that`s cool, but if you are, what is it exactly that makes you a good "performer"?

thanks

"I`m awesome" is`nt a good answer. Women and men can answer this I guess, except JerseyArt cause he`s both.


I like to make sure a woman is pleased. I think it starts with LOVING the pussy and the whole female body and mind from the inside out, up and down. Absolutely LOVE that shit. Then you put yourself in her mind because it`s ALL ABOUT HER for those 4 hours. Just when she thinks she`s had enough, give her some more and surprise the FUCK outa her time and time again. Make EVERY session better than the last, or at least make it SEEM better. lol

I`m not happy unless she`s laying there trembling with shivers grabbing herself mumbling incoherent stuff when I`m done. Lying there like a tornado just hit her. I love throwing her around like a ragdoll, she could be any size but I still like to make a woman feel small and fragile in my arms when I toss them around an flip em back and forth. If she`s with me, she knows she`s gonna get "handled", she knows who`s boss. I certainly know when to be gentle as well. That`s where the perfect timing of both gentleness and roughness come into play. The more you know your lover the better.





Now you can joke about what incoherent stuff she mumbles...

 

[KillahBee]

I fuck their head first. That's why. Bitch ass nigga.

 

[Delinquent]

4 hours?

 

[alien amp pharm]

With the high prices hookers charge nowadays, I couldn't care less if I'm good or not.

 

[IwouldSlamU]

this is what makes good lovers, caring about your partner and wanting to please them. time as almost nothing to do with it

 

[Robert Jan]

I'm relaxed, I'm passionate, I care about her feelings and don't bother with a childish war of who is using who and I apply some humour in sex.

I'm also in a relationship with a girl who has more experience than me and is more attractive and just keeps coming back, even when we don't do anything besides have sex, I never give her any gifts or pay her way and she also tells me I'm good at giving head and she does anything I tell her to.

I'm sure I could and will be better later on and most people who are some older than me are more skilled lovers. I think in attitude, rather than skill, I am very good though

 

[gonelifting]

4 hours?

oops. Typo, I meant minutes. lol

 

[perkele]

this is what makes good lovers, caring about your partner and wanting to please them.

Bullshit. Fuck them hard in the a$$ and bitch slap few times. LOL

 

[KillahBee]

I know exactly when to just slide it in and out at a nice and steadt pace while letting my sweat drip on them and keeping my mouth about .1 centimeters from theirs the whole time and I know exactly when to flip em over and just kill that shit - pull her hair, slap her ass and ask her who own that shit...

 

[Dial_tone]

Mostly because I'm lucky. Lucky in the sense that nothing turns me on more than watching a woman orgasm and knowing I caused her to do that. So whatever she needs, as many times as she needs it...doesn't matter until I'm physically exhausted. Then I'll ask if I can watch her. If she has 12 orgasms and I have 3-4....that's a great day. It's not so much that I'm such a gentleman as it is that it happens to feed my fragile male ego. If it didn't feed my ego I'd probably be as bad as they get.

 

[gonelifting]

Mostly because I'm lucky. Lucky in the sense that nothing turns me on more than watching a woman orgasm and knowing I caused her to do that. So whatever she needs, as many times as she needs it...doesn't matter until I'm physically exhausted. Then I'll ask if I can watch her. If she has 12 orgasms and I have 3-4....that's a great day. It's not so much that I'm such a gentleman as it is that it happens to feed my fragile male ego. If it didn't feed my ego I'd probably be as bad as they get.

Gotta agree with LOVE seeing them orgasm. Hope they`re not faking it. lol jk

hmmm. nah

hmmm

 

[ChefWide]

I would say the fact that I can lick a hole through 1" stainless steel.

 

[adam wj]

Mostly because I'm lucky. Lucky in the sense that nothing turns me on more than watching a woman orgasm and knowing I caused her to do that. So whatever she needs, as many times as she needs it...doesn't matter until I'm physically exhausted. Then I'll ask if I can watch her. If she has 12 orgasms and I have 3-4....that's a great day. It's not so much that I'm such a gentleman as it is that it happens to feed my fragile male ego. If it didn't feed my ego I'd probably be as bad as they get.

dt = pimp

i couldnt have said it better myself

the only thing that actually gets me off is a girl whos gotten off so many times she thinks she'll pass out, getting off one more time when we're done she doesnt have 1 orgasm to remember me by shes got 4+ and shes gonna come back for more

 

[DIVISION]

Put them 2 Bed!!!!

Maybe you`re not and that`s cool, but if you are, what is it exactly that makes you a good "performer"?

I'm more interested in making her come and making her comfortable than anything else. I consider it my job if she's giving me her body to please her because I'm not hard to please, but some women require alot of work to orgasm.

Mostly I think it's because I'm considerate towards her needs. I make sure she enjoys everything.

 

[Puddles]

dt = pimp

i couldnt have said it better myself

the only thing that actually gets me off is a girl whos gotten off so many times she thinks she'll pass out, getting off one more time when we're done she doesnt have 1 orgasm to remember me by shes got 4+ and shes gonna come back for more

LOL My husband does that to me almost every time. I usually need a few minutes to recover before I can finish him off. He likes to cum from getting head so when he's done with me, I go down on him and he cums hard. I love making him cum though, one of my favorite things to do. Since I cum more when we have sex I like to grab him when he's not expecting it, like in the morning before work, and get him off without him having to do any work.

 

[corythosaurus]

LOL My husband does that to me almost every time. I usually need a few minutes to recover before I can finish him off. He likes to cum from getting head so when he's done with me, I go down on him and he cums hard. I love making him cum though, one of my favorite things to do. Since I cum more when we have sex I like to grab him when he's not expecting it, like in the morning before work, and get him off without him having to do any work.

Lucky man.

 

[YME]

I agree, what makes you good is your desire to be fulfilled by their satisfaction.

I know the few times I was with a woman and just could'nt find what did it for her, I was mortally bruised for days.

Thankfully, I learned to get into their heads before their beds, and sex became much better!!!

Obviously sex is very physical, but if your partners mind is not fully into it, then niether will their body be.

I mean if you reduce sex to just physical release...isn't that masterbation?

 

[DIVISION]

Lucky man.

I 2nd that shit!!!!!!

Lucky.....