I'm good couple of guys respond the same as I do.. in the end i figured out that what was worrying me was I thought I'd be more emotional, and the absence of that emotion or rather the expectation of that emotion missing had me worried..
Seems I'm just a cold hearted bastard.. not really, i'm just able to put my feelings aside for the moment and get done what has to be done.. that's all..
I typed out this whole long response ...lucky for everyone the site took a shit before it posted
my first 5 or so calls ever were DOA's ...first one was a 34 yr old woman that had been dead a few days
what bothered me about that was she was young, recently out of the hospital and no one noticed she was missing for a few days
and her niece and nephews get well drawings on her fridge
I don't know if I could handle a job like that. I guess you'd get desensitized after a bit, but hell. And I definitely could not handle it if it were children.
Have a great Tuesday everyone. Today is my Friday and for the first week since Easter, I get 2 days off this week. Pro;;y gonna get shitty with the lady and give her 3 minutes of heaven tonight
I typed out this whole long response ...lucky for everyone the site took a shit before it posted
my first 5 or so calls ever were DOA's ...first one was a 34 yr old woman that had been dead a few days
what bothered me about that was she was young, recently out of the hospital and no one noticed she was missing for a few days
and her niece and nephews get well drawings on her fridge
yep, did a doa a 35 yr old man deceased 2 weeks.. know what i learned on that one from the coroner?? he grabbed the legs.... always get to the legs for the lift before the coroner, otherwise you will get the head..