WHen you have or had sex with your SO do/did you fantasize about him/her or someone else? What about when you masturbate who do you picture in your mind?
I have never fantasized about another chick when I was laying pipe. A warm moist home is all my johnson needs to get off. my mind plays pretty much no role in it.
as far as wackin off - I think about Michelle Wie. 2-putt baby, 2-putt.
when I'm with my wife I think of her.....when I'm beating the meat I usually am finished before the fantasy even starts......I know how to handle myself like no other. lol!
Most women say this and I actually believe them if they are happy with the man. We are wired differently. I can only do it by faith in God and then I'm still gonna struggle at times.