Where to go on first date.

[KINGKONG69000]

I asked this hot girl out from the gym, but i havent been in the whole dating scene for 5 years, just got out of a long term thing, so im looking for some unique real world idea's. somethin besides the whole dinner and a movie.

i appraicate any help.

 

[UA_Iron]

no kidding, dinner and a movie...thats what I did last weekend. It just isnt all its cracked up to be.

 

[gonelifting]

To my (now wife) on a first date to Burger King and a walk around a lake in a park near my home. She drove too.

Just goes to show you only need a place to talk and get to know each other to get in with a woman that`s right for you.

I don`t recommend the BK thing though. I was a badass.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

take her to the zoo, Rocko

 

[UA_Iron]

To my (now wife) on a first date to Burger King and a walk around a lake in a park near my home. She drove too.

Just goes to show you only need a place to talk and get to know each other to get in with a woman that`s right for you.

I don`t recommend the BK thing though. I was a badass.

haha, badass.

True that, walking around is good. Somewhere where's there's good scenery is awesome. I have a "beach spot" back home in SD I would take my ex-gf to to watch the sunset.

 

[sconoscuito]

just get her drunk

 

[EnderJE]

Something where the focus is only on you too so you can find out what kind of girl she is. Unless you dont' care, then drink 'till she can't get up anymore.

 

[gonelifting]

Movies on a first date just wastes 2 hours in the dark. IMO Dinner`s OK but you can do better. People are`nt themselves at dinner. Drinks is a different story. Even coffee is cool. Just hang out on a first date. Save the dinner and stuff for date #2 or 3...

 

[EnderJE]

Swinger Party.

 

[dirty~d~]

Actually, the zoo isn't a bad idea. Another that's a little out of the norm is ice skating. It gives you the opportunity to talk, but that's not all you have to do if you run out of things to talk about.

 

[sconoscuito]

i usually invite my date to my party. That way she can get drunk and get on me. All the work is done for me.

thats college style though

 

[gonelifting]

Even a picnic at the beach is cool. You can lay there for minutes without saying anything and all will be cool, if need be. It`s relaxed and you can eat PB and Jelly sandwiches.

and falafel.

and drink root beer.

 

[p0ink]

i suggest you bring her to a porno theater like robet de niro did in taxi driver.

 

[SoreArms]

pool (billiards)

coffee at a bookstore/coffee shop

drinks

gallery/museum

 

[BileStew]

i suggest you bring her to a porno theater like robet de niro did in taxi driver.

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[SlavikHavik]

I have a pretty much standard mating ritual.

Denny's - Its bright light, not very serious, and not quiet enough you feel weird. Its also really casual so its comfortable, and dosent look like your trying to hard.
Ive done diffrent things afterwards. But never a movie, by the time the movie is done your board, comfortable being close with the person (which is bad in my opinion, you want them to be nervous around you, if there not there probably not as interested)

The next date

1) Come over to my house
2) Make pierogies together
3) Watch a movie
4) Make out - Sex if there slutty

 

[EnderJE]

Do you have a checklist to post on a wall so the girlie can follow along?

 

[SlavikHavik]

No i like them to think were making pierogies because im spotaneous and original.

Maybe i could debrief them afterwards.

 

[sconoscuito]

that's a good routine

whats your diet like? just pierogis?

 

[SoreArms]

what are peirogis?

 

[sconoscuito]

gay russian cookies

 

[starfish]

Even a picnic at the beach is cool. You can lay there for minutes without saying anything and all will be cool, if need be. It`s relaxed and you can eat PB and Jelly sandwiches.

and falafel.

and drink root beer.

Awesome date....

 

[Rex]

what are peirogis?

Similar to a ravioli, but filled with potato.

 

[ManOfArms]

I asked this hot girl out from the gym, but i havent been in the whole dating scene for 5 years, just got out of a long term thing, so im looking for some unique real world idea's. somethin besides the whole dinner and a movie.

i appraicate any help.

true, movies would be a waste of time, 2 hours of just staring into a screen when you could have spent that time getting to know each other.

 

[callthedoctor]

Cold Stone Ice Cream...then 'walk it off' at the park, beach, etc.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

agree with the guys who go somewhere for a chat, something like an icedcream/coffee at the harbour or something is usually quite nice

 

[Lady Viking]

Even a picnic at the beach is cool. You can lay there for minutes without saying anything and all will be cool, if need be. It`s relaxed and you can eat PB and Jelly sandwiches.

and falafel.

and drink root beer.

Ditto.

 

[Robert Jan]

Dinner and out to a nice bar you know or something

Or simply invite to her to a party you have coming up

 

[geminitwins]

flea market, museum, park. If she's into sports a game. a mystery whoddunit train ride.