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When to tell her???

I have been secretive in the past and it came back to haunt me. I was thinking of just comming right out and saying it this time, and from now on. Most people assume it anyway.
 
My thought is why tell her after you like her a tun and then she freaks about it when you can tell her up front and if she's cool with it she'll stay if not, fuck her. The people who have snuck out to their cars to inject gh out of a hidden cooler every morning while visiting you gf at college every other weekend know what a pain it is to hide.
 
Borg4902 said:
When do you guys tell a girl you use?
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Don't say anything my large, mutant friend. Trust no one with that shit unless it is a good bro. Women can be spiteful at times. :Chef: :tuc:
 
You need to read my thread bro, i posted it like last week...TELL NO ONE...tell you what....NOTHING is certain in life...and relationships are at the bottom of that list...you break up ...piss her off...and EVERYONE WILL KNOW what you take...trust me..talking from experience.
 
Right after she walks in on you with a syringe sticking out of your ass. Even then you try to convince her that you're a diabetic and the syringe is filled with insulin.
 
Don't tell her anything! Avoid the subject and play it off if she brings it up. It will save you a lot of hassle in the future. The only way I'd ever tell a girl or gf, is if she used too; that way if she felt like using it as dirt against me, she couldn't because she'd know that I knew she used too.
 
Damn guys, I've never admited to it to anyone but a few and it seems like my entire college knows I do it. Everytime I walk in to class someone mumbles "Steroids" So when she askes just lie, and when she finds it and realizes you lie to her and you loose her just deal with it.
 
Girls come and go but bros are forever. I dont say anything. I have been asked before by a g/f. I just said I have before and left it at that. I just try to slowly make them comfortable with my life style with out saying i do anything.

I found that most girls who "love you" ::cough cough:: ask for your own safty. She asked me under suspision...she just said she didnt want to see me get hurt. I just said "if i am doing to or in the past(past is key) it was supervised.

Bottom line if she doesnt like you for you...then she aint for you.
 
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Borg4902 said:
Damn guys, I've never admited to it to anyone but a few and it seems like my entire college knows I do it. Everytime I walk in to class someone mumbles "Steroids" So when she askes just lie, and when she finds it and realizes you lie to her and you loose her just deal with it.
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bro, ignorant ass people think anyone that lifts weights or looks semi-strong is on steriods..especially in todays media world...realize something though..if you tell her...and she doesnt end up being the girl of your dreams and you dont stay with her forever...she WILL leak it...one thing is people speculating...another is people actually knowing...
 
omfg!! i don't see how you guys do it. i could not livelike that. trying to hide that from my woman would drive me totally insane! if you are real serious with her and if your also competing honesty is the best bet. (only if she wouldn't in just bullshit conversation tell her close friends) i myself have a wonderful G.F. and there is no way i could get away with lying about it. we are talking constant everyday injections, having to take stuff with me on trips when we go anywhere. the only thing she hates is my mood swings but i make that up by always throwing her a big stiff one! and oh by the way, she also knows that i would beat her big ass mouth to death if she ever thought of doing anything of the sort!
 
Never if she is your girlfriend...wife, now thats a little different..you can go to the trouble of hiding and sneaking around(perceived as cheating in a womans view) or you can just explain yourself..besides this stuff should be done safely and in some sort of moderation which allows it to be safe. She should have enough trust in you to know you will make the right decisions about your body...as well you be informed enough to do so....
 
if you are not married, then never,

unless she is also a juicer.
 
I would never tell a gf that i use. My last one found out and when we broke up she used that to the max against me. Also a pain in the ass cleaning up incase the bitch calls the cop's.
 
Trust no one. Don't ever tell anyone except your dealer. It WILL come back to haunt you as people and their motivations change with time.
VW
 
bizzare, my gf gives me glute shots when I'm too stiff to reach myself and I couldn't imagine having to lie to her about it, but then I don't live a country where it's illegal.. if
 
I've been hanging out with a chick lately and its lookin for sure like we're gonna hook up. I also start a d-bol/eq/test cycle Friday so I don't know if theres really gonna be any hiding it (EVERYONE knows your 'on' when you take d-bols). If she asks me I'll deny it at first...at least till I fuck her. Then once I got her hooked on the permanent hard-on raging from all the test, I might tell her if she asks. Depends on a few variables I'm yet to see.
 
ryan04 said:
I've been hanging out with a chick lately and its lookin for sure like we're gonna hook up. I also start a d-bol/eq/test cycle Friday so I don't know if theres really gonna be any hiding it (EVERYONE knows your 'on' when you take d-bols). If she asks me I'll deny it at first...at least till I fuck her. Then once I got her hooked on the permanent hard-on raging from all the test, I might tell her if she asks. Depends on a few variables I'm yet to see.
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explain to me how everyone "knows your on" when taking DBOL????? Have you ever done a cycle?
 
I'm of the opinion that if she I take the time to sit with a girl and fill her with correct information about gear, you are more likely to get a favorable response than if she walks in on you with a needle hanging out of your ass.

If you don't tell her and she finds a pin, she will freak. Pins are scary. Think about the first time you tried to stick yourself and how scared of that pin you were. Now thing about a girl finding one unexpectedly. Things will not be copasetic.

I wouldn't allow my girl to form her own opinions on gear because 99% of the information in the media is false. And to be sure, she WILL find out eventually. Better to be proactive here fellas. Just my .02.
 
Swordfish-
They blow you up so fast its hard to believe anything else would do that that quickly. Maybe its just me, but when I did d-bol everyone who knew me said something about it within a couple of weeks...family, friends, co-workers. If you see someone on a daily basis they're definately a lot more noticable than if you were doing just injectables because the build-up is quicker and more drastic, whereas injectables (most) are more gradual. This is what they're famous for. Have YOU ever done a cycle? Have YOU ever done d-bol?
 
ryan04 said:
Swordfish-
They blow you up so fast its hard to believe anything else would do that that quickly. Maybe its just me, but when I did d-bol everyone who knew me said something about it within a couple of weeks...family, friends, co-workers. If you see someone on a daily basis they're definately a lot more noticable than if you were doing just injectables because the build-up is quicker and more drastic, whereas injectables (most) are more gradual. This is what they're famous for. Have YOU ever done a cycle? Have YOU ever done d-bol?
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It all depends on the relationship. I kept it from my last gril, but I have told my present gril and she is actually doing my shots for me. I approached it by asking how she felt about them and what she knew about them and she was open minded enough to let me teach her about them and educate her. If you are with some one open minded enough to let you teach them it's not that big of a deal. It's those that already have their predisposed thoughts about them that you have to keep it from.
 
best policy is to not say anything- and deny, deny, deny if they ask. people can speculate all they want, until you either admit to it or get caught it will never add up to anything more than just that.
 
ill take it to the grave with me boys, before i tell a biatch! We all know how girls are when they get together...talking and gossiping...now imagine if she hates you after you break up or something....then its gonna be bad news bears for you bro
 
No use in hiding that shit if she finds out you will be in bigger trouble.Make sure you know the person enough to trust her with it and tell her.
 
ill tell her after i marry her....Like the budweiser commercial
 
swordfish151 said:
bro, ignorant ass people think anyone that lifts weights or looks semi-strong is on steriods..especially in todays media world...realize something though..if you tell her...and she doesnt end up being the girl of your dreams and you dont stay with her forever...she WILL leak it...one thing is people speculating...another is people actually knowing...
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It would LEAK anyways-----she WILL tell her closest friend---saying dont tell anyone but can you believe that BORG actually told me that he shoots steroids......THAT BITCH FRIEND OF HERS WILL TELL someone and that someone will tell someone and THE WHOLE DAMN WORLD WILL KNOW---THE UNIVERSITY POLICE WILL KNOW---SHIT IN COLLEGE SPREADS FASTER THAN WILDFIRE!!!!!

I wouldnt tell anyone --- not even my wife---(dont want to hear that nagging shit from someone who doesnt know shit about it)


----That is the worst, to have to listen to someone who doesnt have the FOGGIEST Idea of what they are talking about............




BORG--YOU HAVE TO THINK!!!---You ask us, just deny it until she finds it???? Bro, think of it like this---if the HOTTEST DAMN Chick in the world watched your girlfriend drive away from your apartment and then busted down your door - slammed you on the bed and rode your ass off; then she leaves and accidentally LEAVER HER THONG IN YOUR ROOM and your girl is on her way over------------------------------------
WHEREEVER YOU HAVE TO HIDE THAT FUCKING THONG SO THAT SHE WILL NEVER EVER FIND IT----(That is the EXACT SAME PLACE you PUT YOUR STUFF)---OK?????





APEX---Funny ass thread up there----EXACTLY RIGHT TOO!!
 
I'm of the opinion that if she I take the time to sit with a girl and fill her with correct information about gear, you are more likely to get a favorable response than if she walks in on you with a needle hanging out of your ass.

If you don't tell her and she finds a pin, she will freak. Pins are scary. Think about the first time you tried to stick yourself and how scared of that pin you were. Now thing about a girl finding one unexpectedly. Things will not be copasetic.

I wouldn't allow my girl to form her own opinions on gear because 99% of the information in the media is false. And to be sure, she WILL find out eventually. Better to be proactive here fellas. Just my .02.
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I agree with you 100%, imagine what a shock it would be if she found out from someone else or found your gear. At least if you tell her then she can trust you and appreciate the honesty. Also for some of the guys here that say they keep it a secret from their wives...i dont know how you can keep something so constant and time consuming a secret from the person that you spend most of your time with. If she finds out on her own then she will be suspicous of other things, like other drugs, other women, what you have done in the past....and on and on.
 
LT3 said:
I agree with you 100%, imagine what a shock it would be if she found out from someone else
(HOW-IF YOU DONT TELL ANYONE)

or found your gear (NEVER LET THAT HAPPEN--STILL DENY IT--ITS NOT MINE, ITS FREDS--HONEY COULD YOU IMAGINE WHAT FREDS WIFE WOULD DO TO HIM IF SHE FOUND THAT).

At least if you tell her then she can trust you and appreciate the honesty (BS-SHE WOULD BITCH AND BITCH AND BITCH).

Also for some of the guys here that say they keep it a secret from their wives...i dont know how you can keep something so constant (WHO SAID ITS CONSTANT) and time consuming (HOW?? 5 MINUTES TO TAKE) a secret from the person that you spend most of your time with.



If she finds out on her own then she will be suspicous of other things (SHE WOULDNT FIND OUT--AND SHE WOULDNT BE SUSPICIOUS OF OTHER THINGS---SHE WOULD BE LIKE---HOW CAN YOU DO THAT--YOU KNOW HOW BAD THAT SHIT IS FOR YOU--WHAT AM I GONNA DO IF YOU KILL YOURSELF--AND ON AND ON AND ON UNTIL THE END OF TIME), like other drugs, other women, what you have done in the past (DONE IN THE PAST??? BRO-THEY ALREADY MARRIED YOU--THINK THEY ARE OVER THE PAST BULL SHIT)....and on and on .
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I still say tell nobody....(except for ALL of ELITEFITNESS)
 
Dayum! I'm glad I'm not married to some of you guys! My husband decided a few months ago that he wanted to do a cycle, and since I didn't know shit about gear I found my way here so that I could research what he was getting US (yes, US) into.

Quite honestly, given that it is illegal here, I would be fucken PISSED if he got our family involved in gear without giving me a chance to research it and decide if it was a risk I was willing for him to take.

Now, if it's just a GF, and she is not put at risk by your using (ie: you don't live together, have kids together, etc) - then it's probably best to keep it a secret. Women are indeed scandalous when they want to be.
 
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Don't tell anyone if you can help it....My room mate knew cause he went with us to get the stuff from mexico, and one night at one of the house parties, someone was like man you're getting really big. I was like thanks man, a lot of good eating and working out, never went such a long way. My drunk room mate walks up and is like "Well ya, and the steroids" I wanted to punch him right in the face. People look down on you and talk shit when they really know nothing about it.

That stuff spreads fast, all it takes is for 1 other person or yourself to leak it, and anyone that knows you and someone who does know that you're on and your whole lifelong compilation of people you know find out.

I did however tell the girl i'm kinda with now though, only cause i knew she was already cool with it, and she wasn't retarded, she saw the gains and how fast. Now the girl before that, I lied my ass off to glad i did too, what a bitch.
 
I told the last girl I was with, about 2.5yrs ago, and even though we broke up rather badly, she was honest with me when she said she'd never tell a soul. I've not heard a word mentioned to me or about me by anyone about gear. My current gf... well, she's probably the girl I'm going to marry, but I sure as hell wouldn't tell her yet. Her dad is an MD like mine, but even more conservative. She's surprisingly open-minded about a LOT of things though, so in the future, if I do propose, I'll probably tell her. I've never lied to her, not once, so if she asks I'd at least say I used them in the past. She's very naive about some things( only 20), but when she sees me at 205-210lbs at 5'5" and 12% or less bf this winter she's gonna have to know somethings up lol! Luckily she already sees the 10lb bags of protein powder everywhere, the creatine, the glutamine, etc, I'll blame it on that unless she directly asks. But overall I say no. Unless you're married AND trust her implicitly, or she uses also, never tell them... NEVER. The juice ain't worth THAT kind of squeeze.
 
Everyone's relationship is different, so there's no rule that applies to everyone. I'm sure a lot of women would appreciate the fact you didn't tell them for X years then you marry them and come clean. Yeah that'll go over well. That, and 50% of all marriages end in divorce, alwayse uglier than some gf breakup, so I don't buy into that either. There's no script for doing this. No one's right and no one's wrong.
 
Don't trust anyone including bros because when it comes to pussy or money even you best friends will stab you in the back. And girls love to run their mouths. Just say protein and good genetics is the reason.
 
ryan04 said:
Swordfish-
They blow you up so fast its hard to believe anything else would do that that quickly. Maybe its just me, but when I did d-bol everyone who knew me said something about it within a couple of weeks...family, friends, co-workers. If you see someone on a daily basis they're definately a lot more noticable than if you were doing just injectables because the build-up is quicker and more drastic, whereas injectables (most) are more gradual. This is what they're famous for. Have YOU ever done a cycle? Have YOU ever done d-bol?
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Yes i have bro, and when i have taken dbol i have taken liquidex.....and no one has come up to me and said "hey..your on DBOL..." get real bro...
 
aandd said:
Dayum! I'm glad I'm not married to some of you guys! My husband decided a few months ago that he wanted to do a cycle, and since I didn't know shit about gear I found my way here so that I could research what he was getting US (yes, US) into.

Quite honestly, given that it is illegal here, I would be fucken PISSED if he got our family involved in gear without giving me a chance to research it and decide if it was a risk I was willing for him to take.

Now, if it's just a GF, and she is not put at risk by your using (ie: you don't live together, have kids together, etc) - then it's probably best to keep it a secret. Women are indeed scandalous when they want to be.
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you should have read my post before this and you wouldnt have had to post.
 
BRO-THEY ALREADY MARRIED YOU--THINK THEY ARE OVER THE PAST BULL SHIT
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If they find that you're on gear, im pretty sure they'll be suspicious of other things. I just dont like saying shit like, good food and lots of exercise is the answer. I dont think what im doing is wrong, so why should i hide it and treat the situation like it's something wrong. I like the Lee priest attitude toward this issue, very straight forward. Also because i make it seem like such a normal thing in my life (which it is), the people around me see it as normal also. and thats what i personally want, for everyone to understand it (as much as they can) and accept it, and so far they all have. But this kind of thing is a personal preference so each to his own.
 
LT3 said:
If they find that you're on gear, im pretty sure they'll be suspicious of other things. I just dont like saying shit like, good food and lots of exercise is the answer. I dont think what im doing is wrong, so why should i hide it and treat the situation like it's something wrong. I like the Lee priest attitude toward this issue, very straight forward. Also because i make it seem like such a normal thing in my life (which it is), the people around me see it as normal also. and thats what i personally want, for everyone to understand it (as much as they can) and accept it, and so far they all have. But this kind of thing is a personal preference so each to his own.
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You know your relationship best, if LEE PRIEST works---so be it--Great!!!

Lee Priest DEFINITELY WOULD NOT WORK FOR ME------what works for me would be the DONT TELL ANYONE!!!!
 
Dude, Women can go from "I Love You" to "I want your fucking car, fucking house and all your future fucking earnings" in the blink of an eye. Unless you want to wake up in a jail cell getting pounded in the ass, don't say shit.

chefbone said:
Don't say anything my large, mutant friend. Trust no one with that shit unless it is a good bro. Women can be spiteful at times. :Chef: :tuc:
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My wife knows - it was pretty obvious though - when we went from 1-2 times a week to 1-2 times a day - it was hard (no pun intended) to keep it a secret.
 
Tell her right after she tells you what she is running. LOL I used to be all for guys being honest but there are some serious scandalous bitches out there. It is a risky thing as a bitter woman will stop at no end to crush a man she hates.
 
My ex-fiance asked me one night while talking on the phone with her if I did steroids. I told her yes. It is assumed I use because I was 120 lbs when I graduated high school. Unless it would hurt you pertaining to your job or loved ones, why does it matter what people think. It is assumed I do it anyway. Nowadays (sp) it doesn't matter what people KNOW. It matters what people THINK. They already think it...so be it then.
 
aandd said:
Dayum! I'm glad I'm not married to some of you guys! My husband decided a few months ago that he wanted to do a cycle, and since I didn't know shit about gear I found my way here so that I could research what he was getting US (yes, US) into.

Quite honestly, given that it is illegal here, I would be fucken PISSED if he got our family involved in gear without giving me a chance to research it and decide if it was a risk I was willing for him to take.

Now, if it's just a GF, and she is not put at risk by your using (ie: you don't live together, have kids together, etc) - then it's probably best to keep it a secret. Women are indeed scandalous when they want to be.
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PLEASE LET ME TELL YOU A VERY QUICK UNFORGETABLE STORY ABOUT A FRIEND OF MINE:

He finally landed the final piece of his $5k cycle and was FINALLY going to do the best cycle of his life..............

He started his cycle and was still so DAMN giddy (like a fat kid in a candy store).................

After 3 days (of a 16 week cycle), he told his wife---"Honey, dont want ya to be pissed but I want to be honest--I am starting a transformation cycle of AAS that is going to be on the best things ever.............

The wife said "Honey, thanks for being honest with me"..........My buddy thought "SWEET"---Shes cool with it---everything is great...

WRONG!!!----When my buddy came home from work on his 4th day---ALL 5k of his cycle was GONE!!!!! SHE TOOK IT ALL TO A DUMPSTER SOMEWHERE AND GOT RID OF IT!!!!-----TOLD HIM THAT HE'S AN ASSHOLE and LEFT HIM!!!!!!!

(they did have a great relationship----uncanny really)
 
paridhm said:
My ex-fiance asked me one night while talking on the phone with her if I did steroids. I told her yes. It is assumed I use because I was 120 lbs when I graduated high school. Unless it would hurt you pertaining to your job or loved ones, why does it matter what people think. It is assumed I do it anyway. Nowadays (sp) it doesn't matter what people KNOW. It matters what people THINK. They already think it...so be it then.
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See the post 3 above yours... and rethink that theory...K to you Peshmerga.
VW
 
My wife knows. I had to tell her. We have a very trusting relationship. She is only concerned that it is illegal and we, yes we, can both get into trouble if caught with them. The funny thing is, she thought that if I was tested for roids and it came back positive I could go to jail also. I had to explain to her that only if you are caught with the gear on you or in your possession. However, she loves the results believe me. She is always showing me off. In addition, being my dad is a big guy as well they all believe it is genetics. Oh and the fact that my son is 7 and towers over the other kids in his class. I think he is going to be bigger than I am.

However, as far as telling or not telling, I still cant decided if it was the right choice for me to tell. If we ever get divorced or anything goes wrong, she can use that against me. In addition, 2 different, unrelated friends already stabbed me in the back. Im to nice and trusting. Not to blow my own horn, it is a fact. In addition, nice guys do finish last. These 2 friends got very jealous of me and tried like hell to screw me over. 1 of them almost succeeded. Nevertheless, I am also smart so I have back-up plans. Plus other friends tipped me off before it happened. In the end, he lost all of the friends and I was more respected by them.

As far as telling friends, I HIGHLY recommend not telling them shit. They will be the first to turn on you when they have nothing to lose. I do not tell anyone anymore besides my wife. I feel if I hid it from her that would be worse than just telling her from the start. Nevertheless, friends do not need to know shit. They might speculate but do not give in and tell them. Let them wonder why they are not gaining as fast and you are exploding. I just tell them and people at the gym that im taking everything GNC has to offer. Its funny watching them run to the store and buy the stuff.

Also, a good idea is to have your friends think they are the ones on roids and not you. if they came to me and asked if im on I tell them no but I also tell them im not against it I just don’t want to get hurt. when they decide that they want to do it, let them. then they will think you aren’t and they are and they will be kissing your ass so you don’t tell on them. just a thought.

Man I can ramble on cant I. I have to stop doing that.
 
newbiebynature said:
can you tell me where that dumpster is located?
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hahaha...read my mind... have you noticed any of your garbagemen that have put on significant weight in the last little while?
 
LOL---no the garbage men arent growing, but there are some dogs around here that are HUGE!!!!----just kidding

can you believe that story---that will open your eyes
 
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