I think there are a lot of possible reasons y some women love anal and y some don't then we have those not sure or in between. The ones who love it sometimes have a fascination with how degrading it can be to themselves and others love to be dominated. There are so many diff. reasons y women love it and any way you look at it im glad for the ones who enjoy it. Now the ones that hate it seem to have a "bad 1st time"!!! The guy was prolly an idiot and could have possibly did a # of things wrong like:
1. Not use the proper or right amount of lube
2. Not have gotten the woman in the right mood
3. Didn't get her drunk or smoked up to relax her
4. Went off on her like a damn jack-hammer yee-haa
Once again the possibilities are endless but it seems if they are willing to try id say for the most part the only way they will be driven away is because of the pain from the guy. Every girl i talked to or did said they loved it as long as the guy did the right shit and took his time. Ones that didnt like it said it hurt.
Then we have the ones in between who claim its gross and what have u but im a firm believer that once i get a finger or 2 in their pooper they will prolly like it as i am a smooth sexual partner who knows how to work it for the ladies!!!
I've fucked girl in the ass like two hundred times and never used any other lubrication than her own pussy juice. It's slippery as hell, gives natural feeling and it's also free.
a woman can usualy come to an O faster when it is anal. Among that you do have the domination issues and many others like a previouse poster mentioned.
Personally any woman that says no to anal or swallowing gets off my list of call backs in a damn hurry. hehe
Once a girl can relax and get beyond the initial pain issue, it becomes extremely pleasurable and provides some of the most intense orgasams she'll ever experience.