Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.
Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!
She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.
She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.
I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?
wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on