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What would you do if you walked in a room while your husband was banging another chick

What would you do if you walked in on your husband banging another chick

  • Leave asap and divorce him, getting every thing you want out of it

    Votes: 27 52.9%

  • beat the crap out of both of them

    Votes: 17 33.3%

  • walk away then forgive and forget

    Votes: 7 13.7%
  • Total voters
    51
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Cutiebaby

the 1 who knows it all
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Figured I would make this thread to go with the one about men walkin in on their chicks!
 
I would laugh, 4 kids is a lot of child support and don't forget the alimony.

That is good and funny, payback is bitch
 
My friend who had a long term girlfriend had that happened to him while he was already supposedly in a "dog house". Apperntly she just slapped the shit out of her boyfriend several times and bounced... Not sure if she did anything about the girl
 
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ck2006 said:
I would laugh, 4 kids is a lot of child support and don't forget the alimony. :)
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Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.

Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!

She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.

She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.


I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?

wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
 
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immortalis said:
Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.

Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!

She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.

She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.


I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?

wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
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Wow, someone's a little upset. Bro, you just described the relationship with my EX-wife. After a little court drama...she ended up owing ME money after draining a savings account that my parents had started for me when I was born. Long story...anyway, I won.
 
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immortalis said:
Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.

Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!

She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.

She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.


I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?

wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
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I actually do agree with you on some points, why should you suffer for your success and why do you have to pay the burden for her not being successful. I get you. I would hate to admit if I was getting paid allimony.

Child support is a little different because as a couple if the wife stays home to raise the kids then she is sacrificing her success for her children's and that is the responsibility of both parents, however alimony, no.

But I love giving that comment below cause I know it fires you men up!
 
needtogetas said:
see how sick and twisted women think.they go right for the wallit evry frigen time.
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thats why dont even bother with marriage, you can everything you need without being married anyways
 
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immortalis said:
wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
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nope, no flames, only questions and some sympathy. What was it that you liked about her enough to get married in the first place? Are those reasons still around somewhere? Did she turn bi -polar after marriage or do you see the early warning signs now and will be able to look out for them in the future?
 
If I ever caught needto in the act he would be down right sorry. I am not the type that would screw him over money wise. However he will take care of his own (child support).At this point in my marriage and having been through a lot of cheaters in my time, and yes been one myself, I dont think that I would tend to be that violent with the other girl.I am not saying i wouldnt rough her up some but really what is the point of physical violence?
I would however laugh until I clearly pissed my pants at the two.The wish them good luck with each other. Because to each his own. If he were to be sleeping with a woman in my bed what does that have to say about her? They would screw each other over by a terrible cycle of cheating, and they would both eventually be wearing my shoes any how.
After being together for 9+ years I dont think that I would want to stay.I think I am at the stage in my life where I know I deserve better reguardless of any mans excuses.
Not to say that I am high on my horse or what ever, but I know where needto would be with out me! And honestly he wouldnt be much of any thing. He would end up a grown man with 3 kids with an ex wife, running the streets drinking daily. Along with his drinking he would end up in a shit load of trouble. See, he wouldnt have a wife to "nag" at him about what is right and what is wrong.
Taking any alimony from him would not only make things bitter but it would let him think that I cannot go on with out his assistance.
No offense to people who collect alimony.
 
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immortalis said:
Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.

Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!

She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.

She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.


I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?

wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
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wow bro.we should be friends.
 
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needtogetas said:
wow bro.we should be friends.
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That statement has little to desire
 
Re: What would you do if you walked in a room while your husband was banging another

top2bottomdfw said:
nope, no flames, only questions and some sympathy. What was it that you liked about her enough to get married in the first place? Are those reasons still around somewhere? Did she turn bi -polar after marriage or do you see the early warning signs now and will be able to look out for them in the future?
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My main problem is... i dont quit... ever. I dont know when to give up. I go so hard at everything in life, including relationships. I have an inner desire to "fix" things I guess, and I work non-stop until I get them fixed or I die trying. So I guess that mentality is what has kept me going in my relationship/marraige with my wife. There have been so many ups and downs, but I always try to look for the best and keep working to make things better... when in all honesty, looking back on it I should have cashed my chips in and walked away a long time ago.

I knew she was bi-polar. I knew about a lot of her personal issues which makes her the type of person she is now. There are so many intangible factors in my marraige that if I were to sit here and try to type them all out, i would be typing for days.

In my marraige, I am more like a father figure than a husband. She relies on me so much for damn near every aspect of life. Shes very co-dependent. In our past, i got caught up in the notion that she would comitt suicide if I left her... trust me, she's capable of it. I will get flamed for that one, but regardless I just couldnt really sleep well at night with that on my shoulders. So I've always tried to stick with her and work through things with her to get her to a more stable place in her life. Throughout that entire process, one of the things that kept being brought up was the fact that she never saw us getting married and she felt that I was just leading her on and playing games with her... which couldnt be farther from the truth.

As we continue'd with our relationship, and I continued to try to iron out every problem that we had so that we could move forward, it seemed as of last year that we both were finally in a place where I felt that marraige was a viable option... and somewhere inside me I hoped that once we were married, she would feel secure enough in herself that we would both be able to continue moving foward with our lives together and actually be happy instead of always going back and forth from happy to miserable as hell.

At first, things were wonderfull and I must admit that I LOVE being someones husband. After being with the same woman off and on, and living together 3 seperate times, we both really didnt think it would be any different once we were married. Well I can say that it definitely felt different, but in a good way. I like being a husband... however, in the big picture I just dont see that there is anything that I can do to truly make her happy. The factors that bring her down, and cause her to make me unhappy are all things that I can not control or influence. So now, after a decade of trying I have basically realized that there is no light at the end of the tunell.

As much as I care for her and respect her, i feel that we will truly never be as happy as a married couple should be. However now, I wont file for divorce... for a lot of the same reasons that i never got out of the relationship previously but also because I will refuse to pay alimony after all the stuff I have already been through. It's just a rediculas expectation for someone in my position to have to meet, given the fact that I have done 500 million times more than most any other man would have if they were in my position. I garantee you that 98% of all men would have been out of this thing a long time ago... like I said, i dont know when to "quit". In this aspect im definitely not proud of the fact that I didnt give up on this... because any man in his right mind would look at my situation and call me a fucking idiot for sticking around even half as long as I have.

Oh well... we just moved into a new apartment this weekend so we have a year lease lookin us in the face. Lets see what this next year holds for me...

:worried:


(i hope this post makes sense and doesnt jump around too much. Im busy as hell at work right now, and i wrote this up in between taking about 20 phone calls heh) :coffee:
 
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immortalis said:
My main problem is... i dont quit... ever. I dont know when to give up. I go so hard at everything in life, including relationships. I have an inner desire to "fix" things I guess, and I work non-stop until I get them fixed or I die trying. So I guess that mentality is what has kept me going in my relationship/marraige with my wife. There have been so many ups and downs, but I always try to look for the best and keep working to make things better... when in all honesty, looking back on it I should have cashed my chips in and walked away a long time ago.

I knew she was bi-polar. I knew about a lot of her personal issues which makes her the type of person she is now. There are so many intangible factors in my marraige that if I were to sit here and try to type them all out, i would be typing for days.

In my marraige, I am more like a father figure than a husband. She relies on me so much for damn near every aspect of life. Shes very co-dependent. In our past, i got caught up in the notion that she would comitt suicide if I left her... trust me, she's capable of it. I will get flamed for that one, but regardless I just couldnt really sleep well at night with that on my shoulders. So I've always tried to stick with her and work through things with her to get her to a more stable place in her life. Throughout that entire process, one of the things that kept being brought up was the fact that she never saw us getting married and she felt that I was just leading her on and playing games with her... which couldnt be farther from the truth.

As we continue'd with our relationship, and I continued to try to iron out every problem that we had so that we could move forward, it seemed as of last year that we both were finally in a place where I felt that marraige was a viable option... and somewhere inside me I hoped that once we were married, she would feel secure enough in herself that we would both be able to continue moving foward with our lives together and actually be happy instead of always going back and forth from happy to miserable as hell.

At first, things were wonderfull and I must admit that I LOVE being someones husband. After being with the same woman off and on, and living together 3 seperate times, we both really didnt think it would be any different once we were married. Well I can say that it definitely felt different, but in a good way. I like being a husband... however, in the big picture I just dont see that there is anything that I can do to truly make her happy. The factors that bring her down, and cause her to make me unhappy are all things that I can not control or influence. So now, after a decade of trying I have basically realized that there is no light at the end of the tunell.

As much as I care for her and respect her, i feel that we will truly never be as happy as a married couple should be. However now, I wont file for divorce... for a lot of the same reasons that i never got out of the relationship previously but also because I will refuse to pay alimony after all the stuff I have already been through. It's just a rediculas expectation for someone in my position to have to meet, given the fact that I have done 500 million times more than most any other man would have if they were in my position. I garantee you that 98% of all men would have been out of this thing a long time ago... like I said, i dont know when to "quit". In this aspect im definitely not proud of the fact that I didnt give up on this... because any man in his right mind would look at my situation and call me a fucking idiot for sticking around even half as long as I have.

Oh well... we just moved into a new apartment this weekend so we have a year lease lookin us in the face. Lets see what this next year holds for me...

:worried:


(i hope this post makes sense and doesnt jump around too much. Im busy as hell at work right now, and i wrote this up in between taking about 20 phone calls heh) :coffee:
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I feel so bad you you, the situation sounds terrible. I really identify with your post because i was once i a serious relationship with someone who was bi- polar. It was so difficult. He lied so much that i think he actually believed his lies, and that made him a better lier. I tried to fix things so many times. I loved him so much , and the passion was incredible. It was very hard to move on for this relationship, bi polars have a special way of enticing and sucking you back into thier world. After he cheated on me and other women several times though I had to keep my respect for myself and leave him.
Do you and your wife have children? I have heard that if a couple seperates soon after they marry it is an "annullment" or something less complicated like that (not sure though). I think you might have grounds due to her mental illness. Is there some way that you can begin to hide you assetts in case it comes down to divorce? I hate the idea of alimony- weak biotches need to learn to support themselfs. Keep hangin in, OK.
 
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sarita said:
I feel so bad you you, the situation sounds terrible. I really identify with your post because i was once i a serious relationship with someone who was bi- polar. It was so difficult. He lied so much that i think he actually believed his lies, and that made him a better lier. I tried to fix things so many times. I loved him so much , and the passion was incredible. It was very hard to move on for this relationship, bi polars have a special way of enticing and sucking you back into thier world. After he cheated on me and other women several times though I had to keep my respect for myself and leave him.
Do you and your wife have children? I have heard that if a couple seperates soon after they marry it is an "annullment" or something less complicated like that (not sure though). I think you might have grounds due to her mental illness. Is there some way that you can begin to hide you assetts in case it comes down to divorce? I hate the idea of alimony- weak biotches need to learn to support themselfs. Keep hangin in, OK.
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ill stick it in youre but.and all will be well. ;)
 
If I were married and I walked in on my husband shagging another woman. There would be a double homocide in Sioux Falls, SD. Cheating is cheating! Once a cheater always a cheater. You let them get away with cheating once they will do it over and over again.
 
BlondeBombshell27 said:
If I were married and I walked in on my husband shagging another woman. There would be a double homocide in Sioux Falls, SD. Cheating is cheating! Once a cheater always a cheater. You let them get away with cheating once they will do it over and over again.
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not true.
 
BlondeBombshell27 said:
If I were married and I walked in on my husband shagging another woman. There would be a double homocide in Sioux Falls, SD. Cheating is cheating! Once a cheater always a cheater. You let them get away with cheating once they will do it over and over again.
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btw i stick it in youre but to.
 
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sarita said:
Is there some way that you can begin to hide you assetts in case it comes down to divorce?
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Sure. Send a good man to jail now. :rolleyes:
 
I did walk in on a bf once. I just moved out and moved on. He didn't deserve me.
 
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sarita said:
I feel
Do you and your wife have children? I have heard that if a couple seperates soon after they marry it is an "annullment" or something less complicated like that (not sure though). I think you might have grounds due to her mental illness.
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No kids thank god.
I dont think an annullment is possible. I think you have X amount of months post-marriage to file for one, and I believe were past that.
I doubt I have grounds for one due to her mental illness because I was fully aware of her illness prior to us getting married.

being with a bi-polar person sure keeps you on your toes tho... thats for damn sure
:coffee:
 
HeatherRae said:
I did walk in on a bf once. I just moved out and moved on. He didn't deserve me.
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what ever happened to the good old fashioned three way? a hot combo would be more fun than all that moving out, crying, tantrums...it's just sex! :qt:
 
needtogetas said:
btw i stick it in youre but to.
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lovely. Maybe I should prance around offering that I would let people stick it in my butt.
OH wait a minute. That would not be appropriate would it? :rolleyes:
 
Bro,

You sound a lot like me “I never quit” “I don’t give up” these are all getting and protecting behaviors. I know because I have the exact same tendencies! Read the book “Real Love” for a better definition.

If you move on and it sounds like you need to go soon, you are not giving up! You are focusing on the most important thing in the world YOU! If you can’t be you, you have given up!

So bite the bullet and move on….

CQB
 
top2bottomdfw said:
what ever happened to the good old fashioned three way? a hot combo would be more fun than all that moving out, crying, tantrums...it's just sex! :qt:
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LOL...Maybe I would have if I hadn't been crazy in love with him at the time. =-( He was such a dickhead...lol.
 
HeatherRae said:
LOL...Maybe I would have if I hadn't been crazy in love with him at the time. =-( He was such a dickhead...lol.
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but, was the sex great? he have a nice body, handsome face, big dic? a good stud is hard to find and sometimes excuses/allowances have to be made....LOL
 
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Immortalis you sound like a really good man. I've always thought of marriage as sharing a life not being someones' life. She will never change no matter how hard you want her to. Threating to kill herself could be an act of survival. Definatly she needs help and meds if she is bi-polar. As the years are passing you by remember one thing, the more time you have invested the more years you WILL be paying.

Good luck,

Peace
 
the look on my face would be terrifying enough, no screaming needed and I'd sure as hell not be the one to leave, possesion is 9/10. I've paid half or more at times, as has he. He/she who leaves by way of cheating forfiets their half. I'd expect the same if I cheated. No kids in this 'payroll' and alimony is (to me personally) embarrassing, I can fucking take care of myself tanks
 
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immortalis said:
Alimony is the main reason that I dont entertain the idea of divorce right now. I have bailed my wife out of financial trouble 3 times... Ive carried her financially throughout our entire 10 year on-off-on-off period... supported her through her dropping out of college, going to beauty school, and job hopping from one place to another.

Shes such a huge ball of negativity lately that it makes me not even want to go home anymore... but I'll be damned if I go for a divorce and find out I have to pay ANYTHING to her on a monthly basis. I mean, when has a man done enough? When is enough enough?!

She is bi-polar, and very high-maintenance. Its gotten to the point that our relationship has worn me out on every level possible.

She's already made me eat through my entire savings supporting us while she was unemployed for pretty much half of this year.


I still hear women bitching about equality and being treated equally to men in all aspects. Then why the hell cant my wife get off her ass, suck it up and get a job and support herself? Why if, after 10 years of financially making sure someone is ok because you truly care about them and their well being... but after 10 years you just cant take the relationship anymore, why the fuck should we have to pay any money so that the female can pretty much sit on her ass and not do shit? Again... when is enough enough?

wow... I kinda vented right there didnt I? I feel some flames comin on :worried:
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Typical Bi-polar stuff. most never change.
 
i wouldn't be able to take that shit, Id have to murder her. Or just sell everything, change my name and move overseas
 
I had this dream a long time ago of walking in on my husband having sex with another woman. Instead of getting mad, I joined in. I woke up from that dream very excited and had sex with my husband. Later in life we tried it and I loved it. I told him that even though it turned me on in a dream, I better never catch his ass cheating on me because I doubt it would turn out like that. I guess there is no reason for him to cheat on me because he can do it with me. LOL
 
Mickey36 said:
I had this dream a long time ago of walking in on my husband having sex with another woman. Instead of getting mad, I joined in. I woke up from that dream very excited and had sex with my husband. Later in life we tried it and I loved it. I told him that even though it turned me on in a dream, I better never catch his ass cheating on me because I doubt it would turn out like that. I guess there is no reason for him to cheat on me because he can do it with me. LOL
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do you have a single sister? :evil:
 
Re: What would you do if you walked in a room while your husband was banging another

My wife brings home ladies...........yeah definitely marry a bisexual chick! Its love! :heart:
 
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At least you can take a tax deduction on alimony, us child support guys get raped!!! $550 a month for my daughter when I was making $14 an hour, no joke..........after gas and food my daughter was making more than me a month! Now I'm a public accountant and waiting for them to raise it..........she'll probably get $1,000 a month or more........that shits crazy!
 
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deco said:
My friend who had a long term girlfriend had that happened to him while he was already supposedly in a "dog house". Apperntly she just slapped the shit out of her boyfriend several times and bounced... Not sure if she did anything about the girl
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that's domestic abuse, bitch should have been slapped into jail..
 
Re: What would you do if you walked in a room while your husband was banging another

I'll start getting bail money now.... :D
 
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