what would you do? girlfriend is away for 5 weeks?

[Inspector]

Guys what would you do if...

Your gf is on a holiday in Europe for 7 weeks with her girlfriends.

Would you be unfaithfull? Would you hold out and be faithfull?

Is it ok to trust a steady girlfriend of over 2 years, and does the fact that you have regular GREAT sex make her less or more inclinded to cheat?

So EF guys would you cheat or would you try to hold it out until your girl gets back?

 

[Cutiebaby]

Wow, after 2 years you say?
Well my first impression is that you are an ass!
Obviously wait it out, well unless you are not that serious with her. And even then if you are going to go play atleast tell her that it is over.

 

[Inspector]

Nice first impression, If you were to ever get to know me you wouldnt think that.

Im chosing to be faithfull despite my urges.

But 90% of my friends are saying things allong the lines of "man go out and tap some ass" "your on holidays bro take em down"

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

Nice first impression, If you were to ever get to know me you wouldnt think that.

Im chosing to be faithfull despite my urges.

But 90% of my friends are saying things allong the lines of "man go out and tap some ass" "your on holidays bro take em down"

I once had a friend that told me the best way to take acid was to drop in in your eye. The key is "never listen to your friends when it comes to fidelity or drug consumption". NEVER!

 

[Inspector]

Thanks for hte advice ... I like that!

 

[Inhibitor13]

Stay faithfull if you really like her... but on the other hand do you think she is going to do the same around seductive european men?

 

[redtopp06]

i was in the army. my is in the airforce now. she just left for 2 months over seas 4 the 3rd time. its hard as hell but if you REALLY love her be faithfull. if you screw up its gonna eat you up forever and just as easy as you could screw up she could. so just be faithfull! if she cheats on you then ohwell. it would suck ass real bad. but atleast you would know you did the right thing. then i would kick her ass to the curb. oh yeah. through all the shit ive been through in the army and airforce, ive never cheated. came close but love my wife too damn much!!! keep it real.

 

[Inspector]

thanks a lot for the advice guys, fidelity is a precious thing these days.
Seems the majority of guys in my age group think differently, when i keep hearing things along the lines of "great now you can .... this one" or "now you can come with us to the club and tap some ass"

Thanks redtopp06, 2 months holy crap, and for the 3rd time.
I guess when someone you love is away you really learn to appreciate them, and notice even more things about them that you hold dear.

Well im going to put all this energy into weights now.
I guess a more interesting topic would be,"who cheated and f%%%%d up big time?"

 

[jumpshot]

Men are only as faithful as their options.

 

[reno240]

I got married - went on my honeymoon - came home and then the wife left for 6 weeks to go to school. It flies by - it'll be over in no time. Take up a hobby - try widdling... It's amazing the fun shapes you can make from wood... Like little elephants, and squirrels - OH HOW MUCH FUN IT IS!!

 

[DJ_UFO]

Men are only as faithful as their options.

Exactly. If she's just your GF, you could wait. If you just got married, you could wait. But if you've been married for 5+ years, consider part of your paycheck for the hottest escorts in town.

 

[lostinfitness]

I don't understand what is so hard about not having sex for 5 weeks. Jerk off...

This is coming from a guy who gets cranky if held without sex for more than 3 days. Look man, if you don't trust your girl you shouldn't be with her. If you do trust her then what is the question?

good luck

LosT!!

 

[layinback]

if you have a commitment with this woman you have no choice but to be faithful. anything else makes you a punk-ass kid.

 

[Munna]

I feel you brother,.... I 've been with this girl for 5 months and would like to marry her someday,..... she just left for south america for 2 months,..... living in hostels,.. no cell phone on her,... the only means to communicate is E-mial,.... fockin hate her for this - why leave someone you love for 2 months,.... and for what soul searching,... fok that,.... Iam pissed,...... sorry for the rant.... I have no intentions of cheating on her,.....
All the best bro.......

 

[Munna]

How you makin bro?,... my situation is killing me,... she's been away for 2 weeks.... now she's goin to Peru for 3 wks from argentina....
- she's flying to Lima
- then staying over night at the airport because her next flight is to Cusco...5hrs later.
- she has no hostel booking there.... she refuses to book a hotel for a night... gives me no good reason..... just want to be a tough guy
- there she's meeting a couple of guys (4) that her sister knows and they'll hike up to Machu pichu....
- these guys are 3 yrs younger than her... so Iam a little comfortable they are not skeevy men....I do trust her but not them...and if she'd get with any one of them she'll tell me.... she's never ever lied to me about anything ever....
- then her plan is to visit all small towns on the way back on the coastline...
- all this time no sure way of staying in contact w/me
- in a dangerous country where an earthquake just hit.....
- Iam hating this situation.....
- She told me she wasnt going to smoke but she did 2 days ago at some house party and got really depressed,.... she told me she regreted it and wouldnt do it again.... but is looking forward to eat and drink cocoa leaves/tea in Peru,... which is what they make cocain out of....
sorry bro,... i know this is your tread and didnt want to do this but wanted to rant to someone that might understand.......
Iam fu$%n pissed.....
She got mad when I told her " you are being an idiot if you dont plan a trip like this this is a 3rd world country and are asking to be in a bad situation , robbed and god forbid raped....."
I dont think Iam wrong,... told her she dosent have to prove anything.....
Iam fu#$%^ pissed......
I'd really appreciate any advice,..female advice would be great.. my head is spinning...

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