O.k. I find a guy that is athletic looking Hawt. If I can see muscles and not globs of fat. I also do not care for the skinny guy with little muscles. I want a man!!! He doesn't have to be on the cover of Muscle and Fitness... but usually the guy they put on the cover is the typical body type I am attracted too. Not too big, but definitely competition worthy. I am willing to drop my pedestal though for the guy that has a decent muscular body and a great attitude, pesonality, and devotion to one girl being ME. I get a bit pissy when guys poll girls as to what they are attracted to so that they can obtain the image and status of highly sexual and wanted by all women. All that does is change the personality of the guy. Then he thinks well I can have any women I want and then becomes a complete jigelow dirt bag.
The guy I desire loves to be in shape because he loves the way it makes him feel and does it for self gratification not to have women swooning over him. That is hawt. The guy that doesn't flaunt it... The guy you would never realize to have an awesome body until you grab his arm on a date and realize wow there is some muscle in there... The intrigue to knowing what else lies below the clothing is that much more appealing. So in the end work on yourself for yourself, treat a lady like a lady, and for God's sake quit trying to get her into bed on the first 3 dates or who cares how many dates. People forget that there is more to a person then just what is seen under the clothes. That's what's attractive.