What guys find appealing?

[bigtasty25]

Some guys don't like too muscular girls, I have a friend who's like Arnold and he likes regular girls. Some other people like thin waist wide hips. Some people don't like blonds, redheads, some loves fair skin, high cheekbones, and some people only goes for foreigners. What if the girl unemployed?What if she's very young and don't have future plans, maybe don't work, maybe at MC'd. What if higher position than you?What if she's a bit "late" (older) and only goes to school?

No overly muscular girls for me..if shes naturally muscular (without roids) and looks feminine n hot, then thats fine, as long as shes significantly smaller than i am..LOL. I like toned, fit healthy looking girls for the most part though. Thin waist wide hips is nice too, sure. High cheekbones? Eh...a little too specific...honestly, when i see a pretty, gorgeous face, whether she has high or low cheekbones, is tan or not, redhead or blond, etc..doesnt matter...hot is hot lol, and i like variety...but it all boils down to personality and the important "inner" things really (for a potential long term partner anyway). Unemployed or has a low paying job doesnt matter, as long as she is ambitious and is trying to better herself, if shes unemployed or has a small job to pay the bills cuz she's working on a degree, thats totally cool. Higher position than me? Definately cool...im secure enough with myself for that not to bother me. If she's a bit "older" than me and still goes to school, I respect that bigtime as well as she's obviously still trying to better her position and career potential, which is great. Heck..I wont be done with nursing anesthesiology school till im 30 or so...lol.


I like those answers bigtasty, I feel like you payed attention, thanks.


Not a problem...u asked...i answered...i prefer giving the meta state, not being meta to it, but oh well..lol.
I was also wondering what could be a turnoff? Tattoo?Piercing?Miles long nails?I don't even know how some people can exist with those


tatoo isnt a turnoff unless its very obvious...if its on an ankle, low waist, n is small...i dont really care..it seems to be common nowadays anyways...although i myself dont have any tattoos...
Piercings? Only ears...and in the private region if she wishes, although im indifferent on that 1 i guess. Not long long nails...normal will suffice..dont want her accidently hurting my "friend" while getting a bj lol.

 

[bigtasty25]

Thanks all!

Let's switch the question then since everybody is different so as their taste.
What is Not attractive? Sweaty girls in the gym

sweaty girls r hot LOL..shows their working out hard, which is hot to me...


girls that swear often, is unclassy n me no like...girls that look down too much, which shows lack of confidence...a girl that is rude and snobby toward other gym members (no reason to be cocky, no matter how hot or important you are, in my book anyways, I find cocky girls ugly, it just makes em that way, said simplisticly). Fat girls...and or fat girls wearing tight things is nasty! If youre gunna wear something tight that exposes your body, at least have THE body for it, have workout clothing appropriate for your body. Hmm...annoying girls that come up to me when im in the middle of a set with my headphones on and start talking to me expecting me to be listening(some acquaintences i have at my gym)...at least wait till im done with the damn set girls..LOL.

 

[BigRupe]

(Talking about a woman. )

I was just wondering..everything is about how guys look here and we poor skirts don't know how you think.

What do you look on a girl?

I mean do guys like ripped girls, or normal bodies, or extra baggage, big ass, large girls, small boobs, big boobs, real tits, fake tits, long hair, short hair, hair color, eyes, race, accent, hobbies, occupation, education, height, dress youthfull/casual or more sophisticated/elegant, lot of skin, no skin, make-up, nail polish, etc.

How do you decide if someone's an in-bed-friend or girlfriend material?
Do you burn the candle from both end and approach multiple women just in case the No1 don't hook up or you have one target at a time?

You know there was a time I looked for beauty and a hot body first, then personality second. There was a time my main goal was to get laid.

Now I look for that inner beauty, I look for kindness, a good sense of humor is a must, I look for a women who is quick to smile, and carries herself well and has respect for herself and those around her. I want someone who is passionate and fun.

Be who you are, dress how you feel most comfortable, wear your hair the way you like it, make-up or no make-up your choice.

Just be you and the BEST person for you will be the one who accepts you and cares about you for who you are on the inside and outside.

Don't be in a hurry, just live your life as you see fit and that guy who is out there will find you.

There's a song and the lyrics go "I've been waiting for you, and you've been coming to me, for such a long time now..."

You might not understand what that means now, but the point is the Ultimate person for you is working his way through life and you have a better chance of finding that perfect someone by being yourselef than what some guys on here might say they prefer.

Hope that makes sense

 

[King Nothing]

Believe it or not, a decent personality and a sense of humour.
In the looks department, which is what most here are concerned about:
Nice body (doesn't need to be ultra-thin, just slim with some curves)
Nice toned legs
Pretty face and hair with cute features

 

[flex229]

i like intelligent women.

i love blondes,,,and i like my women natural- i'd much rather have a girl with little natural B-cups than big ole' fake D cups. I dont like it when they wear too much makeup...i like the type of girl who looks beautiful when she wakes up in the morning. A good sense of humor is definitely a plus.

My ideal woman needs to be reasonably fit,,yet not compulsive about it to the point to where she looks like a competition bodybuilder...lol...

for me to have a girlfriend,,there has to be some kind of "spark." there shouldnt be any forced conversations or too many uncomfortable silences.

and oh ya, i love women in glasses...

 

[bigtasty25]

women in glasses are mad hot...something about them turns me on LOL...not alot of them in south fla...plenty back home in chicago where i used to live...

 

[badslinky]

A girl with some smarts as well as independent! And when you throw in good looks well thats a keeper!

 

[Colonel Ingus]

A friend's girlfriend (she's in her early 50s, if that matters) was describing her son's last girlfriend to me recently. She said that this girl was beautiful, but not for her son. The son is a vetrinarian (sp?) and is pretty much an outdoors kind of guy. The girl was described as being a knockout, but took about an hour to get "made-up" every day, and very, very status oriented. It's funny that the kid's mom could pick out that this girl was not right for her son by observations like that. This is the kind of stuff that never seems to be as obvious to us as it is to our friends and family.

Anyway, my point is that when you and your "significant other" are together for a while, things like looks and body type seem to decrease dramatically in importance. It's how well you two interact together, how you make each other feel, and how you as a couple handle all that life throws at you. The right person can really make you happy to be alive.

I think that having a partner that is your intellectual equal, is optomistic, adventurous, and still remains compassionate would be pretty much a home run. Avoid the pessimist at all costs. They will find a way to drag you into that hole they live in and taint everything with their negativity.

 

[reno240]

(Talking about a woman. )

I was just wondering..everything is about how guys look here and we poor skirts don't know how you think.

What do you look on a girl?

I mean do guys like ripped girls, or normal bodies, or extra baggage, big ass, large girls, small boobs, big boobs, real tits, fake tits, long hair, short hair, hair color, eyes, race, accent, hobbies, occupation, education, height, dress youthfull/casual or more sophisticated/elegant, lot of skin, no skin, make-up, nail polish, etc.

How do you decide if someone's an in-bed-friend or girlfriend material?
Do you burn the candle from both end and approach multiple women just in case the No1 don't hook up or you have one target at a time?

One that says, "Yes!"

 

[rusbus01]

if a girl has a hot face she can get away with a so so body
if she looks like lurch she better have some fake titties and perfect body

nice teeth are essential tans always nice

personality wise layed back works for me
ill usuallt want a girl more if she doesnt seem to intrested and is good looking
its all about keepin me intrested and me having a callenge
thats just me

however what i look in a potential girlfriend is morals i need a girl who i catrust 100% she needs to be a care taker and like spotting me in the gym at 5 am when i lift lol o yeh cook all my meals