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HumanTarget said:
i spent a few weeks in Maine a few years ago. fucking Red Apples. or whatever those stores were with the red hot dogs. food there was awesome. nice scenery. if you want to get away from everything, and i mean everything, go to Maine. and, wtf is with everyone naming their kid Dakota? we were at some beach and someone yelled out Dakota and like 8 kids turned around and said "What?".........and is it a law requiring all girls to be pregnant at the age of 16? is that how they get a drivers license?
lol i hate this place , i cant wait till my time is up so i can leave
 
hotzie said:
lol i hate this place , i cant wait till my time is up so i can leave
everyone there was Mel-low. i bet you guys rock the ganj hadcore. yeah, you smokadapot.
 
velvett said:
THOSE TOO!?

WTF?

That's not normal.

Dammit, tell me something honest - disagree with me and tell my why, make me think about something is a new way, tell me that you have had a really shitty day and why and then tell me how good it feels to get that off your chest.

BE REAL
BE RAW
BE HONEST even if it hurts.

:chomp: BAM! :chomp:

This is why Velvett is a mod.
 
also, i'd to clarify the whole kid thing, atleast with me. i had an ex with an 8 year old son. i fucking miss him more than i could ever miss that...........mother of his. you seem to lose more when those kinds of relationships fail.....
 
HumanTarget said:
when it comes to GF/BF?
if they dated too many guys?
if they dated outside their race?
if they have kids?
divorced?
greedy, uncouth whore???

twice, i've had GF's that i later found out had been with a few too many guys for me to be cool with. i pretty much can deal with other things, but you can't unscrew things, ya'mean?

When he's a LIAR (*caugh caugh* HOTZIE)
 
HumanTarget said:
also, i'd to clarify the whole kid thing, atleast with me. i had an ex with an 8 year old son. i fucking miss him more than i could ever miss that...........mother of his. you seem to lose more when those kinds of relationships fail.....
my brother was with a girl who had a few kids..had a baby right before they got together.he was with her untill the girl was 10 she called him dad and every thing..shit went down hill and they split.my brother moved to TX...Crushed this little girl...And him as well.He tried so hard to stay in touch with her but her mother would irritate the hell out of him.I felt bad for both him and the little girl.Still to this day she asks for him she calls my mom all the time looking for his new number..he mails her letters with no return addy on it and the mother takes them all and wont let her see it.she claims that not knowing where my brother is and not being able to write back kills her daughter!
 
HumanTarget said:
also, i'd to clarify the whole kid thing, atleast with me. i had an ex with an 8 year old son. i fucking miss him more than i could ever miss that...........mother of his. you seem to lose more when those kinds of relationships fail.....


really? Honestly, I can never see myself taking care of someone elses kid. I know that what I just said sounds terribly wrong
 
foreigngirl said:
really? Honestly, I can never see myself taking care of someone elses kid. I know that what I just said sounds terribly wrong
i could , i fuckin love kids
 
foreigngirl said:
really? Honestly, I can never see myself taking care of someone elses kid. I know that what I just said sounds terribly wrong
how do ya tell a kid he's never gonna have a dad?
 
velvett said:
Dearest Hot Wheels,

And I say that affectionately because those are some lickable legs and I may even mean in a completely lezzy way- they are that hot.

I've always felt this way:

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=2706195&postcount=11

Yours truly,

wordy rambling first day back on diet and gonna DIE girl.

Even then, you had it.

A little visual for you:

Velvett & Short1 sit at desks next to each other in a school room. They are each given the same though provoking question, and are told to write their answers out on a single sheet of paper. 30 minutes to complete.

{Short1}
Starts writing furiously. Stops. Crosses out her answer. Writes furiously again. Wads up paper and throws it on floor. Breaks pencil. Rummages for new one in messy desk. Repeats this process right up until minute 28. Lightbulb goes off over her head and she writes her answer in horrible handwriting on her last piece of paper with 1 inch pencil nub.

{Velvett}
Opens briefcase and chooses her finest pen & one sheet of vellum paper. Pauses briefly for effect. Writes one sentence in beautiful, looping script without any spelling mistakes. Hands paper in at minute 3.
 
foreigngirl said:
thats fucked up. I really dont know what would I do if my husband had illegitamit kid before he married me.
well, this kid never met his biological father. i was the only guy who stuck around long enough to be anything even close to a dad to him.
 
foreigngirl said:
really? Honestly, I can never see myself taking care of someone elses kid. I know that what I just said sounds terribly wrong
i could..if need2 had kids before me i wouldnt think any thing less of him...i def would not have the kid call me momma or what ever but i would be there for it.And i would expect the same out of need2...
 
velvett said:
THOSE TOO!?

WTF?

That's not normal.

Dammit, tell me something honest - disagree with me and tell my why, make me think about something is a new way, tell me that you have had a really shitty day and why and then tell me how good it feels to get that off your chest.

BE REAL
BE RAW
BE HONEST even if it hurts.
this doesnt translate well from greek but...FINALLY a woman who has some blood running through her! bloodless, doll like, sterile, dry bitches (like toast) drive me crazy. they need to be managed, like children, instead of having a great big brawl, yelling and screaming, and working it out properly like two people who care about each other really should

anyway for me the deal is broken as soon as i have less respect for her than i do for myself...and i am very harsh with myself. if you want to fuck, then by all means fuck...but dont disrespect yourself when you do it (ie the whole town finding out that you had 5 flings with 5 low class guys in 5 weeks and let them take pictures, then having your family find out and be mortified) if you want to swear, then do it - but not in front of your kids or your parents (who get upset to hear you do it). have strong convictions, and stand by them, regardless of cost. you want to lie, then lie (hell i lie like a champ) but do it for a reason - manipulate a business deal, handle a client/customer properly, soothe someones feelings (for the right reasons) by omitting certain truths or spinning it a bit. lies can be alright, depending on intent, and outcome.
 
FG- are you saying that if bagwell castro (your hubby sorry i dont know his name) ever passed away that you would expect to be single forever???? If you couldnt tend to one of his previous children then how would another guy tend to yours???
 
Angel said:
FG- are you saying that if bagwell castro (your hubby sorry i dont know his name) ever passed away that you would expect to be single forever???? If you couldnt tend to one of his previous children then how would another guy tend to yours???
Foreign chicks are strange like that.
 
hotzie said:
or we could leave her at home and i could come down to boston and we could go get some strange :evil:
no way..dudes you guys pay for my sitter and i will ride with you and when we get to a bostonian club i can be you's little sister!!! sound like a plan? And the first one to snag a lady or a guy gets the car while the other 2 have to walk home!!!!!!!
Oh and i will honk as i drive by you both
 
HumanTarget said:
well, this kid never met his biological father. i was the only guy who stuck around long enough to be anything even close to a dad to him.


thats bad. Its not the kids fault for that. Its his parents fault.
 
Angel said:
FG- are you saying that if bagwell castro (your hubby sorry i dont know his name) ever passed away that you would expect to be single forever???? If you couldnt tend to one of his previous children then how would another guy tend to yours???


To answer your previous post too: I am not gonna think any less of him either, its just that I can not stand the idea that he created a life with someone else. Looking at that kid will remind me of the kids mom and that my husband had sex with her.


Yes, if Castro died (god forbid), I do plan not to marry again. No other man can take a better care of my kids than their own dad.
 
Angel said:
i could..if need2 had kids before me i wouldnt think any thing less of him...i def would not have the kid call me momma or what ever but i would be there for it.And i would expect the same out of need2...

good answer.


My ex-husband left without warning (and cleaned out the bank account) 2 weeks after my son was born. I got a call a few months later from a detective who told me he'd been arrested in my car with a minor girl and enough drugs to keep him in prison for 16 years.

My son has never seen or talked to his father. I have full custody and he has zero parental rights or visitation. And he never will.

About a year later, my SO cam into the picture. My son considers him his dad, and my SO loves him very much. Without him, my son would have no father.
 
foreigngirl said:
To answer your previous post too: I am not gonna think any less of him either, its just that I can not stand the idea that he created a life with someone else. Looking at that kid will remind me of the kids mom and that my husband had sex with her.


Yes, if Castro died (god forbid), I do plan not to marry again. No other man can take a better care of my kids than their own dad.
wow, girl...i see that no other man can tend to another mans kids but shit.......I already made myself clear that if i pass on that need2 can re marry but under NO circumstances will my child think of the other lady as momma they will know me!!!!! I think children need both a mother and a father in their lives...Well ok a man and a woman roll model, and not some trick on the tv....whether it be an aunt or uncle they need both the 2 genders.....
 
Angel said:
no way..dudes you guys pay for my sitter and i will ride with you and when we get to a bostonian club i can be you's little sister!!! sound like a plan? And the first one to snag a lady or a guy gets the car while the other 2 have to walk home!!!!!!!
Oh and i will honk as i drive by you both
me and need2 tag team you ???
 
foreigngirl said:
To answer your previous post too: I am not gonna think any less of him either, its just that I can not stand the idea that he created a life with someone else. Looking at that kid will remind me of the kids mom and that my husband had sex with her.


Yes, if Castro died (god forbid), I do plan not to marry again. No other man can take a better care of my kids than their own dad.
bull matha fucken shit.you couldent live with out the dick.and if a man was dicken you down real good.and asked you to marry him you would.end of story.
 
needtogetas said:
bull matha fucken shit.you couldent live with out the dick.and if a man was dicken you down real good.and asked you to marry him you would.end of story.
owned4.jpg
 
hotzie said:
me and need2 tag team you ???
Hells no, bro you know that the only reason why you wanna do dat is so that you can feel up my need2's ass. admit it!!!!!! :chomp:
 
HumanTarget said:
A man barely alive......


thats only momentarily, a fase thats gonna go away



needto - you need to understand the part of the world that I come from so you can comprehend my way of reasoning.



Angel - I waited to have kids just because (in case of divorce) I dont want someone else pretending he likes my kid to be around us and then when me and that other person get a new baby, obviously he will neglect the one from another man.
 
needtogetas said:
look bro.you have to have some thing to offer me in retern.you get a hot girl and a 4some is on.but no 2 on one shit.lol
see when all of the world hears a bitch scream it will be need2! all because of this here comment
 
needtogetas said:
look bro.you have to have some thing to offer me in retern.you get a hot girl and a 4some is on.but no 2 on one shit.lol
what hawt chick are you goin to bring , and does angel know about her ?
 
foreigngirl said:
thats only momentarily, a fase thats gonna go away



needto - you need to understand the part of the world that I come from so you can comprehend my way of reasoning.



Angel - I waited to have kids just because (in case of divorce) I dont want someone else pretending he likes my kid to be around us and then when me and that other person get a new baby, obviously he will neglect the one from another man.
it'd be nice. the next girl i decide to date is gonna have her hands full.
 
HumanTarget said:
it'd be nice. the next girl i decide to date is gonna have her hands full.


she better. She needs to start from the very beggining to cook and put the food on the table before calling you for lunch, giving you pampering and treating you like a baby :)
 
foreigngirl said:
she better. She needs to start from the very beggining to cook and put the food on the table before calling you for lunch, giving you pampering and treating you like a baby :)
that's a great idea. she won't be from america, then. my ex was Canadian, awesome girl.
 
HumanTarget said:
that's a great idea. she won't be from america, then. my ex was Canadian, awesome girl.


my arabic friend managed to make a sloppy, messy american white girl into a respectfull housewife :) You need to get it the way you want the relationship to be from the very start, cause when that person gets used to a certain way - they wont change later
 
foreigngirl said:
my arabic friend managed to make a sloppy, messy american white girl into a respectfull housewife :) You need to get it the way you want the relationship to be from the very start, cause when that person gets used to a certain way - they wont change later
oh, i'll beat a bitch now. no more feckin' around. fuck up my eggs, ya gets tha' strap!
 
HumanTarget said:
oh, i'll beat a bitch now. no more feckin' around. fuck up my eggs, ya gets tha' strap!


ya, you need to be very hot for that to work :) j/k




seriously, I get an attitude if his eggs dont taste as they are suppose to :worried:
 
foreigngirl said:
ya, you need to be very hot for that to work :) j/k




seriously, I get an attitude if his eggs dont taste as they are suppose to :worried:
well, i am. but anyway, a girl that can cook is awesome. it sounds trite, but that seriously, is a skill.
 
HumanTarget said:
well, i am. but anyway, a girl that can cook is awesome. it sounds trite, but that seriously, is a skill.


sometimes a skill, sometimes a thing of practice. I didnt know how to make shit, now I make everything out of scratch - even those traditional pastries and those cressent-look-alike things.
 
foreigngirl said:
sometimes a skill, sometimes a thing of practice. I didnt know how to make shit, now I make everything out of scratch - even those traditional pastries and those cressent-look-alike things.

good cooking is an art. Baking is more like chemistry. Once you understand the basics, it's not that hard. My grandma taught me how to bake bread. My mother taught me to cook. I love feeding people. :D
 
foreigngirl said:
sometimes a skill, sometimes a thing of practice. I didnt know how to make shit, now I make everything out of scratch - even those traditional pastries and those cressent-look-alike things.
that's ironic, because i sit around and scratch myself while the woman cooks........
 
HumanTarget said:
that's ironic, because i sit around and scratch myself while the woman cooks........


if you scratch a little faster something might come out




SHORTY - I know...Isnt it a good feeling when after you spend all that time preparing the meal, everyone is eating like crazy :)
 
i threw away my deal breakers long ago because i realised that upon meeting people, deal breakers are nothing more than stereotypes that don't necessarily hold true. It's hard enough meeting quality people as it is.......i don't want to limit myself by not having an open mind.
 
vinylgroover said:
i threw away my deal breakers long ago because i realised that upon meeting people, deal breakers are nothing more than stereotypes that don't necessarily hold true. It's hard enough meeting quality people as it is.......i don't want to limit myself by not having an open mind.
look, meow. sounds like you'll jus' settle for something then, aye?
 
HumanTarget said:
look, meow. sounds like you'll jus' settle for something then, aye?

no not at all, the fact i'm 33 and still single would suggest i'm fussy in my own way, but i try to look for reasons to be with with someone rather than look for reasons not to be if that makes any sense
 
vinylgroover said:
no not at all, the fact i'm 33 and still single would suggest i'm fussy in my own way, but i try to look for good qualities in people rather than discounting them because of perceived deal breakers
yeah, ya know, so did i, until Valentines Day. i went out with a girl cuz i thought she'd be nice. sweet. but she turned out to be psycho. i'm beginning to believe that these deal breakers have a lot to do with how a girl can be, truthfully.
 
HumanTarget said:
yeah, ya know, so did i, until Valentines Day. i went out with a girl cuz i thought she'd be nice. sweet. but she turned out to be psycho. i'm beginning to believe that these deal breakers have a lot to do with how a girl can be, truthfully.

what was the deal breaker on this occasion?
 
vinylgroover said:
what was the deal breaker on this occasion?
omg, bro. this bitch yelled "IT"S MY BIRTHDAY" when we walked into the pub. i flinched like a mofo and looked at her like she was fucking cracked. then, she did it again. twice. she didn't lift a finger to pay for a single round and didn't acknowledge the waitress, only to take a drink out of her hand. just about everything. i could make my own thread about this disaster of a date. it was a horror.
 
vinylgroover said:
no not at all, the fact i'm 33 and still single would suggest i'm fussy in my own way, but i try to look for reasons to be with with someone rather than look for reasons not to be if that makes any sense
that or you have a funny looking face

also, this is the beginning of teh "settling" process

you need to book a ticket to ellatha asap
 
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