What do you consider a deal breaker....

[H_T_]

when it comes to GF/BF?
if they dated too many guys?
if they dated outside their race?
if they have kids?
divorced?
greedy, uncouth whore???

twice, i've had GF's that i later found out had been with a few too many guys for me to be cool with. i pretty much can deal with other things, but you can't unscrew things, ya'mean?

 

[Lestat]

right now here are things that turn me off to someone new:
divorced
have kids already
un educated
immature
not smart
selfish

I don't really care how many guys they have been with, or what race those guys were, just so long as its not HUNDREDS of dudes.

 

[starfish]

If I catch you lying to me....bye bye

 

[javaguru]

Ignorance and stupidity.....Ugly too, but I assume that was assumed....

 

[alien amp pharm]

won't give blowjobs

 

[H_T_]

If I catch you lying to me....bye bye

but if you don't, it's all good???

 

[starfish]

but if you don't, it's all good???

You can try...lol

I'm very good at reading people though.

 

[EnderJE]

If I was looking, then I'd go with JG's answer. But I'd also include kids.

 

[H_T_]

You can try...lol

I'm very good at reading people though.

so am i. but some people lie about silly things. like i tell you i was combing my hair when truly, i was masterbating......does that count?

 

[eat big]

A few things:

Fucked a friend
Doesn't have ambition
Party too much
Smokes

 

[big4life]

You can try...lol

I'm very good at reading people though.

Have you called summer and cali to check on their new home yet?

 

[Dial_tone]

You can try...lol

I'm very good at reading people though.

Have you read me yet?

 

[starfish]

Have you called summer and cali to check on their new home yet?

They had a great flight. They were not stressed out at all. They are in DC. I'm bummed.

How far of a drive is it from SC to DC?

 

[theoak01]

jealous
immature
parties every weekend
does drugs-im avoiding them so I cant have it around me
selfish

 

[starfish]

Have you read me yet?

You are a big softie!

 

[KillahBee]

divorced
has kids
is a slut
is an attention whore
doesn't give me as much as I give her
makes me wear a rubber

 

[needtogetaas]

jealous
immature
parties every weekend
does drugs-im avoiding them so I cant have it around me
selfish

ya I fucken hate jealousy

 

[novamanms]

I agree with a lot of the things already posted.

Smell, oddly, makes a big difference to me. If a girl smells bad, or doesn't have distinct smell at all, I would worry.

I don't trust people I can't smell.

 

[hotzie]

divorced
has kids
is a slut
is an attention whore
doesn't give me as much as I give her
makes me wear a rubber

agreed , throw bad teeth on the list and its perfect

 

[eat big]

Older than 12.

 

[needtogetaas]

Older than 12.

na thats no big deal.

 

[H_T_]

how about being loud? and how their voice sounds? i guess that would fall under impolite.

 

[starfish]

Long fingernails on a guy....

Selfish

Arrogant

 

[KillahBee]

how about being loud? and how their voice sounds? i guess that would fall under impolite.

I'm loud as fuck, but voice and accent are big for me. this chick I was just with had that raspy voice and it was SO SEXY.

 

[H_T_]

Long fingernails on a guy....

Selfish

Arrogant

who the fuck has got long fingernails? what guy? is he a vampire?

 

[hotzie]

how about being loud? and how their voice sounds? i guess that would fall under impolite.

loud and no manners , i hate chicks that cuss like a dude and are disrespectful

 

[H_T_]

I'm loud as fuck, but voice and accent are big for me. this chick I was just with had that raspy voice and it was SO SEXY.

i'm talkin' like Fran Drescher and shit. a voice that would make you skip morning coffee.....

 

[starfish]

who the fuck has got long fingernails? what guy? is he a vampire?

LMAO!


I dunno...I saw a guy at the store yesterday who had overgrown fingernails and it was nasty. Nasty = dealbreaker so I posted that.

 

[theoak01]

ya I fucken hate jealousy

nothing worse imo

I could tolerate the rest but to not have enough trust in me to not be jealous is a definite deal breaker,trust is everything

 

[KillahBee]

i'm talkin' like Fran Drescher and shit. a voice that would make you skip morning coffee.....

agreed

 

[H_T_]

loud and no manners , i hate chicks that cuss like a dude and are disrespectful

yeah, i guess that falls under Javas. but yeah, a girl who swears, that is honestly letting you know she lacks any intelligence or class.

 

[Kakdiesel]

My list:

Lies (i hate lies)
Cheats
Dresses like da Brat
Does coke without me
Talks in terrible ghetto slang

 

[KillahBee]

I need a girl that swears. I grew up with it.

I recently dated a younger chick from Delaware and she HATED when I swore. I found her behavior quite dramatic and childish.

It's a FUCKING word, hun. Get over it.

Oh, and tell Jesus to kiss my fuggin ass if he has a problem with it.

 

[H_T_]

yeah, i guess that falls under Javas. but yeah, a girl who swears, that is honestly letting you know she lacks any intelligence or class.

like Frisky.

 

[theoak01]

I need a girl that swears. I grew up with it.

I recently dated a younger chick from Delaware and she HATED when I swore. I found her behavior quite dramatic and childish.

It's a FUCKING word, hun. Get over it.

Oh, and tell Jesus to kiss my fuggin ass if he has a problem with it.

thats really a deal breaker for you? I mean I curse like a sailor but if a girl didnt like it id cool it around her or do my best

 

[Lestat]

add smokes to my list too (ciggs)

 

[H_T_]

I need a girl that swears. I grew up with it.

I recently dated a younger chick from Delaware and she HATED when I swore. I found her behavior quite dramatic and childish.

It's a FUCKING word, hun. Get over it.

Oh, and tell Jesus to kiss my fuggin ass if he has a problem with it.

 

[hotzie]

I need a girl that swears. I grew up with it.

I recently dated a younger chick from Delaware and she HATED when I swore. I found her behavior quite dramatic and childish.

It's a FUCKING word, hun. Get over it.

Oh, and tell Jesus to kiss my fuggin ass if he has a problem with it.

i dont mind a chick that swears with me and my friends , just dont do it like crazy when we're in public

 

[KillahBee]

thats really a deal breaker for you? I mean I curse like a sailor but if a girl didnt like it id cool it around her or do my best

hell no. I honestly tried with this broad and she really stopped being a baby about it after a while.

And you wanna know the funniest thing? The girl said the NASTIEST shit in bed. Amazing.

 

[H_T_]

LMAO!


I dunno...I saw a guy at the store yesterday who had overgrown fingernails and it was nasty. Nasty = dealbreaker so I posted that.

was it a health food store? i see the most UN-healthy people inhabiting health food stores. they look absolutely ghastly....

 

[Raina]

It seems that my list just increases over time. No ambition would probably top the list though. I think i care more now if people take good care of themselves too. Fitness is way too much of my life for someone I was seeing not to be a part of.

Anything could really be a dealbreaker though. If the vibe isn't just right it won't work.

 

[H_T_]

add smokes to my list too (ciggs)

me too. now. i just quit, i doan' wanna fall back into that shit, ever.....

 

[the-short-one]

I agree with a lot of the things already posted.

Smell, oddly, makes a big difference to me. If a girl smells bad, or doesn't have distinct smell at all, I would worry.

I don't trust people I can't smell.

This is by far, the best answer. Oak comes in second.

The rest of you have narrowed yourselves down to any girl under the age of 14, and older than 12.

 

[KillahBee]

The rest of you have narrowed yourselves down to any girl under the age of 14, and older than 12.

EXACTLY

 

[H_T_]

It seems that my list just increases over time. No ambition would probably top the list though. I think i care more now if people take good care of themselves too. Fitness is way too much of my life for someone I was seeing not to be a part of.

Anything could really be a dealbreaker though. If the vibe isn't just right it won't work.

i swear, fat chicks love me. i must look like their favorite food or something. but i won't date them on the sheer principle of them not giving a damn about themselves. and it's hard to manuever chubbies in bed.

 

[H_T_]

This is by far, the best answer. Oak comes in second.

The rest of you have narrowed yourselves down to any girl under the age of 14, and older than 12.

btw, you're looking younger every day, Darlin'.....

 

[Kakdiesel]

This is by far, the best answer. Oak comes in second.

The rest of you have narrowed yourselves down to any girl under the age of 14, and older than 12.

i resent that. dont be condenscending about anybody's answers.

we all have our pickiness and list of things we would not want to find in a mate.

everyones answer is perfectly fine. its called PERSONAL PREFERENCE

 

[eat big]

This is by far, the best answer. Oak comes in second.

The rest of you have narrowed yourselves down to any girl under the age of 14, and older than 12.

What's wrong with that?

 

[the-short-one]

btw, you're looking younger every day, Darlin'.....

Fat chicks, huh?

 

[H_T_]

Fat chicks, huh?

what...what do you mean? by that? they do. fat chicks. like me. a lot.

 

[H_T_]

i resent that. dont be condenscending about anybody's answers.

we all have our pickiness and list of things we would not want to find in a mate.

everyones answer is perfectly fine. its called PERSONAL PREFERENCE

easy now. relax. find your center. and have some ginseng.

 

[nycgirl]

In no particular order:

Kids
Uneducated
Lives @ home with his mommma
Conservative attitude towards sex
Selfish attitude towards sex
Insecure
Attention Whore
IGNORANT
Use of drugs for recreational purposes
No Job
Lies
Cheats
Smokes
Bad Hygiene
Lack of Pride

 

[H_T_]

In no particular order:

Kids
Uneducated
Lives @ home with his mommma
Conservative attitude towards sex
Selfish attitude towards sex
Insecure
Attention Whore
IGNORANT
Use of drugs for recreational purposes
No Job
Lies
Cheats
Smokes
Bad Hygiene
Lack of Pride

so that's what happened.

 

[nycgirl]

so that's what happened.

What do you mean?

 

[the-short-one]

what...what do you mean? by that? they do. fat chicks. like me. a lot.

What do you look like? Are you just so massively huge (in a muscular way! i'm not calling you fat, man) that you make fat chicks look small? That's probably why they like you.

 

[H_T_]

What do you mean?

lol, jus' teasing. what's up with the lack of pride thing? is that ethnic? cuz i'll regularly check the coin slot in pay phones when walking past.....

 

[needtogetaas]

What do you look like? Are you just so massively huge (in a muscular way! i'm not calling you fat, man) that you make fat chicks look small? That's probably why they like you.

so thats why they like me.hmmmmmm

 

[Cutiebaby]

if i were to date it would be:
-no lying, first lie would be last
-too much pride
-lack of sense of humor
-boring in bed
-mama's boy
-lack to take on responsibilities
-drugs i absolutely hate them

 

[big4life]

I assume that there is the attraction there to begin with, then the deal breakers would be lying, and lack of loyalty.

 

[nycgirl]

lol, jus' teasing. what's up with the lack of pride thing? is that ethnic? cuz i'll regularly check the coin slot in pay phones when walking past.....

My ex and current beau are white, so it isn't an ethnic thing. LOL

I don't think that's a good example (I don't see anything wrong with it). There is nothing wrong with someone having self-respect. You can have it without being an arrogant ass.

 

[MILF69]

Well everyone on this thread seems to hate dating divorced women with kids...this would explain why no one wants MILFY

 

[H_T_]

What do you look like? Are you just so massively huge (in a muscular way! i'm not calling you fat, man) that you make fat chicks look small? That's probably why they like you.

6'3'' 250lb. i had a fecking pack of trannies follow me about at Great Lakes Crossing. my gf at the time said the same thing, that they felt "femme" near me........egad.

 

[H_T_]

Well everyone on this thread seems to hate dating divorced women with kids...this would explain why no one wants MILFY

:kma:

 

[MILF69]

No wonder my life blows!!!

 

[H_T_]

My ex and current beau are white, so it isn't an ethnic thing. LOL

I don't think that's a good example (I don't see anything wrong with it). There is nothing wrong with someone having self-respect. You can have it without being an arrogant ass.

yeah, baby!!! you lika da white meat, ah??? um, i understand what you mean, and honestly, and self-respecting woman shouldn't accept anything less.

 

[BOWTECH]

Well everyone on this thread seems to hate dating divorced women with kids...this would explain why no one wants MILFY

I still love ya MILF

 

[needtogetaas]

No wonder my life blows!!!

lmao.owned.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Well everyone on this thread seems to hate dating divorced women with kids...this would explain why no one wants MILFY

i dont see why guys wouldnt want you because you have kids...you have a great personality and having your children that you take care of shows loyalty and also that you are not selfish at all.....

 

[MILF69]

i dont see why guys wouldnt want you because you have kids...you have a great personality and having your children that you take care of shows loyalty and also that you are not selfish at all.....

Thanks Angel I appreciate that, but so far that hasn't entered their minds. All they see is a hassel. They would rather pass up the best thing that could have ever happened to them because of my two girls then love me for who I am...that means all of me. It fuckin sucks!!!

 

[Cutiebaby]

Thanks Angel I appreciate that, but so far that hasn't entered their minds. All they see is a hassel. They would rather pass up the best thing that could have ever happened to them because of my two girls then love me for who I am...that means all of me. It fuckin sucks!!!

your welcome hun....you need to go find yourself a nice single dad!!!!!!! then you two could have something in comman

 

[needtogetaas]

i dont see why guys wouldnt want you because you have kids...you have a great personality and having your children that you take care of shows loyalty and also that you are not selfish at all.....

feeling bad now ant you.wondering if no one would want you if I was gon.
dont worry girls some one will allways want to fuck you no matter how many kids you have.marry you,want to make a comitment to you.well that another thing.

 

[the-short-one]

6'3'' 250lb. i had a fecking pack of trannies follow me about at Great Lakes Crossing. my gf at the time said the same thing, that they felt "femme" near me........egad.

there ya go. You make fat chicks feel all petite and cute. fat chicks need love, too.



let's see. I don't have too many "deal breakers". The only things I can think of right now are:

1. Men with no common sense & low intellect that still think they're smart.
2. Men lacking a good (and I mean razor sharp) sense of humor.
3. Men who can't handle me. I tent to intimidate. Ask Spongebob.

That's about it.

Looks aren't a huge factor. They can be really HAWT, but dumber than a brick. No good. Or - they get offended by my sense of humor (that they don't quite get) and mistakenly think I'm making fun of them all the time. Which I usually am.

 

[hotzie]

Well everyone on this thread seems to hate dating divorced women with kids...this would explain why no one wants MILFY

ill take u

 

[MILF69]

I still love ya MILF

 

[seizer]

so am i. but some people lie about silly things. like i tell you i was combing my hair when truly, i was masterbating......does that count?

the funny thing is that that is something I WOULD lie about.

HAVE lied about.

 

[Cutiebaby]

feeling bad now ant you.wondering if no one would want you if I was gon.
dont worry girls some one will allways want to fuck you no matter how many kids you have.marry you,want to make a comitment to you.well that another thing.

no you stupid fucktard i was complimenting and giving good words to milf!!!!!!!! jesus christ

 

[H_T_]

there ya go. You make fat chicks feel all petite and cute. fat chicks need love, too.



let's see. I don't have too many "deal breakers". The only things I can think of right now are:

1. Men with no common sense & low intellect that still think they're smart.
2. Men lacking a good (and I mean razor sharp) sense of humor.
3. Men who can't handle me. I tent to intimidate. Ask Spongebob.

That's about it.

Looks aren't a huge factor. They can be really HAWT, but dumber than a brick. No good. Or - they get offended by my sense of humor (that they don't quite get) and mistakenly think I'm making fun of them all the time. Which I usually am.

looks are nice, but i'm old enough to realize that beauty fades. but a nice set of legs lasts forever.

 

[needtogetaas]

no you stupid fucktard i was complimenting and giving good words to milf!!!!!!!! jesus christ

I still love you baby.

 

[MILF69]

ill take u

Thanks Hotzie!

 

[hotzie]

Thanks Hotzie!

dont be worried , its not out of desperation ...really its not

 

[H_T_]

Thanks Hotzie!

do you need a Val for that anxiety?

 

[needtogetaas]

dont be worried , its not out of desperation ...really its not

I shore didnt think so

 

[H_T_]

I shore didnt think so

he's in Maine. i feel so fucking bad for that dude.

 

[hotzie]

do you need a Val for that anxiety?

you got some

 

[the-short-one]

looks are nice, but i'm old enough to realize that beauty fades. but a nice set of legs lasts forever.

amen.

 

[H_T_]

you got some

nah. i do have some Level in the freezer. i prefer Xani's anyway........

 

[velvett]

I don't trust people I can't smell.

QUOTABLE!!!!!!


I don't trust happy people.
It's just not normal to be happy all the time.
So I guess I just hate unhappy people pretend to be happy people so people will be nice to them and make them feel better about themselevs so they might actually become happy during their fake happiness.

 

[hotzie]

nah. i do have some Level in the freezer. i prefer Xani's anyway........

yea xanies are way better , but percs are where its at

btw yea maine is the most depressing place on earth

 

[H_T_]

QUOTABLE!!!!!!


I don't trust happy people.
It's just not normal to be happy all the time.
So I guess I just hate unhappy people pretend to be happy people so people will be nice to them and make them feel better about themselevs so they might actually become happy during their fake happiness.

Valiums strike again! Happy pills for Happy people.

 

[needtogetaas]

he's in Maine. i feel so fucking bad for that dude.

i know one hot girl in main.she used to live in mass thow.

 

[nycgirl]

QUOTABLE!!!!!!


I don't trust happy people.
It's just not normal to be happy all the time.
So I guess I just hate unhappy people pretend to be happy people so people will be nice to them and make them feel better about themselevs so they might actually become happy during their fake happiness.

Don't forget people that are ALWAYS nice.

 

[Cutiebaby]

yea xanies are way better , but percs are where its at

btw yea maine is the most depressing place on earth

nothin but woods

 

[hotzie]

nothin but woods

and fat people

 

[H_T_]

Don't forget people that are ALWAYS nice.

i am always nice.

 

[hotzie]

i am always nice.

...

 

[the-short-one]

QUOTABLE!!!!!!


I don't trust happy people.
It's just not normal to be happy all the time.
So I guess I just hate unhappy people pretend to be happy people so people will be nice to them and make them feel better about themselevs so they might actually become happy during their fake happiness.

somebody get the meds out. Vel, you need a vacation.

 

[seizer]

QUOTABLE!!!!!!


I don't trust happy people.
It's just not normal to be happy all the time.
So I guess I just hate unhappy people pretend to be happy people so people will be nice to them and make them feel better about themselevs so they might actually become happy during their fake happiness.

I hope not. I know too many people like that.

 

[velvett]

Don't forget people that are ALWAYS nice.

THOSE TOO!?

WTF?

That's not normal.

Dammit, tell me something honest - disagree with me and tell my why, make me think about something is a new way, tell me that you have had a really shitty day and why and then tell me how good it feels to get that off your chest.

BE REAL
BE RAW
BE HONEST even if it hurts.

 

[H_T_]

yea xanies are way better , but percs are where its at

btw yea maine is the most depressing place on earth

i spent a few weeks in Maine a few years ago. fucking Red Apples. or whatever those stores were with the red hot dogs. food there was awesome. nice scenery. if you want to get away from everything, and i mean everything, go to Maine. and, wtf is with everyone naming their kid Dakota? we were at some beach and someone yelled out Dakota and like 8 kids turned around and said "What?".........and is it a law requiring all girls to be pregnant at the age of 16? is that how they get a drivers license?

 

[Cutiebaby]

and fat people

is it from eating all the deer,rabbits,and road kill?