dunno why you would want to shave off all that macho, masculine looking man-fur! it adds to your already considerable appeal.
your cuts and mass are still visible thru the hair...and ideal combination!
you and I have about the same hair growth patterns and density. the last time i shaved i was told, in no uncertain terms, that if i shaved again i was sleeping alone.
if you are like me, 6 hours after shaving my pecs resemble 600 grit sandpaper. no wonder your sig other doesn't want you to shave! who wants to rub up against a sheet of home depot sandpaper??