bdog1972 said:
First of all I never said I wanted to do it to try to get over my insecurities. I am fine with what I have, it's just a turn on to see her with another guy, and even though i am sure she is happy with our sex life that dosn't mean that she wouldn't get off good with another guy that is bigger and can last longer than me. All the guy's out there that say they couldn't watch anouther guy with there women what about her with another female? I bet you would watch that, and another female probably would get your girl off way better than you or another guy could.
BDog, lemme tell ya a little secret:
The problem with fantasies is just that they are that:
FANTASY. My personal observation, nine times out of ten the reality isn't HALF as thrilling as the concept.
Now, bear in mind I'm saying the following lightly, not judgementally or critically: If y'all wanna swing, go swing, but don't justify it by saying, "my penis is too small and I prematurely ejaculate so let's have sex with someone else so
MY WIFE CAN HAVE A BETTER ORGASM." No, you wanna swing because you wanna swing so just swing, but keep the thought in mind, just like having children, it doesn't fix a bad marriage and it usually makes a fragile one even more insecure (not speaking from experience, it just stands to reason).
But bigger dicks that last forever are called DILDOs. Ain't NO natural man can compete with the miracles of modern technology.
And finally, no, my husband would NOT be turned on by watching me with another person, male
or female. Like most couples, we've had this discussion, the final concensus: the "creep me out" potential is too high on both sides. It would just be too damn
weird to be a turn on.