bros, I appreciate the advice and I agree.... but here is the thing... she has been on the pill a long time and probably will not ovulate for a good while(or at least this is what the doctor says).... and we can only try through the month of November otherwise she will be delivering during her clinicals(nursing stuff) and she won't be able to finish them.... so we will have to wait until next year... so you see I just want to make sure I keep my shit up but I'd still like to start my cycle because it may be next November before she ovulates..... or she might ovulate tonight?? Anyway I'm torn... thanks