VIRGIN ASS - Help us with ANAL sex and other ass play please.

[Deadz]

I have been asked to take the high road and I am seeking directions.

Help me. Her ass is so tiny and though I'm not Holmes I still don't see how it's going to be possible. This is really my biggest concern.

Do we need a condom if there is Zero risk of disease? Is it easier to make it fit?

Lots of lube? What kind? Oil, KY, etc...

I would truly appreciate some tips please.

Any ass play techniques would be appreciated.

 

[notoriousQQ]

baby steps. just like what about bob.

you have got to start out with little things, like giving her the rim job (running your tongue around her asshole and in a little bit) while giving her head. Progress on to inserting your little pinky finger or use your thumb and kind of just use the tip of it so massage in a circular motion while eating her out. Just over the course of a couple weeks just slowly start bring her ass in to play more and more. K Y, astroglide, lotion, whatever, just use something cause the ass doesn't self lubricate.

what are condoms?

 

[Friscochick]

I have been asked to take the high road and I am seeking directions.

Help me. Her ass is so tiny and though I'm not Holmes I still don't see how it's going to be possible. This is really my biggest concern.

Do we need a condom if there is Zero risk of disease? Is it easier to make it fit?

Lots of lube? What kind? Oil, KY, etc...

I would truly appreciate some tips please.

Any ass play techniques would be appreciated.

Hi there!

Well this is right up my "alley" per say hee hee...

Ok, If she's never done it and is willing that is the first step! I would start off extremly slow, While your having sex, and she's already really into in (important) otherwise she could become annoyed or distracted if not warmed up yet. Slowly start sticking your finger (the tip) in her ass and when she is cumming stick it in more and more (slowly). Try that for a couple weeks depending how much you have sex and see how she likes it....

If that goes well, make sure when you actually "try" putting your penis in, use alot of KY or Baby oil works ok too. I use Astro Glide, all basically have the same affect. Try the laying down position first. "the spoon position" where she is on her side with one legs slightly up and you in back of her with her leg bent and laying over your hip. Have her peel her buttcheeks, and ask her to consintrate on something else, tell her to take deep breaths and try to relax.. Tell her the more she tenses the more she is going to hurt and the more possibility she has of hurting the shit out of your penis. SLOWLY!!!! push and kinda wein your way in, when it finally pops in, stop and slowly work your way in, until she is comfortable. Thenm work your way from there. I honestly wouldn't recomend using any other position for at least a month or two dpending on how comfortable she is...

PS: Set the mood, light candles and music... something to relax her. She'll be in for a long night! OHH.. and do try to wear comdoms.. and make sure they are the ULTRA ULTRA thin ones, there is a possbility of bladder infections amoung other things from anal.

Frisco-

 

[drgoodbody]

alright bro...

as an assman, I could go on for hours about how to eat ass, and warm up that tight little perfect pinkish orifice before sliding a fat lubed cock balls deep into it.... but I won't. I'll just try and keep it simple:

1) lots of foreplay (kissing, titty sucking and eating pussy endlessly) to get her hot and relaxed before going down on her ass.

2) Eat that ass! There's a thread on this, read it!! While you're munching on her ass make sure you slide a finger into her pussy and keep her relaxed and hot!

3) Gently carress her asshole with a wet finger in a circular motion, just to start loosening it up a bit. You need to intersperse this eating her ass/pussy. Again, patience is key!!!

4) Slowly work your wet finger into her asshole... this has to be SLOWLY!!! And keep eating her pussy while you do it, that way her pussy will be stimulated and she won't solely focused on her ass. At this point if she's uncomfortable or in any pain it's likely because you didn't warm her up enough... so you can either go back a step or 2 or just give it up for night and proceed to the pussy as originally scheduled . Whatever you do, DON'T PUSH HER !!!!! Can't stress that enough - women have got to be relaxed and trusting before they'll give up that ass! So if she says stop, then STOP... and try again on another occassion (assuming she's ok with it).

5) Once your finger is entering her ass, keep working it slowly in a circular motion and go in/out gently at first. Also get a finger in her pussy while you do this, and lick her clit simultaneously She'll loosen up nicely if you work this for a bit (and again, stop if it hurts her). Don't go too deep at first, just work it in a little at a time. After a few minutes she'll hopefully be ready to go

6) I like to hit it doggie style, but you can do it with her missionary too, sometimes that's easier. I like to get a few strokes in the pussy before hand, just gets her that much more excited. So fuck her a bit, but not for too long as you want to get to that ass before it tenses up again. Now LUBE UP really, really well, and use your finger again with lube on it to re-enter her ass. Our fav lube is Astroglide, it's water based and works well with condoms (which you should use if you're not 100% sure about STD's). Then lube up your dick, and slowly, very slowly, start to penetrate her. At first, she'll probably feel like its too much for her to take, but go slowly and gently and work it in...Once you've got the head in, keep moving slowly... you generally can't fuck her ass as violently as you can her pussy, so be patient in the beginning.

At this point you should be fucking her ass nicely, slowly at first and then faster, deeper, and more aggressively. Keep lubing up if you need to and have her rub her clit or finger her pussy while you fuck her ass-- that'll send her over the top!

Anyway, that's one approach that's worked for me, good luck, and enjoy!!!!!

DrG

 

[Friscochick]

D-

PS.. HAHA I do side bends in front of the dumbells!!!! HAHAHAHA

 

[drgoodbody]

Re: Re: VIRGIN ASS - Help us with ANAL sex and other ass play please.

Hi there!

Well this is right up my "alley" per say hee hee...

Frisco... I should fuck you in your tight little ass...

DrG

 

[Friscochick]

Re: Re: Re: VIRGIN ASS - Help us with ANAL sex and other ass play please.

Frisco... I should fuck you in your tight little ass...

DrG

LOL! Wasn't expecting that! Feeling a lil frisky this morning DR!

 

[TheProject]

Just a suggestion...best lube ever...doesn't dry sticky, moisturizes. Good stuff.

http://www.adameve.com/product.asp?...e&category_name=SS_Lubes_Anal&product_id=1786

 

[drgoodbody]

Re: Re: Re: Re: VIRGIN ASS - Help us with ANAL sex and other ass play please.

Feeling a lil frisky this morning DR!

Does it show? Besides, who can resist a women who likes to fucked in the ass... I know I can't. Peel those cheeks baby...

DrG

PS: Dial - my long lost brotha.

 

[Friscochick]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: VIRGIN ASS - Help us with ANAL sex and other ass play please.

Does it show? Besides, who can resist a women who likes to fucked in the ass... I know I can't. Peel those cheeks baby...

DrG

PS: Dial - my long lost brotha.

HAHAHA i guess it was just by chance.. i didn't know it was going such a wonderful experience for me! HEE HEE


DIAL- love ya too !

 

[ajtomasi]

When I first tried anal on a girl she blacked out and then collapsed right in front of me.

That was cool. At first I thought I had killed her and I'd have to explain to her mom, but she woke up in a few seconds and she was just crying so everything was fine.

Haven't tried it since...

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

1st time doing anal-- lots of Lube & even more booze... LOL!!

personally-- Ive heard too many probs w/anal (like bleeding/ tearing).. no thanks

 

[vinylgroover]

1st time doing anal-- lots of Lube & even more booze... LOL!!

personally-- Ive heard too many probs w/anal (like bleeding/ tearing).. no thanks

You're right.......my ass wouldn't stop bleeding one time.

 

[Friscochick]

You're right.......my ass wouldn't stop bleeding one time.

ewww! Sweets that is bad. Well whatever the case,
MRS BH- its defeintly not for everyone thats for sure... But if done right and slowly it can be quite enjoyable..

Us humans get bored! LOL Start venturing out! To new holes hee hee hee

 

[vinylgroover]

ewww! Sweets that is bad. Well whatever the case,
MRS BH- its defeintly not for everyone thats for sure... But if done right and slowly it can be quite enjoyable..

Us humans get bored! LOL Start venturing out! To new holes hee hee hee

LOL, just kidding ....thought it was time to inject some humour into this thread.

Frisco sweetie babes, i dream of dropping a hot load on your asshole just as i pull out and then dip just the head back in at least 3 times a day.

 

[Deadz]

Wow. Great responses guys.

I guess this is the game plan.

1) lube and booze
2) make sure we both clean and exp. with ass munching and fingering
3) when fingering the ass do it slowly and use a circular motion
4) after having played with her ass with my fingers for a couple of weeks attempt to put in 'me'
5) work number 4 slowly
6) keep y'all updated!

 

[drgoodbody]

If it hurts he ain't taking his time and treating it the way a booty needs to be treated.

Exactamundo my brotha
Not sure why so many guys just don't get it....oh well, more ass for patient dudes like me

Oh, and Frisco when do you want to get your ass hammered? LMK

DrG

 

[VooDoo Lady]

get drunk, and have lot's o'lube on hand. I have found that does the trick.

 

[Puddles]

get drunk, and have lot's o'lube on hand. I have found that does the trick.

LOL...our first successful ass fucking was in Cancun years ago. I'd wanted to do it for a long time. Well...one afternoon I got totally toasted in the pool bar. When Stromba finally got me up to the room, I guess I broke out the vasseline (not the best lube but it's what I had with me) and he plunged in. I have a slight recollection of pain and then intense pleasure but I also passed out...not sure if it was from too many drinks or the ass fucking. LOL It was a while before we did it again, we didn't discuss it but he thought he hurt me so he didn't try again....I thought he didn't enjoy it so I didn't pursue it....communication is sooooo important! After a while one of us brought it up and subsequent attempts got better and better...it's now something I long for and although initial penetration remains painful, I know how wonderful it's gonna be in a minute or two. If at first you don't succeed, try try again!

Mmmmm...it's about time for a good ass fucking here.

 

[Friscochick]

LOL...our first successful ass fucking was in Cancun years ago. I'd wanted to do it for a long time. Well...one afternoon I got totally toasted in the pool bar. When Stromba finally got me up to the room, I guess I broke out the vasseline (not the best lube but it's what I had with me) and he plunged in. I have a slight recollection of pain and then intense pleasure but I also passed out...not sure if it was from too many drinks or the ass fucking. LOL It was a while before we did it again, we didn't discuss it but he thought he hurt me so he didn't try again....I thought he didn't enjoy it so I didn't pursue it....communication is sooooo important! After a while one of us brought it up and subsequent attempts got better and better...it's now something I long for and although initial penetration remains painful, I know how wonderful it's gonna be in a minute or two. If at first you don't succeed, try try again!

Mmmmm...it's about time for a good ass fucking here.

Thats right! keep on truckin!!!!

 

[The Shadow]

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[TheDarkSideNinja]

DAMN....

Ive only been lucky enough to hit 2 girls from the backside a.k.a up the shitter haha. I gotta find where all the butt sluts are hehehe

 

[BigBazooka]

Re: alright bro...

you generally can't fuck her ass as violently as you can her pussy, so be patient in the beginning.

I dated a naughty slut who always wanted me to pound her ass very hard and fast. It sometimes freaked me out too, 'cause before her, I don't think I never fucked anyone's pussy as hard as this hoe's ass.

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

DAMNNNN

I'm prolly lookin in the wrong places!!! I'm busy as F*** all the time so maybe that can be it. Although the 2 girls i did do in the crapper it was beacuse of me that they even ever thought of it. I think i kurrupted the shit out of them literally LMAO hahaha Where do yall find babes that take it up the @$$ besides on this board??? They seem scarice these days!!! ~JT~

 

[greenie]

Not sure if this is an option, but (no pun intended!). When my husband and I do anal, it's far more enjoyable for me if I am masterbating at the same time. Tell her to try it, the first few times we did it, it made it much more enjoyable.

 

[Gretak9]

I bought my girlfriend a butt plug to wear (Doc Johnson's Slim Medium Butt Plug) while we were having vaginal/oral sex. After 3 or 4 times of that she was used to having something in there and I could take it slow at first then tear that shit up. I've never gotten my girlfriend off from vaginal penetration but I have from anal phuking!

 

[Friscochick]

Re: DAMN....

Ive only been lucky enough to hit 2 girls from the backside a.k.a up the shitter haha. I gotta find where all the butt sluts are hehehe

HEY! So why do woman who like anal sex have to be labled as "sluts" hmm? You see why woman don't open up to you pea headed men??

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Noooooooo.....

Frisco baby its not like that. Look here hun callin a "girl" a butt slut is just nasty language that sometimes turns a man on cause he knows he can do it and feels he has the power to do it if he wants. i would never call a girl a butt slut if i was out somewhere unless i was just messin around. I love girls who take it up the ass soooooooo i love Friscooooooooooo hahaha ~JT~

 

[Friscochick]

Re: Noooooooo.....

Frisco baby its not like that. Look here hun callin a "girl" a butt slut is just nasty language that sometimes turns a man on cause he knows he can do it and feels he has the power to do it if he wants. i would never call a girl a butt slut if i was out somewhere unless i was just messin around. I love girls who take it up the ass soooooooo i love Friscooooooooooo hahaha ~JT~

ok

 

[The Shadow]

hmmm....tried it once.....things just didnt seem to fit properly.

 

[notoriousQQ]

hmmm....tried it once.....things just didnt seem to fit properly.

Too big for you huh. Probably hurt. Did you have any drinks or did he use lube like everyone suggested?

 

[The Shadow]

Too big for you huh. Probably hurt. Did you have any drinks or did he use lube like everyone suggested?

It was that going at you form behind is like flying a 747 thru the grand canyon....it aint the size of the 747 that is the problem

 

[notoriousQQ]

big butthole = good for pooping, bad for anal sex.

 

[andezzz999]

Sometimes you get one chance to go for the shot... don't get excited and fuck it up. If she has a bad experience because you didn't take it slow that will be it for you. Most of you posting seem to understand that ass play is a journey that needs to be taken slowly. If you move to fast it will be taken off the itenarary.

 

[whatevrmn]

I haven't read what's been proffered before, but I'll just say my peace.

If you wanna do her up the ol' dookie chute or vice versa, I suggest going with a smaller sized, round (not penis shaped) vibrater first.

There are two reasons for this: 1)a small vibrater feels much better than a penis in the fact it vibrates and that it is very smooth 2)if you just jamb your dick in there, she won't wanna let you stick anything up there for a while (fucking hurts).

I did the whole jamb your dick up there two years ago. It's taken me this long to get her to agree to it again, so take heed!

It is much easier if you let her start out by sticking the vibrater up your ass first. Yes, it sounds a little gay, but it really doesn't have to be. Ask her to try it on you (lots of lube), and later try it on her. Women are much more receptive when you've tried it first, and a small vibrator up your butt isn't bad. If they hit the right spot it really isn't bad at all.

Anyway, try this and let us know how it goes.

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Damn...

I'm not sure if i would go that far as to let a girl i wanna fuck in the pooper do it to me first. Isn't that considered being a "homo" in layman terms haha The question is whats the difference between putting a vibe up there and a real cock? It just doesn't seem right. Please explain cause this girl wanted to do it to me but i said maybe some other time. I'd rather be the one fuckin her and wearin the pants in the relationship or 1-nite stand haha ~JT~