alright bro...
as an assman, I could go on for hours about how to eat ass, and warm up that tight little perfect pinkish orifice before sliding a fat lubed cock balls deep into it.... but I won't. I'll just try and keep it simple:
1) lots of foreplay (kissing, titty sucking and eating pussy endlessly) to get her hot and relaxed before going down on her ass.
2) Eat that ass! There's a thread on this, read it!! While you're munching on her ass make sure you slide a finger into her pussy and keep her relaxed and hot!
3) Gently carress her asshole with a wet finger in a circular motion, just to start loosening it up a bit. You need to intersperse this eating her ass/pussy. Again, patience is key!!!
4) Slowly work your wet finger into her asshole... this has to be SLOWLY!!! And keep eating her pussy while you do it, that way her pussy will be stimulated and she won't solely focused on her ass. At this point if she's uncomfortable or in any pain it's likely because you didn't warm her up enough... so you can either go back a step or 2 or just give it up for night and proceed to the pussy as originally scheduled
. Whatever you do, DON'T PUSH HER !!!!! Can't stress that enough - women have got to be relaxed and trusting before they'll give up that ass! So if she says stop, then STOP... and try again on another occassion (assuming she's ok with it).
5) Once your finger is entering her ass, keep working it slowly in a circular motion and go in/out gently at first. Also get a finger in her pussy while you do this, and lick her clit simultaneously
She'll loosen up nicely if you work this for a bit (and again, stop if it hurts her). Don't go too deep at first, just work it in a little at a time. After a few minutes she'll hopefully be ready to go
6) I like to hit it doggie style, but you can do it with her missionary too, sometimes that's easier. I like to get a few strokes in the pussy before hand, just gets her that much more excited. So fuck her a bit, but not for too long as you want to get to that ass before it tenses up again. Now LUBE UP really, really well, and use your finger again with lube on it to re-enter her ass. Our fav lube is Astroglide, it's water based and works well with condoms (which you should use if you're not 100% sure about STD's). Then lube up your dick, and slowly, very slowly, start to penetrate her. At first, she'll probably feel like its too much for her to take, but go slowly and gently and work it in...Once you've got the head in, keep moving slowly... you generally can't fuck her ass as violently as you can her pussy, so be patient in the beginning.
At this point you should be fucking her ass nicely, slowly at first and then faster, deeper, and more aggressively. Keep lubing up if you need to and have her rub her clit or finger her pussy while you fuck her ass-- that'll send her over the top!
Anyway, that's one approach that's worked for me, good luck, and enjoy!!!!!
DrG